Originally posted by: dadi-maa
Hi Misangelic: Hope it's not too late to post reply. Well my love story (37 years ago) was great. His parents and my parents did not agree of our marriage (he was engaged to someone - ARRANGED; and I was already spoken for - ARRANGED) and so a lot of confusion was happening between the two families. (they were not in Canada so it was by telephone - the arguing were going on. The final decision was that my mom would come and take me back home and get me married to the person who they had the ARRANGEMENT WITH.
My mother and my husband (boyfriend at that time) argued everyday when she came to Canada. He would come and shout outside the house, he would cry, he would beg her not to take me back home. On the day of my departure, minutes before I board the plane, a police came up to my mother and myself and said that a report was made that I was FORCED TO GO BACK HOME AND I AM OF AGE TO DO AS I PLEASE. MY MOTHER CANNOT FORCE ME TO GO HOME. JUST THEM MY HUSBAND CAME UP AND SAID THAT I HAVE TO CHOOSE, GOING HOME OR MARRYING HIM. Of course I married and it's been 37 years now, two children, daughter 33 years, son 29 years and two beautiful granddaughters. My husband and I are still in love and my parents and my husband's father and his brothers and sisters are all back together. It is only my mother-in-law who still do not accept me and never will. But that's o.k., my Papa-in-law loves me to death and so do my brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law.
I just want to mention that I have read some people's message and I have to say to them 'DO NOT GIVE UP, THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EACH AND EVERYONE. EVEN IF IT IS NOT MARRIAGE, AND JUST A FRIEND. No one is ugly or fat, we are all God's children and he made us unique.
I will tell you a story about my daughter. She is very beautiful, people thinks she looks like Preety Zinta. Well she was in love at 18years, got engaged only to find out the boy and another girlfriend and child. That broke up. She then so someone else and he got in an accident and died. She was depressed for about six months when she met someone. They dated for six years and when they were about to get married, his father took him back to India and got him married. She was so heart broken that she promised not to marry EVER. After a year, her job required her to have training at a major computer firm. At the classes she met a boy who's company sent him also for the training. He came from India. They started dating and so got married. It was the best thing that happened to her. He is a real prince charming. The boy who went back to India got a divorce and since then married twice. When he divorce the first time, he came back to my daughter, but she said that she don't take "SECONDS".
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