Is ANSH the begining and end of Anandi?

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Hey Aparnauma, Very nice analysis!

I agree with most of your points and differ with a few.

To me, Shiv's entry was at a perfect time. On her own Anandi would have never thought of leaving Jaitser and going beyond. She would have stil been striving to find an answer to this question "what was wrong with me, that Jagya left me."

It was because of Shiv A regained the confidence that she too is a valuable person. If you remember she herself admits this to Shiv, that no one has ever made her feel valuable before. Everyone praises her work, but not herself.

So Shiv was someone who had started to heal A. But every single track from there stopped A's growth.

Before she could realise she was forced into another relationship. She doesn't even know why Shiv wants to marry her and before she can start to take charge of new relationship there are people like CM and Saanchi who are compelling her to prove herself. This has definately made A lose her identity and focus.

The current track is not letting us enjoy AnSh or J's barbaadi. it's just a hotch-potch and the characters seem to behave different from their usual self.

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

I am afraid that with Jagat s confession for this crime may have some adverse affect on... Ansh. There will be few people who may admire his this act and at the same time CM may raise the point that Anandi s past marriage is still haunting them..

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Uma

@adi2512

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Missesha
Hey Aparnauma, Very nice analysis!

I agree with most of your points and differ with a few.

To me, Shiv's entry was at a perfect time. On her own Anandi would have never thought of leaving Jaitser and going beyond. She would have stil been striving to find an answer to this question "what was wrong with me, that Jagya left me."

It was because of Shiv A regained the confidence that she too is a valuable person. If you remember she herself admits this to Shiv, that no one has ever made her feel valuable before. Everyone praises her work, but not herself.

So Shiv was someone who had started to heal A. But every single track from there stopped A's growth.

Before she could realise she was forced into another relationship. She doesn't even know why Shiv wants to marry her and before she can start to take charge of new relationship there are people like CM and Saanchi who are compelling her to prove herself. This has definately made A lose her identity and focus.

The current track is not letting us enjoy AnSh or J's barbaadi. it's just a hotch-potch and the characters seem to behave different from their usual self.

Missesha.,

As regards to your point in bold.,

As per me, CM & Sis are not a means to prove herself to others or Shiv., but only for proving her to herself...that she has indeed fallen in love with him and the marriage with him is no more an obligation w.r.t her mother's last wish.

She will now choose him herself, she had always wanted that choice and she got one.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

@ adi

Anandi doesn't need to prove herself to them but knowing Anandi she might make it her mission to prove it to them set right their misconceptions.

If they have to make these two wome as antagonists at least make them worthy of her attention.

I 'd rather have her fight Heth Singh and co than wasting her time with these two stupid women who have been shown just sitting on their back sides and have nothing better to do with their life except indulging in their prejudices.

Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago

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Uma

@adi2512

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Aparna.,

LOLZ...Along with all this proving that we are after , CV's are just wanting to spread their mssg w.r.t to prejudices against remarriage as well as gaanv ki ladkiya...thru CM & Sis...😆😆

Two birds or to say 3 birds at one shot...😉😆

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: bhach

Please tell me that why I will have problem with Shiv...I am talking about Anandis s capabilities and still says she should havebecome collector..she only needs to do graduation ...she should have done that she just did only tel malish of DS and made chai for DS in those five years when J was in Mumbai...she can get her degree now andstill can become collector. I am comaring both so I I have to write who is number 1 and number 2...Please do not forget that people looks strengths and weaknesses aLl together not individually.

I think there is some confusion here. Anandi is a graduate now. She completed the same thru distance learning. Her results came via post to the haveli and Bhairon/Basant praised her big time for getting very high marks in graduation.

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gun_k

@gun_k

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

great post Aparna. Something that i have been thinking too. In reality for a divorcee re-marriage is the last thing on the mind but regaining your confidence, being independent and having space and time to realise your true worth and sometimes moving away from the place where all the torture took place is really how it happens.

I loved reading all the posts and like i said in another post why can't Anandi take up another place in jaitser and ask her father to live with her until she gets married to Shiv . In this way she will also have a taste of living without too much shackles of traditions etc. and can really get a perspective over everything and Jagya can go back to his family and maybe try and make something of himself and leave Anandi alone.

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dsupriya

@dsupriya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

I want to correct one thing that is anandi is a graduate. She did get her degree. There was one episode where they mention it. Also i beg to differ here. Social work starts from home and she is spreading education amongst elders and children which is great by itself. How many me us can do that

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: bhach
Two things to keep in mind..
CVs want to give a message whether a child marriage or as an adult , a woman is always forced or is dependent on elders...in other words ..a woman does not have any say to chose her life partener..This s what is shown all the drama with Bhago s promise.

Second thought... CVs chose to show Shiv as a good person by showing Jagya in bad to worse to worst state. I hate to say but CVs should have choosen the other way that Jgay and Shiv both should have been shown as nice persons...but Anandi still choosing Shiv as life partner. No one would like to accept Jagya as life partner the way he is shown. So Jagya cannever fit into schemes.

For the last one year ..I always advocated that Anandi is hundreds times more intellegent, talented and have capabilities than Shiv...She should be herself a collector in stead the wife of a collector...Unfortunately illetratre DS once again killed Anandis capabilities ..first in childhood and again today with forced marriage.

They have not shown J to be a bad person just to show S as a good person.J has turned bad way before S has entered the show.J is continuing to behave exactly the way he always behaved.It is not like he has become from bad to worse.

Shiv is brought in to show Anandi what she could be not to show what Jagya is not or could'nt be.

As for the rest of it yes they should have focused some more on her instead of her relationships.