SwaRon fans - Cut the DRAMA & seek CLOSURE !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

So I have been getting a lot of PM-s regarding this and my FB inbox is about to explode. Sorry for keeping mum all this while but this was not my secret to give out. Since Tanushree (Luvtannu) came out and reavealed things ... Yes I have known this all along but somewhere along hoped for SwaRon to be resolved without this Sneha / Gothi thing coming out but Seeing all the (unnecessary) negativity and Sneha-bashing , I just couldn't keep quiet any longer.

People get a few things straight :

1. Her personal life is none of our business. Please DO NOT bash her for dating Gothi. That is something we CANNOT raise fingers at her for. Whether or not we like her choice. Just because you don't like him doesnt mean Gothi is going to disappear. Please live and let live. I have known this since God knows when but Hey, look I am still around, very much unscathed .. and watching D3 & SwaRon.Gothi is INSIGNIFICANT in our equation with SwaRon ! Uske honay na honay se humein koi farak nahin padna chaiye . So kiss baat pe dimagh ko pressure cooker banaana ?! Complain karna hai karo. SHAUKH se karo, but please limit your criticism to the quality of the SwaRon storyline and the acting/dancing not the quality of men Sneha Kapoor chooses to consort with .

2. About Sneha and her refusal to shoot certain "scenes" with Shantanu - That is a question of Professionalism and work ethics. If Sneha can sleep at night with a clear conscience doing what she did with regards to the aforementioned, I dont think tum logon ke ronay dhonay se uske soch mein koi farak padne wala hai . Whats done , is done . Either you all learn to live with the fact that SwaRon will always be borderline platonic or move on. Giving Sneha grief over this is NOT going to change ANYTHING.

3. For those who hate Sneha - NO ONE is happy at this new turn of events but please do keep in mind that she is the same girl who was Sharon for you ... all this while. An integral part of the SwaRon which , until 2012, made us all VERY VERY happy. Even if she was dating a Dried-Raisin or a Pink Stuffed Racoon instead of Gothi, it wouldn't change the fact that she was , is and always will be D3's finest actress and female dancer. So Sneha ko kuch bolnay se please zaraa yeh sab baatein bhi zehen mein rakhna .

4. Apologise to the Creatives - Guess they are not to blame for the track entirely . Sorry for all the rants lol

5. For those threatening to quit cuz of Sneha's supposed 'betrayal' - Watch for Shantanu. Usne toh kisi ka kuch nahin bigaada ! Why should he suffer the consequences of his co-star's decision ?

Bottom line, Either ACCEPT things , or MOVE ON . Yahan India-Forums pe star plus drama rachanay se NOTHING is going to change. Have a good day all of you.

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nandini

@Riddikulus

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Posted: 13 years ago

Absolutely.

See, Sneha's personal life is none of our business. She can date whoever she likes, because it's a choice we cannot and should not want to dictate. So, in that regard, none of us has any right to point fingers at her. And as for what I know is hurting more people than the fact of her dating Lavin, which is her alleged unprofessionalism, like Rafz said, if she can sleep with a clear conscience at night, we need to give her that space to be who she is, and nothing remains for us to say or do to change anything.

And yes, Sneha is and always will be D3's finest performer for me too, and that is a fact that I think we must not only remember, but also respect and give its due. And we must also give SHANTANU his due. Remember that too, everyone, because he's as much a part of SwaRon as Sneha is.

Palki ma'am...seriously, we apologise from the bottom of our hearts for everything we have ever said against you here out of frustration. Whatever be the reason behind the track being the way it is, one thing this chaos and speculation has done is to at least bring home the fact that there can always be more than meets the eye, that a LOT of factors might go into writing a story, and whether what is being stated as the reason here is true or false, we do realise that blaming one person all the time is NOT sound reasoning. Peace, ma'am and D3 writers all.

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Kankshita

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am proud of your taking a stand, Raf.

Honestly I am not a sucker for hormone and cheese, the world knows that. But even mental me also knows there's no romantic love story on platonic basis! I am indignantly sorrowful about this issue because for a fact, SwaRon have ended. I will take this opportunity to state that I cannot accept this. I considered Sneha Kapoor to be a professional actress but I was very wrong indeed. Her conditions are neither prudential nor moral and mostly, immensely unprofessional. Nobody gives a fat rat's arse about whom an actor dates, we'd be happy (I would mind my own business) if an actor we admire is happy. But this business is ugly and inappreciable. 👎🏼

Sneha Kapoor is the face of Sharon and she has also given Sharon her soul but the fact that she has also taken her soul away from her is very aggrieving. Besides, Shantanu Maheshwari also gets lowly appreciated by his fans because he is unable to deliver what the fans expect because of his costar. And albeit I have never really been into cursing Palki Malhotra, I'd like to apologize to her as well as mostly everybody tends to blame the creative team of the show for everything.

Personally, I am not ready to accept a platonic SwaRon because they'd be a whole new dimension of meaningless. Nobody ever in their dreariest dreams saw Swayum and Sharon absolutely devoid of intensity, substance and sense. I am not saying platonic relationships have no substance, of course they do. But there's no room for platonic behavior in a romantic relationship. Give me one good reason why I should take a no-intensity nonsensical version of SwaRon? I am done being a loyal fan, people. SwaRon have almost ended here and for real.

Although yes, if I do continue watching (even though that'd be like redefining depression) it'd only be because of Shantanu Maheshwari.

I'd like to thank Sneha Kapoor for giving us Sharon and implore her to see just how she's ruined her too. She's a brilliant actress and dancer, nevertheless. We can only voice complains and sulk. OR we can have a go at what's for real and get over it and might as well get a life. Seriously.

A most aggrieved,

Savage

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Shishir Darsh

@marauder

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thanks Rafi for making this post. It is always better to know and learn to deal with the harsh truth than to live in a make believe world. And moreover I was seriously not liking the way people were questionng each others loyality for SwaRon. Have they forgotten the one they were questioning were the one who had always defended Sharon and appreciated Sneha? Didn't they think even once why were they not doing the same thing again? All of you who have doubted the integrity of those fans let me ask you - are all those fan that shallow that they will just beileve anything any newbie had just posted. The answer is no. So instead of questioning them its time to know the truth and learn to live with it.

I would be lying if I say I don't care about whom Sneha date but at the same time I have no right and I am in no place to judge her. She is right in her own place to date any one she wishes. We have no right to question and bash her on that. And coming to her unprofessional work ethic. I would only say I am seriously disappointed with it. But hey its she who have blurred the line of reel and real. It would be much better if we don't do the same. So I must say please don't badmouth her. After all she will remain the girl who has given us Sharon. And definitely one of the best actor and dancer among the lot of D3 cast. And as Rafi said if she can sleep with clear concise then nothing we do is gonna change it.

And finally I would like to say I am extremely sorry to Palki Mam and rest of the creatives. I don't know how many times I have bashed them without knowing the actual reason. And I can't tell me how much ashamed I am for that. But being the eternal Sharon fan I woud also like to requst them to do anything in their power to salvage SwaRon. Its only possible by them now.

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Winds.of.Winter

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Posted: 13 years ago

Phew! first post where i can freely write.
Firstly, THANK YOU for clearing things up so decently.👍🏼
people have been questioning some SwaRon fan's loyalty including mine...

I have been saying this since the beginning that her personal life is her's to decide.we are absolutely NO ONE,n i repeat NO ONE to comment on her choice or anythng.damn right u are there.all we need to do is stick to the SwaRon storyline.Thats it.her actions affected our SwaRon.n i can never forgive or forget that.

but i absolutely loved point no.2. this was a very unique way to put it.😳

"If Sneha can sleep at night with a clear conscience doing what she did , I dont think hamaray ronay dhonay se uske soch mein koi farak padne wala hai"

true that.if SHE is fine with all this then our whining about it aint gonna affect anythng.but i still am shocked that she could do this.💔 anyways.moving on...

i know NO ONE can be Sharon.Sneha was 50% the reason why i loved D3 n the reason why i regretted leaving dancing. i cant express how much i loved her n respected her.so its true kuch bolne se pehle we should think but all said n done we are humans.there s an emotion called anger,a feeling of being backstabbed by someone we loved so much.so yes.thoda sunna to parega.but ONLY on her professionalism n nothing els...she was n still is the true diva...

n lastly i knew one day i wud have to say sorry to Palki Maam cz this thing was on my mind fr a long time.i knew she was hiding stuff.i knew we were blaming the wrong person.So REALLY SORRY Palki Maam. na jaane SwaRon na milne k chakkar mein apke against kitni mahabharat likkhi hu main.though acc to me she should hav never taken the blame on her shoulders.but she supports her actors.so SORRY!!

n RAFI!!! u know shantanu k liye to kuch bhi.but it pains to see the same sneha standing 10yards away who used to be this close to shantanu.🥺 which is why i dnt wanna watch D3.but sach mein.Tannu kabhi kisika kuch nahi bigara hain.kudos to that guy too.

God, we are really an unfortunate fanbase.

P.S: Rafi's touch to the post : "dried raisin" 🤣🤣😉

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Snowey

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Agree Rafi, Sneha and her personal life is for her to decide and I don't have any right or say in it. Will not hold her for who she dates but her unprofessional work ethic and take on SwaRon sure irks me. But then again will my crying in here do much, i don't think so. I leave the final decision on her hand and i hope *SwaRon fans hope* she does what is good for SwaRon keeping her professional norms and ethics right.

Whatever her decision may be, one can't take her due credits of being the best dancer and actress in D3 and the finest in the industry.

Also i, apologise to the creatives of the show and Palki in specific for always blaming them for the way SwaRon track was handled.

If there is one thing i learned out of all this its - there is always an other side to the story and without knowing the entire truth its not wise to jump in to any conclusion.

Now that everything is out in the open, i will like to say that i am a SwaRon and a Sharon and fan and i don't think i need to prove anything to anyone for my earlier comments.

A very disappointed fan

Sudha

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hkl75

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thanks for making this post rafi! it was really needed without getting into drama auditions stage...

Typing each word today is costing me sheer amount of energy n mind strain. I have never ever thought one day I ll be sitting like this totally dejected, and hopeless n hurt for something which is even not in my control... We loved unconditional, n well yea, love payback is strange... 😕

Whoever Sneha dates with, this is purely her own choice (i expected better). none of has got right to bash her for dating lavin. thats her life n well I dont have to say much in that regard.

What hurted me was not her dating with zatak guy, what unbearable is while we all bashed cvs n palki madam so ruthlessly, not even waiting for a second n reading what we typed in pure frustration, it was Sneha's fault. She herself was asking for no intimate swaron scenes coz she is uncomfortable hugging her co-star. who is gentleman n em very sure would not have taken advantage of his on-screen professional life. What hurts the most is, *sob* swaron is now finished for me!

I deeply regret all my words i used to bash CVs. Hope they will understand what was the real deal with us was. Heart felt apologies.

I know i will not act more like a sadist and move on rather staying with this platonic story.

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Angel

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Posted: 13 years ago

The whole Past thing is going on in my Mind ... i cud never ever expect this to happen again and in d3 ... I m just feeling the same pain everything which i felt when Shaku left ... How we criticised her and then wished her good luck...

Saying Move On and In real Life Moving on is really not easy ... How can i not know this...

Those small happiness they gave the small pleasures... is it so easy to Move On...

Hum chilate rahein ge and nothing is gonna happen like always ... WE DONT MATTER ANDS THATS IT...

Sneha 😭

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Nehal92

@Nehal92

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Posted: 13 years ago

EXACTLY guys pls let just stop discussing it any further plzzz..itss hell disturbing... let not do this DRAMA more. lets just forget it and live with the way its going... even after shakti left kriyaansh fans kept the fresh buy there write ups... but ya after all this going on...i dont feel like and i know many out there dont feel like reading any ff ss or os of swaron!! lets just erase this out of our mind and move on... AFTER ALL ITS JUST A SHOW it s unfair that our lives gets so badly effected.

i can bet any swaron fan day was not gud from the time this news or rumor whatever is up...

lets just stop this plzzz

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---Priya---

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Posted: 13 years ago

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i have no prb with who ever she dates.. be it Gothi or who ever...that's her choice and we are no one to interfere in there..

but the sad part is her real life relationship affecting the on-screen relationship..

i mean no need to do intimate scene if she is uncomfortable.. and yes having her BF in the same set might be more uncomfortable for her.. but at least a hug/ holding hands.. is it that hard??