For the nth time I'm saying Shiv was not expecting a complete SR on 1st night. Cv are confusing all of us & playing with our emotions ( as if u guys didn't know abt it 😛).
He was positive that she respects him & values his friendship...nothing more nothing less ...but yes she has all the prerequisite for falling in love ...so she is in the right track but not quite there. So he wanted to continue with his charming game of impressing her so that Ajee ko bhi Usse utna he lagaav ho jaye bas. SR can only happen after lagaav turn converts into pyar😳
His mission has been...she has to accept my love and adulation 😳. He wanted to just surround her with the warmth of his love & affection... a hug followed by a kiss if possible period.
NO SR business as he was positive Ajee was not quite there yet & he has some idea abt her hurts and scars if not all. So a bruised and hurt needs marraham paati , medication of love not forced SR
Today he made it clear Aap vahi kijeye jo aapko acha lagta hai'''kisi eke dabbab mai aa kar kuch bhi karne ki koi jarurat nahi hai ( ypu'll not do anythinmg under pressure) '''..Koi bhi apne marzi aapke upar thoop nahi sakta ''.you do what pleases you.😳 If he has this thought process then how on earth are you folks are thinking he had SR on his mind. Yes, he wanted to fill Light & color in her night ...he could not give her gift at night. Say the first ILU after marriage and maybe missed feeding her some California grapes & Red wine 😆
Maybe by Shiv... CV's want go convey a message to all guys marrying divorcees ...learn to curb your expectations if you are dreaming big for your first night 😉 ( read Quilla Fatah😉😆) aisa kabhi bhi nahi hoga first night ko🥱 ...so acha sa night suit dalo aur so jaoo 😈
Nighty has arrived taaliyaan & seetiyaan. I had dreamed of Ajee in nighty after shaadi. It is resolute in its modesty and is feminine enough without looking fetching.😛
Shiv's thoughts after seeing the nighty...Let the adventure of Nightie begin 😉. I want Ajee to enjoy the FREEDOM inside the nightie.😆 It is chaste, the sati savitri of women's wear it 😳
All hail the nightie😆
Ajee's expression on receiving the box was 32 all out but after seeing the content was shocked
Her dharti phating moment😆 . Ashima ko mai isse nighty mai bandh kar latka dungi🤢

Simple straight forward Ajee ka galebi, determine & observant Collector looks confused and bit amused 😉. He is like I have to unravel this ENIGMA Named AJee 😆 today itself . For now ...I just want to give her a pleasant present❤️
This is real Rajesthan captured by my Camera ...what were Cv showing Ghatkopaar or Santa cruz MKT as Udaipur 😲
Pre cap: Heart wrenching 😭 But all the venom will be out😊
My colleague when she was going through horrible divorcee had said... Why does God allow us to experience such disappointment? Why did he give us desires for love and intimacy that are destined to lead to disappointment? I guess if we could decide with whom to fall in love ...life would be a different proposition😉. We cannot fight with our destiny we have to accept life and challenges what ever is thrown at us and make our own destiny. But I feel God always meets us at our point of need...He is a true magician and can work wonders right in the middle of our all-too-human life ...
This is exactly what has happened to Ajee, she has found her prince charming and is now married to him but with this her normal weaknesses, vulnerabilities and insecurities...which were suppressed deep down have come to the surface no matter how much she may wish to hide these inadequacies/fears from Shiv.
Looking at the pre cap...it feels...Both of them are learning the inevitability of disappointment. Defo right now the word of the day for Ansh is "disappointment". But I wait with bated breath to see both of them handling and addressing each others disappointment. It is only through the acceptance of each other's insecurities & fears that the love they dream of can begin to become a reality. ( Ajee is also dreaming of love but sacred to take the plunge in LL😕)
The strong and bold Anandi who got courage from her own miserable life and broken dreams and solved problems of others is unable to deal with the happiness of her life. She has lived with disappointment for so long that she is not able to embrace HAPPINESS and LOVE ...it so sad 😭. Though the crisis point is over in her life but her self confidence is abs destroyed by certain events of the past with J. Ajee the healer needs healing for now😳 so she has a self satisfied and confident Man Shiv to help her deal with the short comings of her life. He'll fill her life with perfect moments and teach her to love & enjoy life for herself 😳
After all the crying she'll reevaluate her past and embrace the new dawn with open arms 🥳
What do you all think? Please no Judo in my post 😳
If u have suffered through my post & made it to here...Opinions are welcome😊
Edited by 5cents - 12 years ago