Why? The Reason for incoherence.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I do not know if I am the only one who observed it or thought of it, but looking at & observing the thought process and the subsequent actions of N', now in this immediate plot as well as a long trail of preceding plots, I am compelled to think that he always takes a decision & starts acting on it based on & under the influence of others & hearing from them.

All the biggest blunders & upwellings he's created over the past have been, without exception, attributed to what he heard or saw from others & decided to blindly ape it & implement it.
Few prominent examples that cross my mind:

!. The biggest foolishness of Sneha's episode arose, simply becoz one of friend suggested him to make his wife jealous & he w/o any thought adopted a dangerous course of action affecting his inherently personal life leading to Sneha fiasco.

2. The decision to migrate to US, again came from people talking on street. And he clung onto the idea w/o taking any reasoned decision.

3. The current hostel episode, again comes from a lame interaction(I won't even call it as a suggestion from his friend).

Now, the incoherence comes when he's been depicted to be an extremely composed, patient & thoughtful person, who does'nt lose it in the most critical of situations. He's shown as a wise decision maer who even helps out people around him to make considered decisions (his friend mohit's job issue, his brother-in-laws defection from his own family, his younger sisters rocked marriage etc.).
But when it comes to making decisions about his own individual intimate life, about his child or his wife, suddenly, out of the blue, he losses all his wisdom & conscience & tries to copy, impose & enforce weird choices, closing himself completely to even the suggestions from own loved ones.

I find this as very inconsistent and beating logic.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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As u ever heard perfect thing in this planet or related to anything ? I guess no one na
so i relate to this context, coming to point as u pointed some plots which u said biggest blunder 1. Sneha track i wil say misunderstanding which created problem in the end as he never intended to do but things hapen and claped nver played from one hand and its needs other hand too if u pointing out one then point out others too,so i wil relate to this (anyways leave it)
2.London track what he felt ryt frm him he choose it, cnt he have right to go whatever wherever ? In the end family understand what he doing ? Did he want his family to go with him he even force them..
3. Regarding hostel he saw he son get spoiled and took the bold descion, in the end he going to relize what he doing..dont u feel this thing happen ? In real world too ? I dnt feel he loses his wisdom its the way of thinking differently and in the end results matters .:D
he also a human so he also can make mistake, i do everyone do whats the big thing in tat, there many point where we cant ryt everytime or our thoughts
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kya backwash track le aye hai.
Arre hammare bache galti karte hai and very close to what Nakhash is doing. We don't put them in hostel. Sure we think about it but really putting 5 year old in hostel does not make sense. First 10 years kids need to be with parents.

Television is a big influence on people. It's parents job to put kids on right path not someone else.
Kya TRP sub kuch hai? Father need to stop scaring kids. Is se to archa tha ki Natik coma me hi rahta. No bashing to Actor. Karan is doing great job as a actor. My question is for director.

I thought this show was different. It has always given great message before. I strongly don't believe that kids get anything out from hostel at age of 5. Abb ki bar to Dadi bhi nahi bolti. She agrees too. Pahle pucho to sahi bache se ki kyo Kiya tha esaa? Very disappointing.

By the way I am full time working mom so no excuse for Akshara. Again not to actress.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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im sure duggu wont go hostel ones naksh knw the actual resn naitik wll drop the decision and it wll make them proud for wht thr son have done

2ndly i would surely like to say cv's are badly into trp race ,besides cv's it is sp who decides up max things
the junoon of sp to win over all will surely leave them no no were one day
cvs a request to u plzz run yrkkh ur way we love it ur way not sp plzz we begg u 😔
dont hang yrkkh on the sword of trp,werna it wll die bfr it should plzz 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree naitik gets easily influenced by other people ...but d thing wich makes him different is his ability to make up things wich he did rong ...
i know wenever naitik cums to know abt duggu's reason to take d money he ll drop his decision n even apologise for it ...
this decision is very tough for him also ...he is also suffering ..but he has taken dis decision coz till nw he has understood ki at home duggu can never b punished as his dadi ll never stop interfering n alwaz save duggu frm d punishment ...n d mistakes wich duggu did earlier are on his mind ...n for any parent his son stealing money is a big big issue ...
n yes trp is alwaz a prime aspect as if yrkkh does nt get trp ...sp wont let it stay ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bebo.

im sure duggu wont go hostel ones naksh knw the actual resn naitik wll drop the decision and it wll make them proud for wht thr son have done


2ndly i would surely like to say cv's are badly into trp race ,besides cv's it is sp who decides up max things
the junoon of sp to win over all will surely leave them no no were one day
cvs a request to u plzz run yrkkh ur way we love it ur way not sp plzz we begg u 😔
dont hang yrkkh on the sword of trp,werna it wll die bfr it should plzz 😔



That is quite obvious. As they(those who conceived) have walked forward on a no-turning back spree, by showing the boy as a bit too sharp, devoid of the basic naivety. (although the other two toddlers in the serial have been quite innocent, & even Naksh in Tuesday's episode had shown some signs of the childish vulnerability).

And for sure I agree that N won't take him to hostel once he gets to know the real reason, but the point was about his sporadic personal choices & decisions based on hearsay.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sona_naksh

i agree naitik gets easily influenced by other people ...but d thing wich makes him different is his ability to make up things wich he did rong ...
i know wenever naitik cums to know abt duggu's reason to take d money he ll drop his decision n even apologise for it ...
this decision is very tough for him also ...he is also suffering ..but he has taken dis decision coz till nw he has understood ki at home duggu can never b punished as his dadi ll never stop interfering n alwaz save duggu frm d punishment ...n d mistakes wich duggu did earlier are on his mind ...n for any parent his son stealing money is a big big issue ...
n yes trp is alwaz a prime aspect as if yrkkh does nt get trp ...sp wont let it stay ..



Thats a wholesome view.

But still I will like to see him with a little bit of more depth & patience & not jumping the gun & taking spontaneous decisions which give a shade of whims. Atleast he could stop & wait for the idea to seep down, analyze discuss & then.

But yes, obviously in such a case a good plot will not be possible to develop, so far as the program is concerned, so quite admissible on that reason.😛😉😳

Still I will like to see him as the same wise person in his own personal family life as he's shown to be w.r.t others' problems & issues.

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