The greatness of Shri Ram lies in the fact that by exiling Sita he voluntarily chose to be called " a failed and a cruel husband" by coming future generations whereas Sitaji is never doubted and is worshipped as a perfect wife.Shri Ram and Sitaji reside in each other hearts. Ram, the husband, too lived like an ascetic once Sitaji was exiled. He gave up royal comforts and just fulfilled kingly duties.
Coming on to washerman, Shri Ram, the King could have ordered him to take back his wife with dignity but he could only order; he could not dispel the seeds of suspicion from the washerman's heart and this would no way give justice to washerman's wife.
The Lord always knew that Sitaji is a chaste woman otherwise why he would have taken pains to rescue her from Lanka, grieved for her like a lunatic and even accepted Luv Kush as his kids.
But the rest of the world were mere mortals and it was really a precarious situation. Even though the washerman accepted that Sitaji was chaste could the same be said about his wife? Was there any way for that washerwoman to prove her chastity like going for Agni pariksha?
It was destiny's cruel play against Ram and Sita. They would just be King and Queen rather than enjoy as ordinary husband and wife.
Edited by Sweet_Krishna - 12 years ago