14th Dec WU: Anandi ki Bidaai (complete)

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Hamlet53

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

thanks for a clearly set out WU.

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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

It will be better to see Anandi in Shiv's home. There will be a welcome change.

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dlip

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: ritzy09

I totally forgot abt that..u are right. A person like Shiv cares more for DS than her own blood for whom she sways like a pendulum. He didn't even think twice what DS will go through not finding him there and not even knowing where he went. Jaana hi tha, toh salike se jaa sakta tha. Sorry keh kar, bolta ki I need to complete my MS. Kuch ban jaun..apke layek ho jaaon toh aa jaunga. I will be in so and so place. Are parents ko kitni chinta hoti hai...he doen't know and care...onlt his family loves him but he just never learnt the true meaning of love.

Thanks for update.

Shiv has given bond of 50,000/- ans Jagya had agreed to governor that he will work for betterment of Jaitsar . On that condition he was released. Now what will be impact of this cowardly act of Jagya on Shiv? or it will be a convenient blooper!

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Thanks for the update..

The bidai ceremony was filled with sweet moments.

DS and A interaction was a beautiful moment - They fought hard for this moment.

They fought with each other and fought with themselves to reach to this particular moment in their lives.

Jagya as usual only thinking of himself.

I thought after the conversation with A he has had some purpose in life.

Never thought what his leaving will do to the family.

Didn't it occur to him that after the departure of Anandi his family will be left feeling depressed that they may be glad of his support at this time?

Didn't he think that it his duty to try and make his parents loss a little by simply being there for them?

When is he going to shoulder his responsibilities towards his family???

It's true they don't need his financial help but doesn't it occur to him that his parents will have emotional needs that need to be taken care of

All he can think of is his pain.Can't he hide his pain for the sake of his family's happiness and peace of mind??

Why can't he just be there for them when they need him??? Why doesn't this thought occur to him?

Agreed it is painful for him to watch all this but can't he bear the pain for the sake of his parents????

I don't think he will ever change.

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Dhanya

@samrudhi.r

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

thanks for the nice update

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neha1926

@neha1926

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#26

can anyone tell the song sung in bidaai cermony

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Missesha

@Missesha

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+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Very emotional episode and a nice one too. Anandi was really adored by all the family members and their pain on losing her is so evident.

I liked the twist brought by Jagya. I don't see this as a selfish act, but I felt that he has changed for good.

I am happy that he took a decision to stand up on his feet and to make someone out of himself, which is something I was hoping to see as part of his redemption.

He rightly mentioned in his letter that just by asking for forgiveness, he can not bridge the gap of pain he gave to people earlier. He has to take responsibilities of his deeds, and if he has gone out to make someone better of himself, that's the best thing to happen. His parents might miss him, but both B&S will be very proud of their son Jagya, when he manages to achieve something on his own merits. J cannot live his life on mercies through A, S or his own family all the times, he needs to have something of his own, which he can be proud of, as well as make others proud.

This is also giving me a hope that he won't interfere in AnSh life anymore, which was my biggest fear, given his self-centered nature. It would be great if CVs show two different story lines of AnSh and J.

2 days of vidaai is slightly stretchy, but regardless, I look forward to Monday's show.

Edited by Missesha - 13 years ago

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: hooked
Bidaai in movies has always upset me - but my own vidai I know was tearfree for me. One reason cud be coz I was in any case working and on my own in a city for a couple of years and was going to continue staying there.
Two - all my younger cousins and siblings had laid bets on me crying - and I was damned if I gave them a chance to snigger.
Three - My guardians did not make our engagement very convenient. I did still do stuff, but with lots of white lies and half-truths and I was finally going to get away from that guilt.

So YES - it was all very happy happy all the way. so why cry ?

Nice to know that, as I too had a tear free vidai.

Like you, I too had lived without my parents for while studying and then working, so was mentally used to living on my own.

But more than that I was really happy that my entire family had gathered for my wedding, which happenend after nearly 12 years and we all had great time together before wedding. Which means, I had so many happy memories to take along with me. I was overwhelmed with the happiness around, and that didn't make me sad.

And above all, it was my decision to start a new life and I was happy about it.

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