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Hello Friends,
Well, what I m about to say here is REALLY IMPORTANT. Please do read it ENTIRELY.
DON'T BE SCARED LOOKING AT THE SIZE OF THIS CONTENT
Friends, when I first came here, I was like 'Where m I?'.. People here knew each other, I had this feeling, 'How am I going to Fit in'.
But then it was all so easy for me to be a part of this Forum. People here were so nice that it is never difficult for any newcomer to take time to fit in. Inspite of us being from not only different cities and states, but also from different corners of the WORLD.
I had never been to a Friendlier site before.
But guys, no denial in the fact that recently SOME TENSION, has come on the surface regarding the pairing of the leads.
Frankly speaking, if I overview the scenario I get the feeling of a scene from the movie "Vampire Sucks", where there were two groups of girls:-
1) Team Edward
2) Team Jacob
I get the similar feeling here..
1) Team Arisha
2) Team Raesha.
Yes, I will not deny the fact that I was a part or still very much am a part of Team Arisha.
Please don't take it the wrong way, I m not promoting Arisha or defending my opinion.
But, I would like to clarify my idea.
Personally, at the beginning when I saw Ayesha, I was like NOT HER. Even I wished for Sana then.
I had been waiting for a female lead, ever since Riya's exit, and then when I saw Sheetal's photo, I was disappointed.
But it was my pre-assumption. I tried to like her and pair her with Arjun, with all my strength.
Then I saw her 1st episode, how much I disliked her in the dance of 'Dum Maro Dum' (due to her over-makeup), I liked her that much when I saw her giving tough competition to Arjun in their fight sequence.
My liking towards her or the pair was ONLY AND ONLY due to my LOVE for Arjun. All I ever wanted was Arjun's pain to subside. Him being happy, smiling, laughing and leading a normal life like rest.
I never wanted a LOVESTORY, all I wanted was a 'Happily Ever After'
And after realizing the demands of the show, the tough schedules, actions etc. etc. I realized it was not easy to rope down some other girl for this show. We are lucky to get Sheetal.
And so I wanted Arisha, my only reason was "I wanted Arjun to be Happy". I know we cant rope down someone else easily.
And even if we do, then due to my irrational Empathetic nature, I feel that, Sheetal was brought to feel the space created after Sana's exit. The harsh comments (not here MAINLY) initially made me feel "What if Sheetal reads all this? How will she feel?"
So I was started advocating her. (LOL!) When people say something against her, I say a two FOR her.
Due to my stupid mind, I had considered that in a way Ayesha was brought for Arjun also. As it was Riya's role to bring Arjun out of his black world. I felt Ayesha has to complete Riya's unfinished task. But people going against the pair, made we scared of the TRPs, Arjun being alone and yes about Sheetal's feelings if she read this.
Thank God they were indifferent to all this. I m a bit OVER-EMPATHETIC. (More than required.. LOL!!)
But that is not the point of this topic, (Sorry to bore u)
My point was that, lately a little heat is arising due to the difference regarding this issue. Yes, everyone has their opinion. We live in a democracy.
But due to this, the little tension in the relationship of people in the forum. There is no denial to that fact. Everyone has to agree with me on that.
I don't want this difference to hamper the PEACE AND HARMONY of this forum!
Lets not create a division guys. I hope I m not OVER IMAGINATIVE, but I feel the division line arising.
I want the UNITY back.
Let us appreciate each others works and thinking.
Yes guys, Some writers have started to feel inferior due to their works. I have talked with someone, who expressed that 'people dont appreciate the work on ARISHA like the other works'. Thats not fair friends. I m not lying. This writer has managed to give this forums the most SPLENDID and FANTASTIC WORKS ever received.
Another writer, especially selects out the ones to PM for an ARISHA story.
I m not making up, friends. But speaking the truth.
Is it fair friends that someone here is a bit hesitant to share his/her creations or work, just due to the fear of it not being appreciated.
Imagine a writer or a VM maker giving up her works due to this feeling.
These are the same writers that once made Wonderful Ariya works and still do. Just because they tried this new genre, can we make them step back.
Friends, lets not a Small Difference in mind create this situation.
Lets keep this aside and appreciate one for their hard-work and creations, no matter on whom it is, Ariya/Arisha/Raesha.
Lets see the content and hard-work, instead of the pair.
Let the Jodi-Making be left to the Production house.
Yes! Today I m saying this.
Let the Peace and Harmony be maintained! Let not make anyone hesitant to share their work. Lets not judge it by considering the pair
Lets promise to keep ASIDE this Pairing from the forum.
Lets promise to :-
1) Appreciate a person's work no matter on whom it is.
2) Not fight over a pair
3) Not make post/poll on which is a better jodi.
(We can make post on a scene shared by the pair in a episode, but never say that, 'wish they come together'.)
Please Guys! I feel this is necessary.
I henceforth take this promise and Apologize to all them I have hurt, due to this difference.
I have done my bit, will U??
Just one "I Promise/ I agree"..
For the Peace and Harmony Forever!
(P.S. :- I have not mentioned the name of the writers PURPOSEFULLY! Please dont use your Arjun mind in finding or guessing the person. But instead Your Arjun heart in feeling the dilemma of the writers.
Secondly, to the ones I mentioned, if u guess its u, then I m SORRY in case u didnt like being mentioned, but I thought it was necessary)
Sorry If u feel that this topic is utterly not useless and there is nothing like this, but I thought it was necessary. Blame my over-imaginative mind, always works more than required)
Anupamaa
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