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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Great post Harini.


There is a four way split in lessons to be learnt.

~ Urmila for her below the belt hit to Kinjal, by making her feel she owes Urmila for accepting her in the family. Urmila will no doubt suffer dearly for all her KKs - hope we get to see this at some point.

~ Kinjal expressed all her anger as to why Urmila is the way she is but was careful not to include her KKs in breaking up the marriage of Ahem and Gopi in the very early days.

~ Rashi and her silent support for her mother knowing that her mother is in the wrong - hoping she will get her just desserts.

~ Dhaval lack of assertiveness and putting his best foot forward to giving his view. The good thing though was his want to take Kinjal away to calm her down.

This cause and effect is interwoven amongst them tightly. The rest of the Modi's were relieved that their uncomfortable stay is nearly over.

The best decision taken was Kokila talk with Kinjal and not to Urmila. This was a wise decision. It feels as though she is saving the best for last.


Superb reply Swasthi..
I wish, hope that all you have written down happens😛 I agree totally.. Urmi, Kinjal, Rashi need to get their just desserts.
Koki did what a mother will do. She knows how Urmi is but Koki is trying to show Kinjal that Urmi is not her world but Dhawal is.. I wish Dhawal will take things in his own hand.. As much as I felt for others, I do agree that Kinjal needs to get out of being under Urmi ... That woman sucks the happiness out of all
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely analysis Harini 👏 ... Kinjal is very much like koki but minus her values... May be like every girl she too wish to be like her mother... rule the house... she always saw her mom treat her father like a dirt... she copied that too... her role model was her own mom.. But Kinjal failed to learn the values and goodness of Kokila... Rather Kokila was not a perfect role model for her daughter...

Kokila felt really bad about her daughters behavior... But its her karma too... when a daughter says' u dint treat ur husband nicely.. so dont advise me' is the biggest slap for the mother.. She failed as a wife and she failed as a mother!!!

Parag and Dhawal are also made in same mold... They are always understanding , calm and too patient ... Yesterday I really felt sad to see Dhawal bhai taking all the accusations on the face and giving excuses for kinjal !!! He cant be real, thats what I thought... No man on earth will take that kinda accusations!!!... He does not deserve this type of treatment...

I totally agree with what you said about Kinjal being a child... How long it will take her to grow up... she may be 23-24... married... Still she cant act like a grown up, I would say she has some genetic problems... When a child throws tantrums , it has a certain level of cutness... But a grown up throw tantrums and act like a child, It is not so cute or sweet...

After all the dramas, Urmi was acting like Is all Kinjal's mistake... Who steal the coil first?!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilike_tv

Lovely analysis Harini 👏 ... Kinjal is very much like koki but minus her values... May be like every girl she too wish to be like her mother... rule the house... she always saw her mom treat her father like a dirt... she copied that too... her role model was her own mom.. But Kinjal failed to learn the values and goodness of Kokila... Rather Kokila was not a perfect role model for her daughter...


Well said Ponny.. ⭐️ But we need to realize that role models are to be taken for their good traits and not for their weak ones. Kokila has good values. She is good at heart and kind. Her treatment of her husband is not always agreeable but as an adult, you learn from that and make sure that you do not make the same mistakes as your role model. Kinjal has done the very opposite

Kokila felt really bad about her daughters behavior... But its her karma too... when a daughter says' u dint treat ur husband nicely.. so dont advise me' is the biggest slap for the mother.. She failed as a wife and she failed as a mother!!!

Karma does not see who it is. It always comes back.. But I do not think Koki failed as a mother and a wife. If she had, then her marriage would have been in tatters. Koki and Parag do not have a perfect marriage and at times their or rather Koki's taunts leave a bad taste in our mouth.. But still, I think they have a good marriage. Both do respect each other .They have their bad days but they also have good ones.
As a mother, Koki seemed to have given good values. I always keep writing this but I will again.. After one particular age, it does not matter what your parents tell you.. The individual is responsible for their actions. Kinjal not listening to her mother is not simply Koki's fault. It is the fault of the entire family who treat her as a kid when she is not.. 😕

Parag and Dhawal are also made in same mold... They are always understanding , calm and too patient ... Yesterday I really felt sad to see Dhawal bhai taking all the accusations on the face and giving excuses for kinjal !!! He cant be real, thats what I thought... No man on earth will take that kinda accusations!!!... He does not deserve this type of treatment...

Parag atleast showed his anger when Jigna was here. Dhawal is just too soft and too understanding.. Maybe his 'not understanding' will make Kinjal realize her folly?

I totally agree with what you said about Kinjal being a child... How long it will take her to grow up... she may be 23-24... married... Still she cant act like a grown up, I would say she has some genetic problems... When a child throws tantrums , it has a certain level of cutness... But a grown up throw tantrums and act like a child, It is not so cute or sweet...

Oh.. It was ugly.. Totally.. Kinjal just was too much into herself.. She forgot the time and place

After all the dramas, Urmi was acting like Is all Kinjal's mistake... Who steal the coil first?!!!

Urmi🤢.. I hated that she kept cutting the veges when the Modis were so concerned. She taunted them even then. It is sad that Dhawal will not move out of Urmi's house.. It will be the solution for all these problems😕


Thanks Ponny😃
It was a lovely reply.. My views in blue😳

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