All the biggest blunders & upwellings he's created over the past have been, without exception, attributed to what he heard or saw from others & decided to blindly ape it & implement it.
Few prominent examples that cross my mind:
!. The biggest foolishness of Sneha's episode arose, simply becoz one of friend suggested him to make his wife jealous & he w/o any thought adopted a dangerous course of action affecting his inherently personal life leading to Sneha fiasco.
2. The decision to migrate to US, again came from people talking on street. And he clung onto the idea w/o taking any reasoned decision.
3. The current hostel episode, again comes from a lame interaction(I won't even call it as a suggestion from his friend).
Now, the incoherence comes when he's been depicted to be an extremely composed, patient & thoughtful person, who does'nt lose it in the most critical of situations. He's shown as a wise decision maer who even helps out people around him to make considered decisions (his friend mohit's job issue, his brother-in-laws defection from his own family, his younger sisters rocked marriage etc.).
But when it comes to making decisions about his own individual intimate life, about his child or his wife, suddenly, out of the blue, he losses all his wisdom & conscience & tries to copy, impose & enforce weird choices, closing himself completely to even the suggestions from own loved ones.
I find this as very inconsistent and beating logic.
Views are invited.
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