Re epitome of Insecurity and being jealous.
The CVs have NOT been able to sell me RK as a jealous man. Why ? Because a jealous and insecure man creates FEAR in the other objects. I don't see that FEAR in Madhu at all...neither when she was married to him nor when she is separated from him. A jealous person keeps confusing the people around him, raising the fear levels that there comes a time when the other objects become unable to lead their life openly and instead start living the life of the person whom they want to please.
If we go to Soubhagyavati Devo Bhav...you will see that kind of man in Viraj and that kind of fearing woman in Janaki. Here in MEIEJ, I am rarely afraid of RK. Madhu is hardly scared of him. And since unwedding, even Radhaji has started mocking him. So in what sense he is now insecure or jealous man. What does he possess that he has to be insecure about losing? What does he love that he has to be jealous about to feel not getting enough? That is why I call this track as BS. Because questions galore and inherently everything falls and fails.
When Radhaji married and RK had to share his mother with Sikky and see Kukkuji as his father, he had issues...that can be called issues stemming from possessiveness. That is why Radhaji acted guilty. There was a relationship there and it got ruptured and so all kinds of issues. That is why I was saying RK needs to learn to share...atleast now that he patched up with his mom, he can do that. Why ? He told his mother point-blankly that he accepted her (after 17 years) but will not accept the other 3 Bhatias. When one is able to Negate a relationship, then sharing becomes easy as you know when you can give into it as against the forced sharing which happened to him when was the 12 year old kid.
RIshabh Kundra's problem...is he needs to have a say in matters important to him. He needs to be consulted upon and his consent has to be given. If this is not given or he is failed, then he wreaks havoc on all...and this is a consistent trait in him. Even now with MB, its not about jealous etc (which everyone perfectly keep playing...only to be fooling around) ...its about...his consent. He doesn't agree to what's going on. Control freak that he is.
His problem of heightened curiosity to know what's going on in Madhu's life has not happened just like that post revenge. Post Revenge, he tried to make her go away working in front of him through 3 day challenge Track. When that failed...drunken night happened where he ended up knowing that they had a night together, the events of which he cannot remember. And immediately follows her to outdoor location, protects her from a cheapster, has nearly more than 24 hours of staying at that place with her...offshoot, onshoot passive interaction...and all of it was pleasing and not animated or enemy like. After that she goes missing...and he reacts in that doggy manner, has the whole Police Force employed only to find out she came safely home with another man and refusing to divulge anything. If you ask me...its a hit on manliness...as in how would RK feel...when Police Commissioner or other Imp people...assume...So Mr.RK...so your Ex-Wife got back all safe...so hope you knew what happened there...etc...as in how does one feel...not even to know how she went missing and how she came back.
I will never say Madhu is wrong in not giving any information to RK. Even now when she refuses to tell him anything, I hardly raise objections on her behavior. Let me be clear...not even in one single post I have said she should answer RK. Nope...because RK has lost that right. But yes, Madhu has to make it clear to her family, friends and even Sultan. That is my expectation from Madhu. With RK...she should be ..."RK...Bhaad mein jaao Tum...I don't have anything to do with you."...especially when you now act bossy and possessive of me...what rights you have post unwedding drama. Fair and Square...this is how I treat you...You are nothing in my life."
But I will also not say RK is wrong in trying to find out who is that man ? HE doesn't have any right to know, but he can be curious, especially after the remnants of affection displayed between the two post the drunken night. And increasingly he is getting interested in Madhu, because her behaviour is erratic to him...this Madhu is evasive...this is where his not knowing irks him.
Psychologically, the CVs cannot sell me jealousy track at this juncture, when they have no relationship at all...as that fear, morbidity etc is missing from Madhu and the environment alike...we are seeing a good drama here...where we laugh, bash and mock. We don't feel strained, we feel bored. And when do these symptoms rise...when we start withdrawing from the drama...why are we withdrawing...because the man is crying hoarse for consequences created by himself. And where is all this leading to ...COMMITMENT. The guy needs himself to Commit to something over which he has no right, wants to , has no access and so trying to barge in ...whichever way possible. This is forceful intrusion in her life and that is what I am getting bored of ...and sorry I don't see any jealousy or insecurity there...I see only as him losing his emotional control on her...or his other issue of feeling abandoned, left out...He cannot get abandoned, he cannot have people just leave him without them telling him that they are leaving him...and he knows Madhu has not abandoned him out of her will and that is why last night he finally lamented that his love could not hold her back, on which he had banked on his revenge plan/punishment to flourish...that was what he expected to happen and it failed miserably...like at last he showed his secret card...that he thought would allow his drama to go on. Now he is almost there...prepared to lose, relinquish his control on her...but just that he wants a decent fight...so looking for that duelly kind of fight.
We cannot mix up psychological concepts just like that...need to see them structurally...Ai wain...Rishta hai nahin...Jealous hone ka haque de diya logon ne...Rishta banao aur phir pooch lo...that is what Madhu is saying and that is what I agree on also. And this suits his character too...he needs to be consulted on everything and him being slighted when he is interested is not sitting with him...perfectly dogged trait in him...but it cannot be called as jealousy. He did not dream in that way also...for us to have a clue...In his dream too he is concerned and wants to know who that person is and senses danger as Madhu is hynotically leaving him.
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