Deepa...I had deleted my post for a reason...
Anyway, since you have responded, this is a matter of perspective...from your comments, I realize you have not misunderstood our comments, much like KPJi had, but just that you have a completely different pov...I fully respect that and also that you are able to see passion in all that you do..
However, I retain my right to express my desire to see what I want..and to express my discontent when that does not happen...
Whatever that maybe, let us not demean marital passion by using phrases that make it sound incredibly cheap and dirty...because all of us are products of that passion at the end of the day...