Zashi--- Love Vs Obsession

After the recent happening in the show with Zara,Its clearly understood that Zara had an obsession for Rishi but not Love.Some may think her love turned to obsession ,but I feel there is no love at all.Similar case with Rishi.He felt he loved zara,but he never did.This is the biggest thing which led to all problems.

There is a thin line separating Love and obsession.In my opnion I feelthere is no love b/w zashi

you've met the man of your dreams; at least you think you have. He is handsome, charming, educated and he treats you like a queen. You haven't been Knowing each other for very long, yet he has already opened up to you completely. Your last husband didn't do that in the entire relationship you were together. This guy somehow seems different. He is thoughtful,kind and concerned for u. He makes you feel special and loved. You've only been seeing him for a couple of weeks, yet he makes you feel as if you are more important to him than anyone or anything else in his life. It seems implausible to you that you could already be in love with him, but he has told you that he loves you and you can't imagine what more you could possibly want in a man. This must be love. Right?

Not exactly. There is a devastatingly fine line between love and obsession and in this case, its Definitely not Love.

When two people fall in love, they maintain their individual identities and interests.Zara never knew her original identity. Rishi always loved her as Indira and she was thinking to herself that she is Indira.Love is a healthy emotion that grows between two people once they've invested time and energy into getting to really know one another, flaws, pet peeves and all. Zara and Rishi never invested time in each othe.Rishi saw Zara as Indira so he never felt a need to know her bcoz he very well knew abt Indira.When he want to accept Zara as Zara even then he didnot give a thought of knowing her as Zara .

Zara she too never knew abt Rishi in detail.She was impressed by the attention she got from Rishi.She never had any effection from her husband and Rishi's attention made her fell for Rishi .She never cared to understand him.She never cared for his feelings regarding his first wife Indira.She never thought that Rishi started seeing her bcoz he felt she is Indira .Even though he accepted as Zara ,He was so afraid to accept her in front of his daughter and could not stand for her.

If Rishi had love for zara he could have stood for her no matter what like how he is standing for Indira now.He beleives in Indira.If she says some family member has kidnapped her he believed that but he couldnot beleive in Zara and got her arrested .Zara too dnt trust rishi.Thats the reason for her insecurities, Trust and beleif are two main pillars for love .these never found place in Zashi's relationship.So Love will also can't find a place.After all we can't build a building without pillars.

It was zara's obsession all the way. When it is obsession,Negative feelings such as jealousy,insecurity,hatred begin to creep into the relationship.The obsessive individual suspects that their partner may be cheating and may resort to any extent as an attempt to maintain control over their partner. And this is what Zara did.

Rishi is the main reason for her insecurity which turned her to an obsessive lover.He got confused with his emotions/feelings is what I feel and that lead to all these situations. His mistakes of seeing zara as Indira inspite of DNA reports later accepting Zara but not able to give her rights/happiness she deserves,insulting/rejection/slaps/arrests etc etc are to be surely taken into account and he has to bear the blame for all this.

Whatever it is,my post is not a blame post but From all these things I feel,the start of Zara-Rishi love story had no proper foundation and base and they were never in love actually.

Note: This is just my POV.The content abt Love and obsession what I have written ,I got it through browsing on what is love Versus Obsession.The whole concept I related to Zashi.And majority of the points mentioned indicated that it was never love for Zashi but just obsession .My post is not intended to hurt anyone's feelings.

Plz do share ur POV's too.