Has amit ever been really true to himself?

I am watching this show from it's second week actually ever since amit entered this show and amita-amit story started. Right now i am really surprised and mad at amit since he is never been true to himself forget about others. first he likes snehal and she rejects him so to make him look good he makes up a story which involves amita. amita gets stuck in the situation and bears the heat from amit's mom and the devil saas-bahu trio. if this wasn't enough he states that he will never will be able to love amita and i am thinking amitji snehal is just an attraction not ur first love. come on i bet he doesn't even know her age or last name for that matter 😆. So finally this guy decides to marry amita but now he has issues with her amita and amit's mom makes things worse. poor amita she is on a strict diet and thinking amit loves her. Finally when the marriage is one day away he reads some msg and gets jealous plus he still has feelings for snehal like the way he is happy and sad when snehal tells him that she is single. i am not a amit hater but this guy seriously needs to make u his mind if he really wants to be committed to amita or not because one thing or another he has his doubts which is creating problem for him. he never had the guts to tell his fam the truth about snehal and now when amita is finally happy with the marriage. he believes a random msg and storms off. amita has done soo much and stayed positive but amit keeps changing his mind all the time. amit is intelligent and logical in this show so how can he not figure out that amita was soo busy with the relatives and dance practice then how will she have enough time to write the long message in the middle of her sangeet plus amit was with her most of the time. the message was way too long honestly to be written by amita. he didn't checked the time or the date of the message. leaving the sangeet was too much he should of talked to amita in private or something. it just clearly shows that he is still stuck on snehal after everything and doesn't really understand amita. As for suraj matter, it's the same thing as amit was attracted to snehal but didn't happen so why doesn't he think about it like maybe amita had a crush or something which never developed in love. everyone has crushes like that but he should of talked to her straight up if he had any questions since he is a straightforward guy.

I agree with lot of your points and well for asking Amita straight i am sure he is going to do that!!!

Originally posted by: uniquebluerose

I agree with lot of your points and well for asking Amita straight i am sure he is going to do that!!!

Lets wait and watch i just wish Snehal has said you are not good enough for me...so that he gets a reality check he keeps comparing himself to those good looking and charming cousin andfriendsof his...but he has to realize he is boring or at least pretty normal and not at any prince charming!!!

He thinks he is doing a great compromise in marrying Amita and has to realize she is doing a greater compromise which Snehal or any other girl he thinks is perfect may not do!!!

Agree with you but its falguni's fault too since she keeps giving amit the idea of breaking the relationship with amita. Amit needs a reality check that he is not some hotshot but a simple guy so amita is really a god sent gift for him.