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Posted: 13 years ago
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^^ Upteem times..we are faced with this question... and honestly... often.. the answer is a big NO

Love really is not enouf ...

Take for instance the case of both of our pairs...

-- AshNi
-- RanJi


While AshNi grapple.. with day to day issues of ...age related ..character conflicts... difference of opinion ...and varying attitudes to life ...RanJi have now started to face the inevitable...!

The adage of 'Life isnt a bed of roses n neither is Marriage/Love' is surely ..flashing out brightly in front of this newly wedded couple..!

However...its intriguing that amidst all of this conflicts...we see..a bond getting forged between the two partners... after all ...isnt love about 'For BETTER of For WORSE'..??😳

Do share ur thots..!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tanu, lovely post...

yes, love is for better or for worse...

and it depends on what you define as "love" also na..each one perceives it in a different way...for me,

Love(the kind that i feel for my partner) = friendship + Desire (friendship = trust+affection+faith+acceptance of each other's strengths and weaknesses+right to correct if the other person is wrong)

so if any of the ingredients are missing, that love is incomplete...and it takes time and effort from both the partners to get in all the ingredients...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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True . A bond is forged in spite of differences. Anjie suggested to stay with her parents. But on sensing Ranga's reaction immediately came to terms .She even distracted her father. I Liked their scenes .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tanu ji, good thoughtful pov on love.. I am blank in this matter...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: turags



Love(the kind that i feel for my partner) = friendship + Desire (friendship = trust+affection+faith+acceptance of each other's strengths and weaknesses+right to correct if the other person is wrong)

so if any of the ingredients are missing, that love is incomplete...and it takes time and effort from both the partners to get in all the ingredients...


This is really awesome... love the thots.. 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: radhika72

True . A bond is forged in spite of differences. Anjie suggested to stay with her parents. But on sensing Ranga's reaction immediately came to terms .She even distracted her father. I Liked their scenes .


Bingo. i loved their scenes.. 😳 Very realistic ...n the way both tossed between turmoil n romance was a good watch..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ithasme

Tanu ji, good thoughtful pov on love.. I am blank in this matter...


😲 Aise kaise chalega... humne to socha .. hume jald hi.. Bhabhi ji milengi 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said Tanu, the honeymoon period ends rather abruptly when two people, however much they have known each other earlier, start living together under the same roof. That is the real test of the relationship. Love coupled with strong communication between the partners is the foundation of any marriage.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tanu ji, uske liye wait karna padega... Its time to enjoy my bachelorhood...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: turags

Tanu, lovely post...


yes, love is for better or for worse...

and it depends on what you define as "love" also na..each one perceives it in a different way...for me,

Love(the kind that i feel for my partner) = friendship + Desire (friendship = trust+affection+faith+acceptance of each other's strengths and weaknesses+right to correct if the other person is wrong)

so if any of the ingredients are missing, that love is incomplete...and it takes time and effort from both the partners to get in all the ingredients...

So true. Me and my husband are best friends. Can face any hardship if the couple develops a good rapport.Love without mutual trust is very shallow and vanishes at the first sight of trouble.

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