she can go but after informing everyoen abt it and the reason why shes going .....but it would be tricky .....i mean if its on her wedding day and sucha situation arises......it would really be a very difficult decision.....so i would say after telling amran or even going along with him but i would be happy if she goes after informing arman atleast directly ....
but seriously i wish t&d didnt do this...why create such a situation