The Intimacy:was it pre-marital or post-marital?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yesterday I was watching the repeat telecast with my aunt.She does not know anything about this show.When Arnav said,"I am sorry,Mein Janta Hoon Tumhe Shadi Se Pehle Yeh Saab..."
She asked me,"Why the heck is that girl wearing Sindoor if she is not married"
Then a thought cross my mind.Was this intimacy pre-marital or post marital.
What does Khushi think she is?A married woman or an unmarried.There is nothing called half married.Either you are married or you are not.Yes she considers Arnav as her husband mentally but mental marriage is not accepted in our society.Unmarried women,widow,divorced women can not put on sindoor and Mangalsutra.So why she is seen sporting them?
And what about the society and their family.What does Buaji,Garima,Naniji,Anjali think of them.If according to Dadi their marriage is invalid then a traditional woman like Buaji would have asked them to immediately marry without going through pre-wedding rituals.Nobody will want their daughter to be treated as someone who had a live-in relationship.But here Buaji,Naniji,Anjali no one seems to have any problem with ArShi's relationship.
And what about the society.What do he guests think while attending their pre-wedding functions.Do they feel that this couple was previously in a live-in relationship.Now they are getting married.But the Gupta neighbors are too conservative to accept this without any fuss.
Now please tell me what is their marital status?If they are married then why so much emphasis on re-marriage.How can Arnav call off the wedding when they are already married.Nobody can point fingers at Khushi even if the wedding is called off.And if they are not married then why this Sindoor and Mangalsutra.Will she stop sporting them if the wedding does not take place.But she is wearing them even without the wedding.
Someone please clarify their relationship status.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think about this from the day they started the remarriage track.
Actually I think she has accepted him as her husband on the day he confessed about his love for her on the terrace.if dadi had not witnessed they would have continued a marital life.
Rm will happen once he finds her. I hope so!
She s legally married to him,that's what he meant by 'my legally wedded wife'
Dadi may call her characterless...😭
But They have accepted each other as husband and wife.
He even accepted her as his ma's bahu in the garden.
Acceptance is important than rituals...
Still,
If rm doesn't happen she 'll be stigmatized by the society.
Edited by dsnair - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She is Married its just she wants her marriage to awknowledge by the Society...thts it...!!!!
Edited by Krishyy808 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dsnair

I think about this from the day they started the remarriage track.

Actually I think she has accepted him as her husband on the day he confessed about his love for her on the terrace.if dadi had not witnessed they would have continued a marital life.
Rm will happen once he finds her. I hope so!
She s legally married to him,that's what he meant by 'my legally wedded wife'
Dadi may call her characterless...😭
But They have accepted each other as husband and wife.
He even accepted her as his ma's bahu in the garden.
Acceptance is important than rituals...
Still,
If rm doesn't happen she 'll be stigmatized by the society.


But the society considers her as a married woman.Hindu society do not allow a married woman to put on Sindoor.Only married woman have a right on Sindoor.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As per its a fiction it can go at any level we can't expect any logical things from here !!
but according to me . Khushi needs a proper ritual marriage..till now they didn't show a proper marriage papers in our show !!!😕 Not even a contract marriage papers i guess.

But u bring out the point very well..i m little bit confused dear 😉
Edited by archanakamaraj - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I also have doubts on this. She is half married. It is her mind only, which cannot accept the marriage without the rituals. For arnav, she is his wife, but for Khushi? I don't know. every single scene leads to another question. Yesterday's scene again is a question mark for everyone. why no one could discern anything from them. The scene was abrupt, don't know if they will show something on this further, but as of now it is vague. yes, after all show is a business. May be for fetching TRP. See, phera was the only important ritual that they were thinking of, why don't they just do that and let them live together? Why did they go for all these rituals. As you asked what would be other ppl's impression on khushi and ASR, they were cohabiting only for these time? Especially the neighbors of Buaji. this is not as simple as it sounds. none of them has any problem with that fact.

Yesterday's plot was totally unclear. I don't know what is awaiting for khushi. If there is injustice for khushi, then there is no coming back for this show, this is going to be a disaster because no one would take this much.

We all love ASR because of his love to khushi and if he turns his face from her, he is going to be punished.

Still their marital status is unknown, it is not even known whether they are legally protected or not (rituals were not there).

When shyam put some sindoor on khushi's photo, that was very much important for Buaji. Now ASR even tied up mangalsuthra and sindoor on her forhead that is nothing for anyone. I don't know what is all these and what is going to happen in this show.

Really want to appreciate each and everything in the show, but fear in the back of the mind for the future track just inhibits the enjoyment.

Sorry for the long post dear.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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u know what, just because the CV's cant answer this confusion, they will get them married, because if they dont get married, how do they justify khushi's sindoor and mangalsutra?😆
Edited by komalsirwani - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife


But the society considers her as a married woman.Hindu society do not allow a married woman to put on Sindoor.Only married woman have a right on Sindoor.

Dadi😡 will create stigma.
But don't worry Arnav is her knight he 'll protect her.wedding 'll happen.
She wears both sindhoor and mangalsutra...
Poojali told Arnav that they won't be considered married unless they take pheras...
They r doing this rituals for the sake of family and society...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think they are legally married..
but as per traditionaly they are not...
I mean they didn't compleate 7 pheres...
so to Khushi she whole heartly accept Arnav as her hubby..
so thats why...
to her this is post marital...
but to the society this is pre-marital..
thats all I can say yaar..
this shw compleatly confused me...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Due to the DB negotiations, DKS track the story is completely messed up.

Khushi wears the magalsutra & takes it off when she pleases

My favourite character confuses me to no end lately 😔 😒

Some Dadi pops in & says do the marriage properly & the contract part of the marriage is still not out.

The marriage part of this show is such a mess i say.

What kind of marriage is this ?? - i know its for the convenience of the CV's !!

Edited by Harshitha - 13 years ago

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