Bhairon n The lost sheep !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhairon cd successfully washed his hands of performing the crime of childmarriage..by arranging a suitable match 4 Anandi...
Why can't he try to correct him instead of outright rejection?
How long will he bear the sorrow of having an unwanted son?
He can formulate a way to get him back...as kind of challenge to prove himself n earn the respect by leading honest life...
When he comes back as The lost sheep [ vide http://christianity.about.com/od/biblestorysummaries/p/prodigalson.htm ], any dad offers a shoulder to cry on..in the first instance n then try put him back 2 track...
He was allowed in to haveli as long as he was committing crimes...
Now when he came back ,he was orphaned...what an irony!
If sharing the home along with Anandi b4 her marriage is a problem , he cd b arranged a shelter elsewhere at sugna or so ..by discussing n sorting the issue out...his stubbornness hurts even his wife n others...

Jagat shd be clarified of the fact that Anandi has nothing to do with his redemption...as she is moving out n its clearly their decision not to allow him in until he proves himself as a gentleman in the society...& that even if Anandi recommends also they won't consider her request as they are not fully convinced of his realization ...
Why keeping the burden of redemption...on Anandi?
Why can't Bhairon shoulder the accountability to keep him on right track as a parent?
Jagat is not a rival!
Yyy???




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Posted: 13 years ago
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If they can not care to make him b as a good citizen n a good son ,they can't have right to slap him...
Arre ... They are more interested in their own mistakes n how to save their reputation,,but never take responsibility to make him feel accountable by smoother means of love & affection as a family...,,,... Can Jagat change ever in such a deadlock?
Similarly I don't see what is Anandi's problem in convincing Dadisa & Bhairon ,Sumitra to help Jagya come out of his blues & woes.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As soon as Anandi learns about Gauri's pregnancy, I want Anandi to bring Gauri to Haveli.. by convincing Bhairon & DS., while jagat continues to scheme on them...

Then comes the real mazaa!
So if Jagat wants his redemption, he must accept Gauri as his wife n his child as his...n assure social status to them without over action.!
Edited by shivanandi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sreevask,
Though I agree with you., mainly on humanitarian POV., still...as per me J has done a grave mistake of leaving G...this is unpardonable even by a Parent.
For J., to have a leaverage on maafi department...the first thing he needs to do is to own up his responsibility towards G...
When he left A, J cited a reason that he never loved A., and Bal Vivah is the culprit...but what about G...she was HIS CHOICE after he has become an ADULT...Now, leaving G., it only shows his weakness of character.
So, unless he RISES in the dept., of Character and Attitude...he cannot be pardoned by anybody.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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When Jagya could not tolerate Gauri's one lie and left her all alone in Mumbai, unaware of her pregnancy, how can he expect his family members and Anandi to pardon him for all the wrong deeds that he did.
Anandi and the Singh family are truly and absolutely correct in their decision of not accepting him as they knew that he is not sorry for his deeds, he just needs them back coz now he has nothing with him. he is deserted in all the ways at this point of time and hence wants his family back.
Edited by Kurup - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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After some intance, God is also not forgiven some deeds untill the person don't forgive you... God will forgive His rights but if you did wrong with somebody God will never forgive you untill the person give you clean chit...Anandi is human, Bhairoon is human, Dadisa is human... Humans need to forget all those things for forgiveness... Jagya hurts them deeply, how could they can forget those wounds easily??? Could you??? Even if somebody took my penny in my life I remember the one and I can't forgive... it is my right to ask a compensation at the end of life!!! Just Maafi is not the solution Jaghead to pay for all his deeds, Indeed!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In the lost sheep/prodigal son.

The son has come asking for forgiveness on his own.He took the blame for all his mistakes and blamed only himself and nobody else
He also said that he is not fit enough to be his son and he was content enough to be his servant.

But we did not here J express those sentiments. He just demanded forgiveness as his right.It probably may be your right but to earn that right you need to take responsibility for the acts that you have committed which he has not done so how can he expect forgiveness?


One more thing wise people learn from others' mistakes and foolish people insist on learning only from their experiences and Jagya one step ahead - He will only learn when life is harsh on him.This harshness will do him good.Once he learns he will come and ask for forgiveness in the rightway and I'm sure he will be forgiven.

Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Humiliating Jagia after a certain point will have adverse effect. After some time even if Singhs and Jagia are united, will things will be same?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elasingh

Humiliating Jagia after a certain point will have adverse effect. After some time even if Singhs and Jagia are united, will things will be same?



Well said ...I feel they stretched it beyond yielding point...to repent later?..may b if they stitch in time @ hospital itself,they cd hv saved nine.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have blasted him in other thread. I find "his sitting on high pedestal and looking down at Jagia " attitude difficult to swallow. But this is a serial, so sab chalta hai.
Edited by elasingh - 13 years ago

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