Rishi ki shrimatiji? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

i answered what i was questioned about . The difference as i said . That wasn't negligible for me...and then this whole thread is about to discuss the present thing...if it wasn't important...why the thread ?
yes only rishi is the human in the whole world ...regarding being worried...there are many ways to ask...the way he choose was wrong ...his words weren't right for me atleast . I din't felt good and i wrote ...as simple as that .
Lived with zara happily...zara was dyeing for his love after indira arrival...rishi was not even sure of his feelings .He manhandled zara ...and you expect me to think that they should have lived happily . Sorry i can't . Regarding bringing saheb...let's see what he does and than will comment .

Originally posted by: Heema22

@ underline ' OMG is this for real ? I thought Rishi was treated as Indira's property !! Indira forced him to marry Sweta and gave him miserable life for 8 yrs !! He was not allowed to decide for himself!! At that time he had no right to choose for himself? Emotional blackmail was used on their married life to get what Indira wanted . this was called ,Rishis happiness? Whose happiness was Indira thinking? can any one will be happy in forced MARRIGE ? I hope we show some consistency with these fictional characters and treat them equally !

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

I don't want to comment on the last part. Indira thought something was right which did not actually work out. That was not really anyone's fault but everyone suffered. That was just a wrong decision and everyone makes wrong decisions.

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

i answered what i was questioned about . The difference as i said . That wasn't negligible for me...and then this whole thread is about to discuss the present thing...if it wasn't important...why the thread ?
yes only rishi is the human in the whole world ...regarding being worried...there are many ways to ask...the way he choose was wrong ...his words weren't right for me atleast . I din't felt good and i wrote ...as simple as that .
Lived with zara happily...zara was dyeing for his love after indira arrival...rishi was not even sure of his feelings .He manhandled zara ...and you expect me to think that they should have lived happily . Sorry i can't . Regarding bringing saheb...let's see what he does and than will comment .

Originally posted by: shwetha297

@Blue: Ur question was abt "Is Rishi Selfish in that particular situation?" & the answer is very clear, if he is selfish then why did he went to pak to bring Indira's 2^nd husband.

@Red: Yes, U are right. rishi is the only human in that Devil Sharma Nivas Family where the members don't even know as to what is humanity? Even I don't like the Indira's way of slapping Rishi always. I didn't feel good and hence Iam writing'' as simple as that..

@Pink: Yes, sometimes I feel that Rishi shd have been selfish so that he could have left Indira and lived with Zara happily. But what did he do? He proved his love towards Indira and saved her life from Zara's cruelty. So you are objecting the true love. Regarding manhandling, Iam proud that he manhandled the criminal.

answer to your blue...the particular situation is... when he removed saheb's name from indira's hand just because he wanted his name ...not justified...he shouted on her for no reason...she is suffering and he knows that...and he had himself taken decision for her treatment...now acting like this isn't right for me...i am said and done with it .
answer to red-if you don't like indira way of slapping ...than why are you quoting my comment to write it...you have a whole forum to write...moreover wasn't the whole post made on that thing only...i din't got where in my comment i said you should like the slaps...it's completely your choice...your decision...your view and i have no problems with it...neither i feel like changing it just because i adore indira...😊.
answer to pink - when he manhandled...he just had the doubt...he din't knew zara was the criminal...he got to know days after about that . Regarding being happy with zara ...i have already put my point about it .

Originally posted by: Ranjinikishan

@bold: even i dont like the way how indira behaves with rishi now, the way she slaps him without reason, the way she beats him with stick atleast for me..as simple as that

even i don't like that...i feel bad...it's about their story...and the way everything is going...it does hurts ...i wish indira gets alright soon...

Originally posted by: Walden

Absolutely agree with everything you said Heema!

It does not matter what your intentions are. I can argue the same for Rishi...he doesen't know who Saheb is...and Indira is mentally handicapped...why should be trust her "judgements" about who this random saheb dude is. Obviously he wants the best for her (someone who will take care of her) and that person at the moment is Rishi. So I can also argue that Rishi is trying to do what's best for Indira and currently in the state that Indira is in, the best for her is Rishi. A little presumptive right, hey but if Indira can know what's best for Rishi, why can't Rishi know what's best for Indira?

And I won't even bother going into why Indira got Rishi married to Shweta. In my opinion, it certainly does not have much to do with "selflessness" and a lot more to do with some very self-defeating attitudes and some twisted ideas of "self-glory."

bold - a person who is at the verge of death will thinks of ideas which will lead to self-glory . She was marrying her own husband to someone else hiding all those tears for some kind of self glory . Sweetheart...this all self glory things...these ideas are with in this forum...and the show is not related to it...the characters there are facing some real life things...in which they definitely not think about self glory etc ...the love / the connection with their family is what matters...and that's what happens in the real world too...

Before I am reported for something I did not mean i just want to clarify that I did not mean that you are not mature Surbhi. I said our surroundings might differ and so can our experiences... I am sorry for the wrong impression.

Originally posted by: _saumya_

Before I am reported for something I did not mean i just want to clarify that I did not mean that you are not mature Surbhi. I said our surroundings might differ and so can our experiences... I am sorry for the wrong impression.

Don't worry...i haven't reported you for anything . Luckily i am mature enough that i do not press the report button for every next thing in the world . For such small things ...there is no need of mods .They already have so much work to do . But i am glad that you weren't talking about my level of maturity...because no one from us hold the right to do that on each other . Regarding experiences...i agree...we both are brought up in different surrounding...and we both have our own experiences from which we learn . I even agree on the point...that a same thing can be right for one person and wrong for other person and both are right with their perspective . It depends . Sorry for getting you wrong . This is the second time i did this in this particular weak . Things are affecting me and feel like i am little over reacting . Will work on it . Studies , college ...it all has been quiet hectic to me .

p.s.- i genuinely apologize to everyone who feel i was rude to them...or took their words wrong ...or anything else...

Originally posted by: Walden

Rajini, I don't know what kind of illness Indira has (some cliched serial wali bimari I suppose) but I do know that people who have dementia (which affects memory the most), these people reach a stage in their disease where they fail to recognize their own spouse whom they may have been married to for 50+ years!!! Aggressive behavior is also common in these patients. On the same note, taking care of these patients is also extremely frustrating and taxing for the caregivers...it is not easy to accept that this person whom you've loved for so many years does not even recognize you, let alone wants to physically hurt you.

i truly agree with walden because i have instances of knowing and seeing someone very close to me having suffered from dementia and not knowing what is going on in life,,,they also tend to be very aggressive at times and are very close to their things...so it maybe quiet obvious for indira to forget everything but remember some phase of her life...