Remarriage vs Contract marriage

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Posted: 13 years ago
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What is the difference?
The contract marriage happened out of hate.
Way things are moving remarriage will be the same
The contract marriage was for Anjali and was shadowed by her pregnancy
Wa things are going remarriage will be shadowed by anjali's pain and her miscarriage and could turn out to be a force or farce
The contract marriage was meant to punish Khushi
The way things are going the remarriage wll end up as a punishment for her if she marries
The contract marriage was rushed and painful and Khushi never got the bliss of marriage
Way things are going remarriage is turning out the same
Tell me where is the difference?
How will CVs make the difference when they have already half ruined the marriage?
How will Khushi's moment as a bride be perfect and our moment as a viewer be peaceful watching arnav and khushi get married?
To me both feel the same now because my expectations of a blissful remarriage has come to a rude halt and even if it does progress, there is no joy in it.
So how is the viewing experience different for us?
Edited by rima - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Whenever Khushi thought about the first contract marriage we got a flashback about how Arnav in anger tied the mangalsurta and smeared the sindoor. If the re- marriage happens now we will get a flashback in the future how Anjali fell off the stairs. Not a good!

Whenever Khushi will think about her re- marriage she will not remember her joyous courtship days but about how Anjali lost her baby. Neither Khushi nor Arnav will feel happy about their wedding. This is what angers me the most. Because after everything they have been thorough they deserved to be happy at least for a while.

I personally feel that they should postpone the wedding for a while and give them a proper marriage track where Arnav and Khushi are in the lime light and where the atmosphere is not filled with tension and suspense. Oh am I asking for too much?! I guess. If I knew things would turn out this way I'd never in my life have wished for a re- marriage track. Barun said once that the actual marriage/love track would get them the first place in the TRP charts. Poor guy never knew that the track would kill the essence of the show. RIP IPKKND.

P.S. But one positive aspect is that Arnav might try to find solace in Khushi and his pain with her. Their relationship might grow stronger this way. But who knows?! He might even turn the plates entirely and blame Khushi (again) for everything which happened to Anjali's life?

Edited by loveydovey - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very very true.. for us, it's just being the same thing repeated all over again.. as the way the show is going on now, it is much more worse than the contract-marriage.. we expected the re-marriage to be a happy event but it's turning out to be something we never wanted..
if this is what Arshi's re-marriage is, they can as well keep it!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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so true dear but let me tell u having seen this fri episode I enjoed the contract marriage more then this remarriage...

AK had a lot of scope and the cvs cld have done alot then they ruined it then also BUT NOW IS THE PITS I dont think the cvs can ever get the track or the trps now...
Even i f remarriage happens now there are more problems
1. Arnavs guilt eventually will get Shyam back Arnav no longer STRONG!!
2. Dadi the weirdo is senseless dont wanna waste my time on her
3.Anjali is THE VILLAN FOR me who can NEVER redem herself the cvs DESTROYED her
4.If shyam enters RM ASR khushi and the dumbos life is in danger..
5. all will fuss over WEIRDO DUMBO makes me puke
and every1 in RM and gupta house will feel guilty of her kid dying!!😕
SO I CANNOT ENJOY THIS REMARRIAGE

And in comparision I LOVE THE CONTRACT MARRIAGE
sorry my opinion!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima


How will Khushi's moment as a bride be perfect and our moment as a viewer be peaceful watching arnav and khushi get married?


How exactly??!!!🤢😡


I really don't wanna say stuff like this,but you know,for a moment,when before the break after the song sequence they showed the doctor saying-'I am sorry..We could save only one..'..I found myself wishing-"Let it be the baby...Khushi will love it like a mother...Let the baby be saved.."

& now,the melodrama I feared if Anjali lost the baby,is upon us!!!It's acually turning out to be worse than I expected!🤢I just wish i could resist SaRun enough to stop watching the show for a couple of weeks or more..But alas I can't😭

Edited by farah53 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Chimpsy: CV, I just want to know 1 thing...

CV: Sure, shoot, Chimpu baba (secretly praying that the monkey doesn't turn abusive!)

Chimpsy: Was the rasam-ful marriage meant to subdue our dissatisfaction?

CV: Hell, ya... You people were like screaming 'redemption!' 'redemption!' that it kind of made sense to just do something decent-

Chimpsy: but it's half-baked now... Not complete... Left hanging on the tree... How can we be happy with THAT? All we got was a half-boiled 'sorry' and a totally stalled wedding... Doesn't Khushi's happiness mean a thing? She's suffered so much and she always gets pushed to second place...

CV: Err, it's not just about Khushi all the time you know... we have other casts and angles to consider...

Chimpsy: So, what you're saying is that this will be Khushi's fate?

CV: (starting to sweat profusely) Well, I'm not saying anything... We have lots of interesting twists and turns coming up, just give this new angle a chance... Got to go... Bye...

The way I see it, we're back to square 1!
Super post, Rima! 👏


Edited by Chimpsy - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rima i didnt think about it like that honestly. But now that u r showing the similarities i can feel the difference is just the terms used instead of contract they used re - marriage thats all.

U made me feel even more sad for Khushi now by this post.

Difference i think would be some amount love between them - the love might get hindered due to the past & the Di's issues.

Edited by Harshitha - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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For me Iss pyaar ko kya naam doon was never about contract marriage or remarriage .
It was just about love love love where on completing a journey the show wud one fine day show them getting Married and then a new journey of love wud begin. Marriage would just be an glorious event for them not a plot to carry hate (as in contarct marriage) or to make disastrous accidents( as in remarriage). No need of contract or remarriage .We would have preferred just one time marriage in the show but only after their love equation has been very well utilised to maximum... to show lovers track as in the feb episodes.

The focus was never on how husband-wife deal with their life after Marriage. Because such shows are plenty in all channels. Discovering Love after marriage is what saas-bahu serials start off with and then continue. The pyaar word in IPKKND has gone missing. better we omit that pyaar word and just call iss ko kya naam doon?? IKKND.


Trying gimmicks have proved dangerous to them. Ok tell me guys are we playing hide n seek game.?? when people say that Cv's are always doing things to suprise us. They wanna do diffrent thing not same as others.
My answer is- its not a Vikram bhatt suspense thriller. I want a predictable track . no problem, becase the the serial is on Love intensified emotions. The extremes one can go in love. There is no space for other nonsense stuff only. Thre is no question of guessing with excitement what will happen next because the genre of the show is love not a thriller.
If they wanted to do sensationalism let them experiment with manorama-payal relation. That cud atleast give them better response from housewives rather than trying this crime thriller suspense. I welcome a predictable track
where things after kidnap wud be normal to reach to a happy arshi union.

My only issue to ipkknd is that - u wanna show daljeet-shyam track..plz show , go ahead no problem, But why did u skip redemption for that?? why didnt u potray khushi's distress and its proper healing n solution?? and the biggest demand- why didnt u show arnav turning to a true lover?? was kidnap i love u sufficient, the ILU dammit sufficient, the Hugs sufficient, Blackmail phase, helping monetarily the Guptas...then jalebis, poster, channas
are these sufficient to show express his love to khushi??are thesw so sufficient that khushi can give her agreement for remarriage and forget the contract thing,??

My only demand was that we can see love after marriage any time but love before marriage has been skipped. Arnav realising that he loves khushi and cant think of leaving separate from her didnt come across not even in a single scene properly. It didnt come across because he new he wud win her as he was blackmailing .
I didnt see any single scene after kidnap till now where he can feel the fear of losing her.
He achieved khushi forcefully not gain her naturally.
For me there is not a single general scene shot till now that showcases arnav showcasing his genuine feelings for khushi. He is always shown desperate to kiss her and to hug her. Why???
If they think romance will be kept after marriage then no need to call it mills n boons inspired love story.No general scenes where khushi rests her head on his shoulders and arnav tells her how his life wud be a tragedy without her. No simple discussion scenes. They meet only to smirk, hug thats it. For me they didnt express their love to each other till now.and they have jumped to remarriage. and will show problems in family. Ridiculous.
I want predictable track- love confession, romancing, dating, coziness, naughtiness and then grand marriage. but just 1 marriage. not a contract marriage and then another re marriage.
Plz stop calling it a star crossed love drama.Its a kitchen politics mixed with 80's film industry's masala formula

The biggest blunder was when arnav tells di he fell in love after contract marriage. that very statement goes against the theme and the base of the show. It is completely against the show.


So rima u have very beautifully written the points👏.
There is no way out to save this blundersome experiment to explode badly in TRP charts.




Edited by RickyBahl - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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really I dont understand CV... do they even care? wht r they tring to do with us and Arshi...Arshi r best couple on tellywood ...CV could do better job...and I think CV knows how much we were waiting for this moment ...but dont know why r they playing without any sense...If Khushi doesnt get happiness now .. I wont say tht this is unique show ...and Khushi should leave RM..

Actually I love Barun/Arnav ...till now I was always supporting him but if he doesnt support Khushi...I wont be happy
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yesterday i was thing the same hehehe

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