Arti will now BEG to be loved...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think today's episode really is showing that Yash was telling the truth when he said he doesn't want to love anyone again. Arpita is his only love and he is not open to loving anyone else romantically ever. I think that is fine and should be respected and he truly should NEVER have gotten married again. No one gets married just for the kids, marriage involves a lot of emotion and investment and for him to think that he could compartmentalize his marriage is the height of stupidity.
In this situation, the CV's have placed Arti in a very delicate and difficult situation. They want to show these two people getting together (which in normal life would likely never get together). We are now supposed to watch Arti try and get into Yash's good graces, which is just painful to watch. This now isn't a relationship of equals anymore, it is her trying to put together a family by herself.
Just lost interest in a big way in this show. I reallly wish Yash would see a psychiatrist to at least process his feelings and have someone to talk to about them. He is carrying around a lot of grief and isn't ready to be with someone else.
Do you think Arti should keep this baby? It is the first time I wonder about it. Will Yash be able to look at that child with any love or will it always remind him of his betrayal to Arpita (most likely). I think Arti has to think seriously here and quickly. Don't envy her position.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i seriously don't envy her place
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I thnk aarti to keep her baby. Afterall its agod gift.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, I do think Yash was honest today. No matter what but he doesn't actually love Aarti. It was a mistake under the influence of drug but you wait and watch, Aarti won't sit peacefully till she pushes Yash into believing that he 'loves' her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: heena88

I thnk aarti to keep her baby. Afterall its agod gift.

Yes, it is most certainly a gift, but it does also depend on the parents and whether they can take responsibility for that child. If Arti is planning on raising it alone and leaving Yash, that is one thing. But if she plans to raise it WITH Yash, he has to be on board with it. Do you think, this guy, so in love and devoted and loyal to his first wife that the very idea of making love to Arti (under a nasha) is so repugnant to him that he wants to end his life? He is in so much pain over it he doesn't care about his other children or his family, he just wants to put himself in position where he can be harmed (I am referencing the discussion today with the boxing manager). Do you think this guy is going to be ready for a child with Arti? In 9 months or 9 years? I don't know.. he seems to have a very fixed belief and idea about love and devotion and loyalty, which lets face it, we all have our own ideas about love, he has a right to believe whatever he does, just poor Arti in the middle of it. What a hot mess. I feel sorry for Arti and Yash, I think these two people are realizing they shouldn't have ever gotten married.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That baby is necessary to grow the relation between arya. Surely yash will realise that love can occur again in a person's life through it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maha9

That baby is necessary to grow the relation between arya. Surely yash will realise that love can occur again in a person's life through it.


A relationship should be strong in itself.
Edited by ..Khushi.. - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with u to some extent.Sooner or later Yash will sure repent for his acts. When he came to know about pregnancy he will not leave arti alone, he will take care of both arti and baby.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Khushi..


A relationship should be strong in itself.

I agree, a baby doesn't bring two people together!! If that relationship is loving and strong, a baby will cement that. But if that relationship is fractured, that baby can cause further fracture. Surely you must know how many men cheat while their wives are pregnant or nursing mothers? VERY COMMON!!!!!
In some cases, a baby can bring two people together if both are delighted at being parents. But I would agree a baby is not necessary to bringing two people together. In fact in this situation, if it is was real life, could be the reason these two people get divorced. Its huge.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Khushi..

Yes, I do think Yash was honest today. No matter what but he doesn't actually love Aarti. It was a mistake under the influence of drug but you wait and watch, Aarti won't sit peacefully till she pushes Yash into believing that he 'loves' her.

That is what is so painful to watch...the whole story line now hinges on whether Arti can change Yash's mind, which is - let us be honest - not fun to watch. This is not a love story anymore...

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