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BarunDiwani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#421

Originally posted by: indi52

if it was long, ami, how come it got over so quickly? 👏 👏 👏 very very very nice, sir. i liked the summing up you did of why the day was the way it was. and that hate affaire, brilliant. it is the most incredible hate affair ever. makes you almost want to have one.

that smile, oh gah i was falling flat and at the same time could almost see him falling falling falling in love with a crazy coot. that time in the closet and the waht the was a place like this in some ways in my head. this mad hatter chick was their any way he could not fall? poor asr.

and please stop calling my sweet tedha choti chamkili parandi wali, cheap downmarket unfashionable. ok? okay? takes guts to be so terribly dressed and still look cute. 😆

okay, are we doing a whole thread on that chest with red blotches on it or not. deserves a novel likely. oh g why is he looking so good and why are you doing this to me.

please see the pink and purple and you'll know what your post was doing to me.

somewhere here i began to go woolly headed. not recovered. the smile reaches his eyes first always. and you can see it.

Oh Indi, i can mmmuuuwaaa you for your first sentence, but you also deserve a hug for going through and commenting so nicely 🤗 of course enjoyed all the pinks and purples, i'm so glad you enjoyed it. you can see why i had trouble cutting out parts? they gave us too many beautiful scene in 4 back to back epis!!!

this type of "hate affair" i would not be able to refuse...sorry hubby!

LOL! trust me i will be the last person to diss on Khushi's style, that's what show us his love for her is beyond all of that...I noticed how he looked for her shoes in that scene and even i know they are not the trendiest things 😆

and about that thread on his red chest...sounds like a plan but we may have to wait till we finish analyzing all 398 episodes...need more time!

you're so right about how his smile reaches his eyes first!! it lovely, his eye are so precious!

A big thank you for reading and commenting and complimenting!

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samin6

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Posted: 12 years ago

#422

Episode 80-81

Do we choose whom we love? Do we love for a reason? I think sometimes but most of the times we just do. Why do I love her and a reason- I just do conclusion. When they say something it strengthens it and when they do something they question why.

Anjali : She was really hurt when Arnav was not even paying attention and hurting La even when Arnav refused to marry La, refused to change his mentality, got angry when shown concern and was thinking- Why does she love him? Then the same night he breaks down hugging her. He starts crying and she gets her answer. She loved chote not because he is her younger brother but because to him she was both parents. She could tolerate anything and would anything to stop him from breakdown. She understood that the talk of marriage so close to her parents Barsi has broken him down. And she understood she loved chote, who by relation was her brother but in all other aspects was her son, whom she loved a lot, whom she loved blindly, and would tolerate all his attitude because after all love is blind and stupid, and Anjali knew only the blind love, not by choice, but because she had to for the sake of happiness of her chote. Because in her son she had given the basis of all her happiness. I never envisioned a sister who could be sweet and the same time intelligent for her brother.

Arnav : When Khushi made a fool of her by pretending to be sick, when Khushi tried hard to evade him, when Khushi gave her a lecture about marriage and her very low opinion about him- He was thinking why on earth was he falling for her? When she came to give her condolences about his mother stating that he looked like her mother, when she taunted about him and puja on the day of his parents death anniversary- he positively hated loving her. In his opinion everything bad happens because of Khushi. Then he saw her when she was lightening the candle and decided there was nothing special, and then had to look back and knew she was special to him. He then kept on looking and got his answer he just loved her. The next day when he was in the mandir and could feel her there- saw her back there, he was hating loving her but still did because his shatir dimag told him to stop trying to find a reason. It told him those moments he spent with her made him forget the pain in his past and that was enough reason for him to love her and continue loving her and tolerate her

Khushi : When Arnav was reminding her of her her status in the house, when he pulled her close , when he hurt her, when La touched the tender bruise- Khushi was hating herself and wanted to hate him. Then when he drew her close to him- she could not push him away, when he willed her to look back at him she just had to. She was asking herself- why do I love him so? She was telling herself why- when he took La with him after all he was the person La loved and she was not going to compete for him. Then in he Mandir she was feeling him strongly around her and had to look back to see him. She had a feeling that he was the utter selfish person who would want all the mannat only for himself. Then She saw he wanted all pigeons for the health of a little girl's dad and finding a small reason not to hate him. She saw how hurt he was when speaking of his parents death and she understood. She loved him and could not leave him because in his view- she belonged to him. She loved him more then herself because he loved her more then himself, she was the only person in the world for him to whom he could tell what he could not tell anyone. She was the only person he could tell- that everyone says they understand what he was going through and no one understands. She was the only one whom he really wanted to understand what he was going though living in a house where his parents are not coming back. She loved him because he needed her and Khushi thought of others before herself always.

We do not really choose whom we fall in love with-- do we?

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Crazy4IPK

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Posted: 12 years ago

#423

@Challovv

beautiful!

Barsi is only done by Gharwale so who is your Gharwali ASR with whom are you or Nani sharing the materials for Barsi puja and who is guiding Khushi DM

DM showed all kind of signs that Arnav and Khushi are made for each other.

tere bina mujhko abb kaun sambhale, gale se laga ley
kee aur meraa koyee nahee
ma mujhe apne...

The lines are so emotional. their is no one like mom in the world.Both Arnav and Khushi are so unfortunate that they lost their mother in tender age.

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supriya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#424

Episode 81

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Crazy4IPK

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Posted: 12 years ago

#425

Originally posted by: chalhov

Reminded me of a parody rhyme as kids we used to sing
left right left right
aage husband peeche wife
pyjama dheela topi tight.😆

Durga brilliant so first ASR accuses Khushi of being a gold digger and now she accuses him of a loose character. Lovely comic parody he says I only

kisiko bhi na cheda hai sirf tumhe cheda hai😉😆

Durga just loved your character dheela parody.

I wished he showed her some character dheelapan. It was actually irking, why his character was too strong! How cum he controlled his libido for six months after sleeping in a same room with a young hot girl, whom he loves immensely.I know he used to hate her, but still? it never happens in real life for sure.In real life people do the stuff first, then they think of hate or whatever.

Gosh Arnav's character was really too strong.You are wrong in this matter Khushi.

@challove, gosh the rhyme is so funny

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

#426

Originally posted by: samin6
Episode 80-81

Do we choose whom we love? Do we love for a reason? I think sometimes but most of the times we just do. Why do I love her and a reason- I just do conclusion. When they say something it strengthens it and when they do something they question why.

Anjali : She was really hurt when Arnav was not even paying attention and hurting La even when Arnav refused to marry La, refused to change his mentality, got angry when shown concern and was thinking- Why does she love him? Then the same night he breaks down hugging her. He starts crying and she gets her answer. She loved chote not because he is her younger brother but because to him she was both parents. She could tolerate anything and would anything to stop him from breakdown. She understood that the talk of marriage so close to her parents Barsi has broken him down. And she understood she loved chote, who by relation was her brother but in all other aspects was her son, whom she loved a lot, whom she loved blindly, and would tolerate all his attitude because after all love is blind and stupid, and Anjali knew only the blind love, not by choice, but because she had to for the sake of happiness of her chote. Because in her son she had given the basis of all her happiness. I never envisioned a sister who could be sweet and the same time intelligent for her brother.

Arnav : When Khushi made a fool of her by pretending to be sick, when Khushi tried hard to evade him, when Khushi gave her a lecture about marriage and her very low opinion about him- He was thinking why on earth was he falling for her? When she came to give her condolences about his mother stating that he looked like her mother, when she taunted about him and puja on the day of his parents death anniversary- he positively hated loving her. In his opinion everything bad happens because of Khushi. Then he saw her when she was lightening the candle and decided there was nothing special, and then had to look back and knew she was special to him. He then kept on looking and got his answer he just loved her. The next day when he was in the mandir and could feel her there- saw her back there, he was hating loving her but still did because his shatir dimag told him to stop trying to find a reason. It told him those moments he spent with her made him forget the pain in his past and that was enough reason for him to love her and continue loving her and tolerate her

Khushi : When Arnav was reminding her of her her status in the house, when he pulled her close , when he hurt her, when La touched the tender bruise- Khushi was hating herself and wanted to hate him. Then when he drew her close to him- she could not push him away, when he willed her to look back at him she just had to. She was asking herself- why do I love him so? She was telling herself why- when he took La with him after all he was the person La loved and she was not going to compete for him. Then in he Mandir she was feeling him strongly around her and had to look back to see him. She had a feeling that he was the utter selfish person who would want all the mannat only for himself. Then She saw he wanted all pigeons for the health of a little girl's dad and finding a small reason not to hate him. She saw how hurt he was when speaking of his parents death and she understood. She loved him and could not leave him because in his view- she belonged to him. She loved him more then herself because he loved her more then himself, she was the only person in the world for him to whom he could tell what he could not tell anyone. She was the only person he could tell- that everyone says they understand what he was going through and no one understands. She was the only one whom he really wanted to understand what he was going though living in a house where his parents are not coming back. She loved him because he needed her and Khushi thought of others before herself always.

We do not really choose whom we fall in love with-- do we?

beautiful, thought provoking post, samin.

why do we love indeed.

and do we really choose the one to love or does it just happen? tough to choose the one to love, i'd say, bit of a calling it is.

i have always been grateful to the writers of this serial, for never ditching that central theme of love and its nature. i think just this afternoon i wrote to someone something like what you say of love here. we live in a world that is increasingly materialistic and transactional. we believe love too is a transaction. i love you because you are... but in reality love never has a because. it just is. and once your heart gives itself to that love, very difficult to be rational about it. ipk brought this nature of pyaar to us. if the world understood love and its power, we'd have a happier place to live in. if i can find that post will direct you there, i think you'll find it interesting.

anjali said to shyam earlier in the serial, that even if la is not the right girl for chhotey, she would still go along with his decision. because she is his sister, she loves him more than anything else, she also trusts him and she doesn't want to lose him, all this gives her perspective and she says what she does. i felt the meaning of love in those words.

asr and khushi bring out the worst in each other all the time, yet nothing can stop them from loving each other. beautiful, isn't it?

that line about returning to a home where your parents are not coming back... brilliant writing, what empathy. hit me hard. in a funny sort of way, yes, maybe he wished she understood. and even if she didn't he felt he had a right to take out all the pent up crazy sadness on her, my right to hurt you. why? on whom do we believe we have such rights? my mother always said, it was only after i'd shouted at someone that she knew i really considered the person mine, and cared for the person. peculiar, isn't it? nothing is simple and as it seems, and khushi begins to realise that after the temple scene.

ok, found the post, here's the link.
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/78848003

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Crazy4IPK

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Posted: 12 years ago

#427

Episode 81

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wow I'm speechless.

You are master at making collages.

And you captured all the best shot of the episode.

Thank you so much for your beautiful comments on my episode analysis of 80 & 81

believe me, I really wished to see Khushi preggy.and of course to see them as parents. both of them lost their parents in their tender age. So it would be a treat to watch them as parents.Sigh so many of our dreams remained unfulfilled!😔

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BarunDiwani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#428

Originally posted by ..Anita..

Episode 78!!!!

The episode starts off with la asking arnav to throw the dupatta at her head'she was saying what khushi said how it signifies those people getting married'arnav is like what rubbish and throws it and as shocking as it is the dupatta lands on khushi 's head completely flying over la(look whose getting married soon). Khushi shows some reluctance in letting the dupatta go'she is thinking about what she said to la'and she is in thinking mode. Khushi takes off the dupatta and as she is taking it off, arnav walks by and he looks at her and then looks at the dupatta'he then walks off. I guess he understood what is happening but refuses to accept it as a sign'Lavanya walks up to her and takes the dupatta from her.
La is depressed that the plan failed'and la was asking if khushi had a boyfriend'khushi was like no I do not have a boyfrand'then la was like about about an ex boyfriend'khushi was like I never has an x, y, z boyfrand'then she is like wait a minute'there is one'la gets excited and tells her to tell her'and she decribes him'la was like wow he must be at a high post'khushi was like he is none other than salman ji'la starts to laught'khushi was like are you happy now'la said yes a little bit but not as much as before. Khushi then turns on the radio and starts dancing and making la dance too'they were dancing with arniekins picture'.they were having fun'then arnav comes and khushi saw him and stops dancing'la is still dancing but eventually she stops and goes to him and arnav is like what is going on'I told you not to become like her but you are becoming like this middle class girl'then jp come and said that khushi has a phone call from home'bua ji tells her to come home quickly'khushi is worried and said she has to go'arnav seemed tense but does not express it'la asked what happened and khushi was like I don't know. And she leaves from there

In the living room, la calls the entire family'mama wants to know why and mami ji was like nani tortured her a lot so maybe it is revenge'la was waiting for arnav and then she said that nani's main problem with me is that we have not thought about marriage'and arnav is like what'la then proposes by saying she will make pasta for him and be with him throught happiness and sadness'and she wants to be his rukmani and not radha'everyone is happy even nani'arnav walks off'and la is sad'la turns to Anjali and said he did not say yes'Anjali said he did not say no either'and look you made nani smile for the first time and la gets happy a bit.

Khushi goes home and finds out that her parents are home and she is maha excited!!!!! Bua ji tells her that shyam brought them here'and she is thankful. Shyam said that he has some work and he has to go'khushi was like I have to go to the bazaar'as khushi was about to leave'she gets a phone call from la saying that she proposed to ASR and he did not say yes'khushi asked if he said not and khushi was like that is good'then they hang up' then the phone rings again and this time it was arnav, he called her angrily knowing it was her who put the idea of marriage into la's head' what does arnav want to say?

Cute breezy post Anita! the purples really stoodout, i agree with you that Arna knew exactly what it meant but i thinki t hit both of the so fact left the speechless. both were looking at eachother like "this is big!" loved how he kept looking at her in that dupatta, he loved her in it.

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BarunDiwani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#429

Originally posted by: supriya.arshi
Episode 81

awww NICE one dear!!! haven't seen this one yet but remember it well, you picked up on the paleness of such a day nicely...just want hug my laad gov😭

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BarunDiwani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#430

Originally posted by: samin6
Episode 80-81

Do we choose whom we love? Do we love for a reason? I think sometimes but most of the times we just do. Why do I love her and a reason- I just do conclusion. When they say something it strengthens it and when they do something they question why.

Anjali : She was really hurt when Arnav was not even paying attention and hurting La even when Arnav refused to marry La, refused to change his mentality, got angry when shown concern and was thinking- Why does she love him? Then the same night he breaks down hugging her. He starts crying and she gets her answer. She loved chote not because he is her younger brother but because to him she was both parents. She could tolerate anything and would anything to stop him from breakdown. She understood that the talk of marriage so close to her parents Barsi has broken him down. And she understood she loved chote, who by relation was her brother but in all other aspects was her son, whom she loved a lot, whom she loved blindly, and would tolerate all his attitude because after all love is blind and stupid, and Anjali knew only the blind love, not by choice, but because she had to for the sake of happiness of her chote. Because in her son she had given the basis of all her happiness. I never envisioned a sister who could be sweet and the same time intelligent for her brother.

Arnav : When Khushi made a fool of her by pretending to be sick, when Khushi tried hard to evade him, when Khushi gave her a lecture about marriage and her very low opinion about him- He was thinking why on earth was he falling for her? When she came to give her condolences about his mother stating that he looked like her mother, when she taunted about him and puja on the day of his parents death anniversary- he positively hated loving her. In his opinion everything bad happens because of Khushi. Then he saw her when she was lightening the candle and decided there was nothing special, and then had to look back and knew she was special to him. He then kept on looking and got his answer he just loved her. The next day when he was in the mandir and could feel her there- saw her back there, he was hating loving her but still did because his shatir dimag told him to stop trying to find a reason. It told him those moments he spent with her made him forget the pain in his past and that was enough reason for him to love her and continue loving her and tolerate her

Khushi : When Arnav was reminding her of her her status in the house, when he pulled her close , when he hurt her, when La touched the tender bruise- Khushi was hating herself and wanted to hate him. Then when he drew her close to him- she could not push him away, when he willed her to look back at him she just had to. She was asking herself- why do I love him so? She was telling herself why- when he took La with him after all he was the person La loved and she was not going to compete for him. Then in he Mandir she was feeling him strongly around her and had to look back to see him. She had a feeling that he was the utter selfish person who would want all the mannat only for himself. Then She saw he wanted all pigeons for the health of a little girl's dad and finding a small reason not to hate him. She saw how hurt he was when speaking of his parents death and she understood. She loved him and could not leave him because in his view- she belonged to him. She loved him more then herself because he loved her more then himself, she was the only person in the world for him to whom he could tell what he could not tell anyone. She was the only person he could tell- that everyone says they understand what he was going through and no one understands. She was the only one whom he really wanted to understand what he was going though living in a house where his parents are not coming back. She loved him because he needed her and Khushi thought of others before herself always.

We do not really choose whom we fall in love with-- do we?

lovely take Samin! just love your hatke takes, you did an awesome job digging in the whys of these relationships. very intriguing. and soo so true, you can't choose who you fall in love with, like Khushi says, DM will take you hand and write you destiny...something Atheis Arnav even can't deny...all the signs the higher powers had sent before he finally surrenders to his feelings.

👏👏👏 LOVED IT! thanks!