Few questions for Jagya sympathizers & ansh basher

Hi,

I have been reading few of the topics and the viewpoints especially of those sympathizing with Jagya and those who are bashing Shiv and thinking Anandi is better off. I have few questions purely from the analytical point of view
Question 1: People are commenting that Jagya has realized his mistake and his true love for Anandi. I am somehow baffled with that statement. For 5 years he claimed strongly that Anandi is no more than a friend and he does not love her and he loves only Gauri and just overnight he feels that he is in love with Anandi. How is this overnight change possible? Is this not mocking the love, and respect one should be having in a relationship.
Question 2: People are claiming that he made mistakes due to his upbringing. I do not agree there. He could help and support Gauri when required, because she was supposed to be modern. But he insulted Anandi at every step calling her gawar and uneducated and giving no respect to her and destroying her self esteem completely so much so she can not believe that somebody else can like her and her personality. So does this not show his dual face and should Anandi go back to such a person
Question 3: In modern society, we believe that partner should be chosen based on compatibility and equality. Then one question to you is when Anandi is so successful and made an attempt to succeed against all odds and grief, and Jagya who has not done anything for himself, despite the Singh's support for his MBBS and intial days of MS, then why should Anandi accept Jagya who is not her equal
Question 4: Shiv is being bashed for not standing up for Anandi against Choti Ma and her sister. But I dont see anything wrong. It would have been wrong if he were taunting Anandi, but he is not doing that and rather giving space to Anandi to tackle Choti Ma in her own way. He is giving full respect to her profession and thoughts and gives freedom to her, which Jagya never gave. He is successful so why should not Anandi deserve a guy like him

I know a long post but could not resist myself.😊😉

Perfect questions!!! Even I was thinking the same. Great post. Loved it!!

no way he is competent compatible man so why anandi such a man who turns in minutes is a fool worthy for foolish girl who maarried a married man

totally agreeed. i dont think jagya loves anandi. i think overnight he just got to know he is more secure with anandi than gauri lol

Gr8 post👍🏼 Completely agree with you😃

I would like to add one more question to your list:

After their divorce, in his convo with Anandi, Jagya said that nobody was to blame about how their marriage had turned out to be sour, not even themselves. He clearly said that evil custom of Bal Vivah is to be blamed which tied them in that unwanted relation at an early age. So now as per his rantings about wanting to go back to Anandi does that means now he thinks his Bal Vivah was correct??? And how can he go back to Anandi when there is no relationship between them to go back to???😳

My set of questions:

For selfish Jagya its a matter of convenience. Once he has kicked out Gauri he has nowhere else to go. He is so used to the luxurious lifestyle at his place that he has realised he cant do without it...or rather why should he do without it. There is a readymade hospital for him already so why should he let it go.

to support negative characters is not easy.Creatives show the negative characters with obvious purpose that look! if people do wrong ,they are eventually paid back in these ways for their wrong doings.BV ,unlike other crap shows is a little bit didactic in this matter.still,who love jagya and gauri and never consider their misdeeds as misdeeds will certainly give reply to your post but you do not expect any truly valid,meaningful,relevant,impressive,convincing answers from them.their arguments always go beyond anandi-lovers' capacity of understanding.for exmp,as G is called mistress,A is also mistress.would you be able to make out such replies?😆

Thanks for adding more questions. I started this post to understand the different views especially those of sympathising with jagya. Since I wanted to understand on what basis. I am not saying everyone is perfect and rather they are human and those who accept weakness and go ahead are better. I think bv cvs are showing beautifully there are still people who don't like to accept their weakness and faults and blame everything on others and circumstances and expect lot from the family like easy forgiveness

i have no problem in their opinion but at least v can have healthy discussion and why so many thread on same opinion