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If you were Single then would you consider marrying a Divorced person?

AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

The question is Crystal - So, vote your conscience and voice your "truth" if you dare😆 Really lets be honest! If you were single person with loads of options would you consider marrying a divorced person? Y or Y not?

Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

I got a proposal of a man with two kids when I was like around 19 ( I know how it sounds like)

But the reason why I got that proposal was cause, he was supposed to be a very very very good person with a golden heart. Very successful and righteous. So a person that I knew said knowing about my ideals of what a husband should be like, suggested him but the catch was he had 2 kids.

I was 19.. I thought about it... and I said no.

I felt really guilty too to say no.. cause I felt that i was being prejudice but .. it was my decision cause I felt uneasy that I would be responsible for raising two girls who were like 5 to 6 years old and I was only 19.

So My reason for saying no was that he had two kids.

But yeah he was not a divorcee though.. he was a widower.

But my husband's sister got divorced. She is from a village but she got married to a man who married her and it was his first marriage.

A GEM i would say. I was totally taken aback that such men do exist.

So my family I would say.. that its not a big deal :)

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

I was divorced and married a divorcee. I had an option of marrying a singe guy but felt a divorcee would understand me better than never married guy. I was not brave enough to go through convincing the guys parents and the society. That's my perspective.

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Vishakha_Sakhi

@Vishakha_Sakhi

Inactive

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Posted: 13 years ago

Being a single woman with all options and opportunites open for me I voted for # 4...I would marry a divorcee, but it depends first on his personality and the reason(s) why he got divorced!

Being a divorcee is not a SIN to me but the reason does matter...I mean if the guy is a cheater or an abuser or anything like that then NO WAY! But yes, if he is a nice respectable person who I find that I can spend my life with then why not?

Nice poll Anjy! 😊

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shazia

@tv_princess

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

i m happily married n i hvnt faced this kinda situation so i cnt answer in ur poll..BW..nycc poll Anjana..!!

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Rumjhum Laha

@Patrarekha

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

ok m unmarried and though i would prefer a unmarried guy 1st but i can consider a divorcee on his past story of divorce , his personality and ideals..
i won't like to have step children but still it also will depend on situation

Edited by Kadamvari - 13 years ago

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ZaaraBB

@ZaaraBB

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

Personally I wouldn't..
But my sister married a divorced and she was pretty comfy with it and it was her first marriage.
However me n NY sisters did getvrishta from divorcees who was like 40 + and that's a hell no..he had kids already married so background info is important for me

Edited by _naksh_raz - 13 years ago

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Bhumika

@Bhumika18

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am divorcee too. If it wasnt for my loving husband now Id still be lonely. I have a lovely little girl right now. It's all because of my husband raj

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bhoomi

@frozen.devil

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Frankly i wont prefer 2 marry a divorcee... but it'll still depend on the personality n ideals.

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malika

@_symphony

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#10

The answer is LOVE...its done with the soul..if u can find someone's soul beautiful and hv fallen in love with his inner beauty... then earthly things wud be less imp.Love knows no sins...no blemishes...no KAMI.It just knows the ecstasy it feels to have a particular 'someone' as a forever partner.

Divorcee/BV are miniscule things in front of that one 'FEEL'.

With full trust on my character judging quality,if I find the person trustworthy and good...wont mind it...not just for myself even for my sibling.At the end its all abt who can give u that one beautiful feeling.

Edited by Malika - 13 years ago

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