Salt on My Wounds: Jale Par Namak...Epi Feb 26

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jale Par Namak'.Epi Feb 26

Finally, the day we have all been waiting for is here. Zoya expressed her fears and her story to Mr. Khan. The man, who she knows she can rely on. The man, who is her strength, when she is most vulnerable. The man, who has become her only friend in India. We were lucky to get a great AsYalacious episode. Asad started off really well. He listened to her shayari, gave thought to her mini-sermon (about overcoming sadness with smiles), observed her strange behavior, showed concern about her nightmare, made milky coffee for her, asked her to share her problems. Wow! That was a sixer in the world of friendship Mr. Khan!

Then came the avalanche, Asad had never expected nor was prepared for. Zoya opened out her heart for the first time. One could see the guilt and remorse in his expressions when he realized how ruthless and insensitive he had been towards her. He recalled the moments when he had shred the important piece of information about her Abbu in anger. He probably felt like a jerk #1. Zoya, who got carried away with her emotions, poured out all her feelings and fears, never once looking at him for his reaction. She trusted that if there is one person who could empathize with her, then it was Asad.

So, what does Mr. Akdu do then? Instead of giving her a shoulder to cry, he gets so overwhelmed by his own guilt, that he just walks away from her. He probably had no idea how to react to so many emotions, that too from a girl who he has always been judgmental about.

Zoya, who was already burning with her childhood memories and fears, felt slighted and humiliated when she saw he had just left without saying a word. If I were Zoya, I would feel the same way.

What does he do next morning? He pretends everything is still kosher. Still reeling from his own remorse, he erects barriers all around his heart and emotions- emotionally challenged or unavailable as Zoya would call him.

Loved the scene when he asked her to pass the salt. Perfect symbolism by CVS again- jale par namak chidkana tho koi Asad mian se seekhe.

Zoya, my queesn of expressions didn't hold back her anger. She unleashed out her disappointment and expressed her anger at being humiliated once again by the emotionally challenged, insensitive man.

What does he do? Instead of apologizing, he dismisses her behavior as 'childish'

Who needs to grow up here, Mr Khan? The one who is not afraid to open her heart out or the one who runs away from overflowing emotions?

Zoya has a big heart. In this short span in India, she has taken more in than expressed. The one time she has expressed, what does she get? A cold response from a man who doesn't know how to react to an emotional moment like this? Leave him alone, and he will cry his heart for you, but when confronted, will give you that 'why do I care' attitude.

Zoya, don't lose hope. You know Mr. Khan will come around. Give him time to process your 'dard.' He will probably surprise you by doing something totally unexpected because he really does care for you. He just doesn't know how to react to your sorrows. He feels like he has been a jerk and therefore is acting like one. But, let me assure you, he is not one'

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Posted: 13 years ago
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great post...😊 asad teared up for zoya aww i loved that scene and the salt scene was funny 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: malihaahmed

great post...😊 asad teared up for zoya aww i loved that scene and the salt scene was funny 😆


yeah, very well symbolized by the CVs...very creative
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Posted: 13 years ago
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awesome sangeeta...asad joked had a small smile today n was first time d one who took first baby steps to try n read into zoyas life for a change...loved that d most


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Originally posted by: shanakyasharan

awesome sangeeta...asad joked had a small smile today n was first time d one who took first baby steps to try n read into zoyas life for a change...loved that d most



Yes, I saw that half smile...too bad Zoya didn't see it. Yes, he will come around. She just gave him too much to process. His OCD heart can't take in so much of unplanned action😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderfullly written👏
Jahapanah Six packs is changing.Loved how he understood something was indeed wrong with her and made sweet coffee for her.He was so sweet at the beginning when he met her.I found that cute caz this was the same woman he couldnt even tolerate being in the same house with.He was really taken back by the fact that Zoe has suffered so much and he didnt make matters easier for her.Look how easily he remembered how he torn the paper.Zoe is right on being angry.She just shared a very emtional and painful secret with him and what does he do...walks away.He is so insensitive but that all stems from his insecurities .
I didnt notice any half smile though.😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very nice post..
Zoya was great today, just thinking of being in her shoes, opening the heart out and that cold response from one, you atleast expected few words to show he cares, but nothing just nothing😕, poor girl must have been devastated..
She was still sporting the famous smile in the morning, Love Zoya's want to ignore him, but cant' ignore him act😛..
Asad is real jerk sometimes, today he was insensitive period. But still loved the way he was really trying to read her, understand her, I think his own guilt and behavior today, made him behave this way...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Sangeeta finally saw your post and have an opportunity to respond. I am a big fan of yours but usually can only read and not respond as I am at work.

Really enjoyed today's episode. If it wasn't for Razia, Sidiquqi or Haseena then it would have been perfect.

Zoya who normally only takes on everyone's pain finally shared hers with the almighty Mr Khan.

Asad was completely unprepared for the avalanche of emotion seeingZoya's pain. He had no idea what will unravel and he pulled back.

I really liked how he listened to her shayari, her words of wisdom and observed her strange reaction to the fire. then was completely taken aback by her nightmare. loved how he tried to make her feel better.

It was all wonderful. even though it didn't end the way we would have liked, it is a really good start to their relationship. At least we are moving in a positive direction.

Asad is slowing redeeming himself. If it wasn't for the inappropriate grabbing (previous episode)... I would love him again.

-S

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: malihaahmed

great post...😊 asad teared up for zoya aww i loved that scene and the salt scene was funny😆


Yh agree with u malu loved that scene the dil mein seena scene was also funny
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What if he actually went away to bring here earring from his room and by the time he came back she was gone?? Wishful thinking? 😛

For your salt symbolism catch 👏

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