Is Force the Same as Giving?!??!

In today's epi Pia says Bani gave you tears and I was the ohe who gave you my shoulder....

Pagal ladki, did Jai ever ask for it? If anything he kept pushing her away... So why is she using this statement in means to make Jai feel more guilty?

Is she hoping to win him by guilt? Does that ever work -- in real life? Has anyone tried to woo their ex-love or flame back in to their lives by using certain weapon? If so, how long did that relationship last?

Please share you thoughts & comments.