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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: ulakmini

in your points you all are right...I watched this show from bigining...ehrn he fallen in love with Sugni he does not know that Rewa is alive...but after find it Gulabia begged him to tell the truth to Sugni...if he is so confident about his love why he he hide it...think about your selves... after your marrige, if you find your husband is married man and he cheated you..what will you feel...Sugni is luckey she came to know the truth before the marrige.

I thought about it and put myself if i was a bedia and got married to vikram and later on knew his wife his alive. I knew he will make me understand what his wife was
(mentally unstable) it would have affected me to some extent but getting all the love / support from vikram and seeing his wife in such state I would have shared the the responsibility along with vikram and seen to it that rewa get's our support as well as best medical aid. I don't think anyone keeps a mentally unstable person at home would u? (This is my point of view if i came to know after marriage) it is better than doing sardhakai and sleeping with different Thakur's - i would say much much better option?).

So u would have chosen the other way around (here sungi is shown doing sardhakai if she was would have not done her sardhakai then the view would have been completely different)


Now to make vikram character negative they will show him aggressive/ leach / possessive lover and WHAT NOT IN THE COMING EPISODES (Where was all this before - out of blue moon all characters are changing according to CV's) HERE FORGET VIKRAM ALL CHARACTERS ARE CHANGED ACCORDING TO ME.


and why Rewa still want to be with her husband...he cheated her and is continueslly insulting her...but once woman accept a man as her husband, no matter how bad he is become later...she always trying to save her family...the practical truth is this... I didn't find him cheating i think he told her the truth and the way he is shown continuously insulting her - that cause his adi-sugni they should have got married and moved out of the house instead of staying under his nose. And rewa only loves herself and if she had thought about the family she wouldn't have made adi a sacrificial goat in all this process after all he is also from the same family or is he not. I would say she is selfish.

But here i want to GO OUT OF THE TOPIC AND make a different view are u happy with the plight of women where women abused / are bitten/ sold / constinulesly insulted n u consider they should hang on with their husband and consider them god n save their family pride who are part of it and stick to that family - disgusting. I would have loved if they showed in shows women to move forward / have equal rights/ lead a dignified life / education is shown as a limelight / means and ways to make a family into a happy family and to hit back on those at the right time and move out immediately who treat women as dirt). This is indeed very sad?


Jock is this a married old man like Vickram is behaving like a child for sake of love...😆
Real Victim is Aditya here...he is not in love with sugni...but going to get marry her...he hurt s his mom and uncle who he loves most in this world...
Sugni has another option to move away to another city...but after all this id a Indian tele series...


Victim Aditya who told him to fall in between these two (A person who thinks of his family doesn't forget his family members just for two members in the family he thinks in totality) He is so concerned about his mami sometimes i feel why he is so close to rewa than vikram that Aditya who didn't even like the sight of bedni who is shown as well educated / angry young man had the guts to throw sugni out of his house? Who dosen't even love her and can't stand her is shown meek and ready to get married to a bedni without knowing her well and that too for whom rewa even if his full family is against their relationship ( that is the biggest joke i would say)
. Ok u want to get married n save ur mama-mami life then do so have the guts to move out of the village and not stay under the roof n under his nose. Infact they are bringing more rift between rewa-vikarm forget saving their marraige.

It only happens in Indian tele series in realty sugni would have happily got married to vikram thakur.

if she is a girl who has high cast and well financial family background, will she be in love with a Man like vickam...

The last line indicates the age i guess - so u mean henceforth get married to any tom-dick-harry of same age-old group no matter how he/she is?

I would have loved if they had kept the consistency, essence n concept of the show. Sugni as strong. Vikram as firm. Adity as stern. Rather than a love story I would have enjoyed the importance was given on bedia community and ways and means to come out of it and some love thrown in between. THE CV'S HAVE RUINED ALL CHARACTERS IN THE SHOW

Edited by lidvin - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wanted a story of the bedni's. In fact i had said so in the early days when TVS proposed to Sugni - i was disappointed. I was hoping that Sugni would be a woman in her own right and be able to come up in society without the help of TVS but what was i told by certain forum readers that this is a love story and a love story like no other like Jane and Rochester or some such personalities between spring and autumn!! And that there was never anything like it being a social story about bednis nor was it a story of Sugni and that i had misunderstood the story and i was asked to quote chapter and verse on where i heard that it was a story of bednis or sugni - i quietened down about it amidst the furore ...

Today when the "love story" did not go their way - suddenly everyone is screaming - what about the bednis!! what about Sugni being a woman in her own right. That this was supposed to be a story of sugni but now it isn't!!

what an about face!!! sheesh!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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oh yes. to add on because i happened to see that particular line.

No lie is justified and i have repeatedly stated that. I know fans of this and fans of that will say that each party's lie is justified.

I still maintain that Adi should not have lied. And i still maintain that Sugni should learn to stand on her own feet and become a woman of substance - then she can decided who she wants to marry - Autumn or Summer!!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zeezee55

I wanted a story of the bedni's. In fact i had said so in the early days when TVS proposed to Sugni - i was disappointed. I was hoping that Sugni would be a woman in her own right and be able to come up in society without the help of TVS but what was i told by certain forum readers that this is a love story and a love story like no other like Jane and Rochester or some such personalities between spring and autumn!! And that there was never anything like it being a social story about bednis nor was it a story of Sugni and that i had misunderstood the story and i was asked to quote chapter and verse on where i heard that it was a story of bednis or sugni - i quietened down about it amidst the furore ...


Today when the "love story" did not go their way - suddenly everyone is screaming - what about the bednis!! what about Sugni being a woman in her own right. That this was supposed to be a story of sugni but now it isn't!!

what an about face!!! sheesh!!!



Even i have read but have not seen the film. But the CV's were portraying the script that way n it was not going according to the initial promos so it was assumed that is it going that way after they got rewa manzil and rewa as mentally unstable wife. As per when the show started she was suppose to come in the 9th episode but was brought in after 3 months that too mentally unstable so what is wrong in assuming it might be going that way and u will also agree that in the initial 3 months the story on bednis was highlighted and it seemed like some positive change will come in the midst of bednis?

As u say the "love story" we are screaming, wouldn't have been so much highlighted and voiced by us if adi was not paired with sugni. The comments would have been different in the forum and most would have agreed if she would have fought and move with someone other than adi. Rewa manzil made us guess that the story might go that way as per the film as during that time the bedia community was never highlighted.

Vikram did a big mistake by telling a lie.

Now it has turned into a triangle love story that too a mama-banja (disgusting) and changing all characters according to their choice? so why shoudn't we comment and scream? Any any ways we are voicing our opinion to the CV's not the forum members.

Edited by lidvin - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am not going to reply your all questios...i feel now it is enough...but the part i highlighted in red...I want to say...In practical life no matter how much husband became eveil most of wives still teying to save their marrages...It is vety difficult to change this social norms and attituds ..Last year I treated a paicient , she is a woman..her husband was trying to kill her 7 times...but still she does not wants to leave him...she is normal in every way...but her brother wants her to get treatment beacuse he feels that she is mad... Finally we convinced her to that she should get devorce from him...because her life is in danger...but still she is not happy...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zeezee55

I wanted a story of the bedni's. In fact i had said so in the early days when TVS proposed to Sugni - i was disappointed. I was hoping that Sugni would be a woman in her own right and be able to come up in society without the help of TVS but what was i told by certain forum readers that this is a love story and a love story like no other like Jane and Rochester or some such personalities between spring and autumn!! And that there was never anything like it being a social story about bednis nor was it a story of Sugni and that i had misunderstood the story and i was asked to quote chapter and verse on where i heard that it was a story of bednis or sugni - i quietened down about it amidst the furore ...


Today when the "love story" did not go their way - suddenly everyone is screaming - what about the bednis!! what about Sugni being a woman in her own right. That this was supposed to be a story of sugni but now it isn't!!

what an about face!!! sheesh!!!

In old days I too felt it is going to be a story like Jane Eair..Vikram- Rochester both of them have done same mistake..hiding creazy wife in home and was going to marry very young girls...after truht came in front Jane escaped and lost for R...untill "Berta" (R's wife )alive, Jane did not came back...but Sugni has more streanth she lives same hous with Vikram and going to marry some one else in same house...😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ulakmini

think about your selves... after your marrige, if you find your husband is married man and he cheated you..what will you feel....
.what about Vickam..??? Vickram also very agressive...he was not in under controle when Gulabia got ingered...
and why Rewa still want to be with her husband...he cheated her and is continueslly insulting her...but once woman accept a man as her husband, no matter how bad he is become later...she always trying to save her family...the practical truth is this...
Jock is this a married old man like Vickram is behaving like a child for sake of love...😆
Real Victim is Aditya here...he is not in love with sugni...but going to get marry her...he hurt s his mom and uncle who he loves most in this world...
Sugni has another option to move away to another city...but after all this id a Indian tele series...
About Sugni I do not like one thing on her...as i feel the love she had with vickram was not real one...she wanted to fulfill her dreams through him...tell me this...if she is a girl who has high cast and well financial family background, will she be in love with a Man like vickam...Love is something can cross all the limit...but here nothing like that...

ok let me ans ur first question if me or any girl will find his husband is cheating on her atleast we normal humanbeings or wifes dont try 2 attack 2 kill him.that too twice.
second thing here vikram was cheating on her.really when did that happen,atleast tell me wat is the meaning of cheating in ur terms,vikram didnt had reva with him and fell in love with sugni and kept her as mistress.he thought she is dead and moved on in his life.when he found her he wanted 2 treat her and take care of her responsibilities he never knew she was alive but living with her bro and then came here and was acting mentally unstable and try 2 hurting him2 death even in full senses.so plz this cant be called as a husband cheating on wife.when he knew she was sane he himself said her i dnt love u and love other girl and ourmarriage never worked so better move on.how this called cheating


if vikram was rly agressive when reva was hurting him so many times why he didnt hit her back
if vikram was agressive why he didnt scold the girl when she hit him without his fault
if vikram was agressive why hadnt he hurted sugni and aditya atleast he didnt slapped them when they cheatedand backstabbed him
vikram protected himself from gulabiya.tats human nature if anyone try 2 abuse us we get into defensive mode tats wat vikram did as noone was stopping gulabiya though she is hitting him badly.vikram wantedly didnt shot her its an accident.


if as u said reva is rly tat gud women and wife.let me clear u any good and loving girl will never tolerate even her bf getting verbally abused and will stand infront of the people whoa re trying 2 harm him as his protection tat if u want 2 hurt him first u have 2 face me 2 even touch his saaya.
any loving girl will never hurt her love so hardly tat he can die bcz of it
any loving girl will never try 2 torcher her love coz he dont love her she will leave him 4 his happiness but will always loves him and wants his happiness
reva doesnt have any such qualities so it proves she never loved tvs


love doesnt look age,beauty,status it looks the heart and feelings of person
love is beyond all physical things and finacial things
those who never fell in love or dont even knw abt love can never knw wat is love


aditya was never a victim.noone forced him into any situations
if he dnt have brain and is confused and cares abt gulabiya then its not fault of tvs
who asked and pleaded tvs tat he will do sardakai of sugni ADI
who wanted 2 prove gulabiya tat how gr8 and mahan he is ADI
tvs never wanted all this but it was adi who wantedly came in between 2make gulabiya happy
he is not 1yr infant tat he dnt knw wat is right and wrong and who cant think beyong gulabiya



for ur kind information jiji herself wanted tvs 2 get married 2 beautiful,rich,educated thakurain
if he would never will find any beautiful rich girl how did jiji tried 2 force him4 it




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