Vikram does not want to give space to Sugni, because he has not been able to explain himself up to now.
Think about it. Haven't anyone ever been in a situation, where they may have said or done the wrong thing, and hurt another person, and you are hell bent on explaining yourself, whether you are right or wrong? You cannot live in peace till you explain yourself.
It is the need to at least let Sugni hear him out, then make her decision. I believe he is more bothered by the fact that he cannot say his side of the story than anything else. No one gives a 🤬 about what he has to say.
I am of course not saying he should have lied, but it is only human you want to get things off your chest, even if the person tells you go to hell after that.
If thieves and murderers can have their say in court, why can't Vikram have his say to Sugni and his family? Is he less than a murderer or thief?
Disclaimer: Just making it clear, that my reasoning is based on a story not written by fools.
What I would like for him to do is have some self-respect and walk away from the girl who already threw it in his face that prostitution with his nephew is better than moving out of town with her Mother , but he is hell bent on flushing his self- respect down the toilet like Sugni did with her Sardhakai. I don't know who is worse.😒
This has to be a fictional story, I can't see how two persons could be such losers.😒
I don't comment much on Adi these days, because besides the fact that I have quit watching the show, I have a mental block where he is concerned on all levels, mainly because I find him disturbing in so many ways, the insensitive way in which he treats his Uncle, and his obsession in making a so-called mad woman never leave his Uncle. I could maybe agree to disagree if he did not want Vikram for Sugni, but he was willing for his Uncle to be at peace by divorcing Rewa. However, I find it very disturbing that he wants her to stay with Vikram at all costs. Then his treatment of Amrita, is too much for me to swallow. Fine he does not love her, but when was he going to figure that one out? The final nail, is how his and Sugni's Sardhakai, lasted only for 2 mins in the show. Why did he suggest to Vikram, that he would do the unforgivable. Isn't that why he hated Bednis?
So, Adi merely does not exist to me any more, he is way past a Villain.
Sugni was obviously all about making herself not a Bedni, by wanting to marry Vikram, her driving force was not love but to legitimise her life story. That is why her way of handling her pain is to self-destruct and also punish her culprit.
When you feel true love in your heart, no matter the hurt, you do not try to destroy yourself, nor do you try to destroy the other person, even though they have hurt you. You go away somewhere, anywhere, even if it is in your bedroom and you cry your pain away etc. The mere fact that she keeps mourning the loss of a respectable life, not Vikram..very strange girl, she is no saint.
What occurred to me is that Sugni should really not have gotten married to Vikram, because if you think about it, she is damaged. I mean to have a Mother as a prostitute and it bothers you so much, you want a different life. Then you have a Father, who pretends you don't exist, and is willing to make a whole town destroy you, tell your Mother she was a mistake. Your Mother is constantly used by her family. This can pretty much mess up a person's head for the most part. Of course, you have other cases where people can rise above all that.
I strongly believe if this story is based on a true one, Sugni like any other Bedni, sees a man as a means to an ends, the only difference is that she wants to be 'Wifey.'
Disclaimer: Just making it clear, that my reasoning is based on a story not written by fools.
Just my two cents
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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