19th October India Update-More traps! - Page 4

tara is a duffer she is believing her jiji?

[quote=nandini76]

i responded to all updates all this time & was even thankful...but it seems like its not worth it...u guys feel just coz u update u have the right to speak in any tone u like...this is the 3rd of 4th such messeges that iam reading & i personally being 1 of the members of this forum DO NOT GIVE U THAT RIGHT...IMPROVE YOUR TONE FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE...ITS OUR WISH TO GIVE OUR COMMENTS BUT SINCE U HAVE VOLUNTEERED TO GIVE UPDATES IT THEN BECOMES UR DUTY...GUESS HIGH TIME SOME1 HAD TO TELL THIS...[/quote]

[quote=nandinit] manship thanks for ur support appreciate it [/quote]

Firstly I have No where mentioned your name in the update post. I do not know you and I have never ever mentioned you in any of my posts. It's meant for silent members hence if you are a participating member then why are you reacting? Secondly my tone is perfectly polite and regarding. Your acerbic remarks and condescending tone are not only direct personal attack on me but also disrespectful. They deem fit for action. But I do not wish to let negativity affect me this Diwali. At first I overlooked it but your repeat post again is instigating other members. This definitely demands some response. So exercise restrain over your contemptuous conduct. My duties are my personal domain do not infringe upon them.

The context of the post is "courtesy" and seeks more contribution from the silent members than something unruly like request for updates.

And all the silent members have been wonderful to reply and I am proud of each of them.👏

[quote=maanship]I totally agree with Nandini... I was so happy that finally somebody updated Saat Phere on time.. Lavanya.. nothing to take away from you.. You do update quite well and on time.. whenever you do. We all enjoy it.. and appreciate a lot the same too.. but at the end of the update.. why was the rude remark ? It was not needed at all.. As Nandini said.. if you are volunteering.. then it should be wihtout expecting anything.. if you are expecting praises.. then you need to take up criticism too.. which none of the Dev Team members seems to be understanding. Just because you are in the Dev Team doesn't mean.. you can write whatever you want and expect us to be happy or not feel anything. This forum is not property of any of you. you are just given the right to update.. because you volunteered to.. not because you own this place.. So please other people be the way they are.. and you be the way you were.. nice.. dont try to change.. [/quote]

In courteous world its not critiquing but disdain. I have not commented upon you so do not make personalized attack on me. I have opted to update and that's between IF team and me. Do not attempt to teach me my expectations and intrude in my personal space. It's a personal offence. I have been respectful so what makes you disregard me? Your remarks are highly uncivilised hope you discontinue them.

This is a public forum hence avoid such disdainful remarks. Let everyone enjoy the forum and make it healthy and happy.

Next time use pm sevice for your comments and the words be civilised and respecting.

THANKS A TON to all the members and esp the silent members for having been so responding. It's a pleasure to see that you have taken it in the spirit. Please make more contributions in contests, games, story writing, poems and other forum activities. Do send us your creative ideas.

Wish you all a very Happy and Prosperous Diwali. May the New Year usher in peace and good health. Warm greetings on Eid.

😳 Thanks!

thanx for the update. bhabho was there when saloni sent the fruits with the servant, so i hope bhabo speaks up as a witness in the next episode

hey realitybites: love your updates

Also I feel Realitybites asked "silent members" to respond so we'll have more traffic on this forum.
She was not asking for praise.

Kuddos Realitybites for a fitting reply.

to realitybites
can reply back to you long lecture but after reading your reply i really feel its senseless to talk as its equal to breaking my head on a wall so just forget it & iam really in a very very happy & festive mood so dont want spoil my mood...nor anybody else's

Originally posted by: Dips

Also I feel Realitybites asked "silent members" to respond so we'll have more traffic on this forum.
She was not asking for praise.

Kuddos Realitybites for a fitting reply.

Well it probably fits you.. but I still stand by what I said.. Dont want to add more. I had written a lot.. but as everybody feels festive season.. live and let live.. so leaving it at this. Not that I agree with any of what Lavanya or you feel..

Hi thanks for the wonderful update. But really I'm tired so seeing Urvashi's and Kaveri's NATAK'S. they really for a change need to change story little bit otherwise a sister won't be able to trust her own sister or sister-in-law.

Thanks Lavanya... great update!!

Finally Saloni and Bhabho are speaking up 4 themselves!! I am sooo happy! Was getting heartily sick of Tara and Urvashi getting away with all their dumb comments and biting remarks!!

SP is really happening now... and I am loving it!!