Thendral Upd Wed Aug 29, 2012 - Page 2

Thanks Pearl for the beautiful update.

If I were TA, this is what i would have told Mohan,

Originally posted by: maha2us

If I were TA, this is what i would have told Mohan,

'The first thing you have to learn is try to understand someone and not just blame that person. If you love someone, you have to trust and understand what that person has to say. First try to understand Thulasi's point of view. Do you know why your sister went there? I sent her there for our own strategic reason.'

The same thing he could have told Thulasi's chitti also. How Mohan would have behaved then is not important. But Thulasi would have felt boosted when supported this way by her husband.

But the good thing which happened is Thulasi is liked by Prabhakar and Sundari

Clearly this type of thinking is very foreign to the members of MM's family. During the course of this serial, has any member in that family tried to rationalize the actions of others? Whether it be Padma or MM or Mohan, they all react very strongly, without stopping to think before reacting. Often times, this leads to them overreacting and ends up with drastic consequences. Time and time again, we've seen in this serial that those who take actions and spill words without fulling thinking come to regret it later more often then not (the sole exception being GW). Thuls too, is guilty of this on several occasions, such as when she handed over a lump sum to GW, without thinking about the consequences of her actions on the people around her.

Well, in the grand scheme of things, had Thuls not known these people, her head would not be rolling at the moment. Then again, it is better to stay in the company of a few good people, then in the company of self serving idiots (i.e. MM & Padma & GW). In all honesty, who is MM to judge Thuls for taking money from Bhuv? Had he not stooped to do an even more damning act when he decided to wreck Thuls' life by marrying her off to Vel for money? At least Thuls had not ruined anyone's life in any way be accepting Bhuv's money (has she accepted it). It is still mind boggling to me why Thuls continues to strive to impress people who will always find faults in her, instead of cultivating meaningful relationships with the people who actually do care about her.