Aanandi's hesitation

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I completely understand her hesitation. I want to leave her with this. because this will sort own its own and very beautifully. They were not dating before marriage, they did not spent romantic time together, They met either in presence of family or for work.

A is not a submissive girl, She would only prefer a natural relation, which is perfectly fine and would be the best possibility.Sharing body is not easy, it is a matter of comfort at this level.


But I do not want to conclude, if she is not mentally prepared for the physical relationship, then she doesn't love Shiv, or she gonna prove Sanchi, Chauti Maa etc etc correct..


but little upset with Shiv, instead of approaching her smoothly for the relation, he has come so blunt :" the second night of our marriage will be our first night.".

Even in arrange marriage , no woman will like to expose herself until she is comfortable. There are many woman who bear a pain of being ill treated on their first nights.

Kamasutra provides a complete chapter, to make wife comfortable before having a relation and It make sense.
Similarly like Jodha Aakbar movie. where Jhodha bai was not even married or touched by the previous Rana, but still she took her own time to accept Aakbar. and Akbar respected the same.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I Agree with you.But I don't blame Shiv as it is normal for men to expect SR. I dont blame anadi either. But she should talk to shiv instead of avoding him
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Posted: 13 years ago
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poor shiv😭 anandi share ur prob to ur fren instead of ur hubby... anyway shiv will understand... pretending will hurt him more...🥱
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ya, A should talk to Shiv.

this is very much required.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anandi's hesitation and awkwardness with the thought of intimacy is appropriate. What is not appropriate, however, is her approach to handling the situation. Shiv has always been very understanding and towards her in the past. He is completely in love with her and is ready for intimacy and if Anandi tells him she needs a little more time to get comfortable and asks him to extend his patience a little longer, I think Shiv would oblige.

In using tactics like pretending to fall asleep, Anandi is unknowingly changing the dynamics between AnSh. It is time for Anandi to consider Shiv's feelings and have an open conversation like two mature individuals!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I THINK THAT AFTER WHAT JAGYA DID TO HER THAT SHE IS AFRAID TO GET CLOSE . I JUST HOPE THERE WILL BE NO PROBLEMS FOR HER AND SHIV

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