Shirin and Rashid-Some things are felt

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am sympathizing more and more with Shirin ...Poor woman all she is asking for is a bit more attention...I would like her to leave him but i know that is impossible to happen...so all I hope is for Rashid to man up and stop two timming 😡 There is nothing I hate more than cheating men who try to justify their doings by the name of " Love" and "Feelings"...it is such a disgrace to the name of love...and I am not buying his " I have feelings for Dilshad" S***...Feelings my foot...

Anyway...There is this Arabic Song that Fits Shirin so much and her situation with Rashid

It is called "Fi Hagat" (There are things)


[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnOfkb4YIPI[/YOUTUBE]


Here is its translation :

There Are Things

There are some things that are felt but cannt be said
and If I try to ask for them I cannt
and if you do them after I ask ..then it wont work
There are some things that are felt but cannt be said
They hurt the heart, but they (the feelings )dont show
and I stay always hesitating between telling you ( about them) or not

I can't ask you to change the way you love me
Or be more jealous
Or surprise me once with a gift
Or please me once by doing something unexpected

I can't ask you to make my world sweeter
and change me
No matter how close you are to me
How dear you are
I can't tell you how I want our life to be
you should figure out (on your own) how I want our life to be


At times, it seems that I'm content
That I'm calm, that I've accepted everything and got used to it
That doesn't mean you can believe that I gave up
Sometimes, you might feel that I don't care anymore
But I'm actually trying to hide that I'm tired of this
Don't push me to the point
Where I regret not having said a thing
I can't ask you to change the way you love me
Or be more jealous
Or surprise me once with a gift
Or please me once by doing something unexpected

I can't ask you to make my world sweeter
and change me
No matter how close you are to me
How dear you are
I can't tell you how I want our life to be
you should figure out (on your own) how I want our life to be

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Posted: 13 years ago
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My heart reallly went out to Shirin too!She really is one boli soul and does not deserve this betrayal.Rashid sure does need to man up and just like what Aayan said in one of the episodes upar wale ne uska reel ka haddi daal na hi bhool bhool gaya!What a spineless man,defo needs to grow some balls.Shirin should leave him and Dilshaad shoudn't give him the time of day either...😡.He nerver had the nerve to see his 1st relatomnship through and walked off like a coward toh woh kisi ka kya hoga! Also loved the translation of the song...very touching!😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah same here, I also feel sorry for Shirin...Didn't want to but do. Whats happened, happened. An old saying goes " he's made his bed Now he has to lie in it" . Whatever the circumstances were he had made the decision then. But being a typical man he wants more... Therefore more heartache for Dilshad and all...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This show is really diffrent...It is the first show that makes me talk about side characters more than the couple...though I love Asad and I adore Zoya...but the scenes I talk about the most are of Rashid-Shirin-Dilshad
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I feel sorry for shirin in the sense that she is innocent. But I simply cannot get over the fact that she did have an affair with a married man. She broke an entire household.

Now bare with me, I am NOT saying its her fault, Rashid is to blamed from all sides, he truly is spineless. Now idk if shirin knew or not that he was married when she fell in love with him, on that count I give her the benefit of the doubt.

Otherwise, I cannot fully sympathize with her, because what goes around comes around. Also Rashid should be left stranded all alone which is what he deserves, I hate two-timing men...jerks🤢.

I feel bad for dilshaad though, she is trying her best to stay away from him as any respectful woman in her place should. Him showing up everywhere isn't helping. I really wished she had said something to Razia the other day when she was badmouthing her though!

I can't possibly think of how the two families will ever converge it should be interesting to watch
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Reina1

I feel sorry for shirin in the sense that she is innocent. But I simply cannot get over the fact that she did have an affair with a married man. She broke an entire household.


Now bare with me, I am NOT saying its her fault, Rashid is to blamed from all sides, he truly is spineless. Now idk if shirin knew or not that he was married when she fell in love with him, on that count I give her the benefit of the doubt.

Otherwise, I cannot fully sympathize with her, because what goes around comes around. Also Rashid should be left stranded all alone which is what he deserves, I hate two-timing men...jerks🤢.

I feel bad for dilshaad though, she is trying her best to stay away from him as any respectful woman in her place should. Him showing up everywhere isn't helping. I really wished she had said something to Razia the other day when she was badmouthing her though!

I can't possibly think of how the two families will ever converge it should be interesting to watch



Same here...we still dont know how Shirin met Rashid and who seduced the other...maybe Rashid did seduce her and married her behind Dilshad's Back...though In ISlam he should get the consent of the first wife..but some men do get married without the consent...


I feel bad for Dilshad but I feel she is not being too straightforward with Rashid...her tone and how she talks to him..though she is pushing him away..her tone makes her look like she is still in love with him..which even if she is ..she shouldnt show it infront of him..If I were her I would Yell and be stern with him...not go into philosophy mode and give him moral lectures...I would yel outloud "STAY the F*** OUT OF MY LIVE AND WHAT PART OF I AM OVER YOU DONT YOU GET ?"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Racha-

Same here...we still dont know how Shirin met Rashid and who seduced the other...maybe Rashid did seduce her and married her behind Dilshad's Back...though In ISlam he should get the consent of the first wife..but some men do get married without the consent...


I feel bad for Dilshad but I feel she is not being too straightforward with Rashid...her tone and how she talks to him..though she is pushing him away..her tone makes her look like she is still in love with him..which even if she is ..she shouldnt show it infront of him..If I were her I would Yell and be stern with him...not go into philosophy mode and give him moral lectures...I would yel outloud "STAY the F*** OUT OF MY LIVE AND WHAT PART OF I AM OVER YOU DONT YOU GET ?"


In most modern cases, men go through with a second marriage without consent, and its usually NOT for the right reasons...which pisses me off. Regardless, judging from Rashids behaviour, the process of seduction was mutual.

As for Dilshad, I feel that itself is the problem, she can't yell are ask him to get out of her life, because deep down, she still loves him. I don't blame her because he was her first love and its hard to let go, especially after two kids, and all their flashbacks. Despite him cheating on her, she still has a bond, she hates to admit it, but thats what keeps her from going the whole 9 yards and asking him to stay the f*** out of her life, because a lesser part of her doesn't want that!






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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Reina1

In most modern cases, men go through with a second marriage without consent, and its usually NOT for the right reasons...which pisses me off. Regardless, judging from Rashids behaviour, the process of seduction was mutual.

As for Dilshad, I feel that itself is the problem, she can't yell are ask him to get out of her life, because deep down, she still loves him. I don't blame her because he was her first love and its hard to let go, especially after two kids, and all their flashbacks. Despite him cheating on her, she still has a bond, she hates to admit it, but thats what keeps her from going the whole 9 yards and asking him to stay the f*** out of her life, because a lesser part of her doesn't want that!



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I honestly dont understand what Shirin and Dilshad find in him ...Anyway in love you cannt find reason ...we must have their eyes to see whats so appealing in him 😳

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