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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Question If AnSh can't marry for 4 months due to now being a bad time of year to marry then how can JaGa marry now or in between? Or R we assuming? Maybe Jug will finish his MS?🤔

Maybe it is bad time only for AnSh. I mean when they match their horoscopes and their birth stars there might not be a good date specifically for AnSh.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Anjie:
My disagreement was in your statement 'if he wants it then he has to earn it and so far he hasn't.'
He couldn't have done it so far. And the word 'earn' is too strong for Shiv. I mean, he is no less compared to Anandi either.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Question If AnSh can't marry for 4 months due to now being a bad time of year to marry then how can JaGa marry now or in between? Or R we assuming? Maybe Jug will finish his MS?🤔


Anj Shubh Vivah (Ansh ki) ke liye muhurat aur good time dekha jaata hain 😳 Ashubh Vivah (Jagat Gauri ki) ke liye toh best time hi bad muhurat hota hain don't u think 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
Waise I am not sure what I am feeling right now 😕 BV ke CV's ne teej vrat ka carrot ek hafte se dikha dikha ke lalchaya 😆 and last mein diya kya bas LIC ka logo yeh kya hua.. kaise hua.. kab hua.. kyun hua.. kyun kyun kyun 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: dixie123

Anjie:
My disagreement was in your statement 'if he wants it then he has to earn it and so far he hasn't.'
He couldn't have done it so far. And the word 'earn' is too strong for Shiv. I mean, he is no less compared to Anandi either.


its not about who is better Anandi or shiv.
Both are good and have positive attitude towards life. They both are patient, sanskari, with golden hearts...

I think what Anji means is,
when you are in love with someone... and the other person does not love you, you have to earn their love.
That earning is for anyone, just like you earn people's respect, you earn people's love by doing good. Shiv had earned the love of the people of Jetsar by doing great good, similar to Anandi .. and now he has to earn Anandi's love because she is not ready to give it to him.

Thats what Anji means
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: GoldenDew

Waise I am not sure what I am feeling right now 😕 BV ke CV's ne teej vrat ka carrot ek hafte se dikha dikha ke lalchaya 😆 and last mein diya kya bas LIC ka logo yeh kya hua.. kaise hua.. kab hua.. kyun hua.. kyun kyun kyun 😆

Well I know how I feel Sou. Totally pissed with the CVs for making Anandi remember Jugs and not making Shiv break her fast ! 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: dixie123

Anjie:
My disagreement was in your statement 'if he wants it then he has to earn it and so far he hasn't.'
He couldn't have done it so far. And the word 'earn' is too strong for Shiv. I mean, he is no less compared to Anandi either.


Waise I am a bit partial for Anandi but phir bhi abhi tak Anandi ne bhi aisa kuch kiya nahin that would say that she "earned" Shiv..
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Posted: 13 years ago
Today is the first time when i have nothing to write ( maybe cos my left hand is all screwed up 😆 ) ok jokes apart, the reason is im unable to understand both Anandi and Shiv. Whenever i see Shiv so happy and on the other side Anandi all gloomy i wish like banging my head up against the wall ! Seems like no one is at fault ! Anandi is hurt ( too much ) and Shiv loves Anandi ( too much ) Anandi needs to forget the past, atleast give it a try, try not to atleast show that she is very sad ( that irks a lot ) and should open the gates of her mind and see Shiv ( thats difficult ) and Shiv should now do something extra ( thats difficult too ) Anandi is a going to be gone case, Shiv HAS to pull her back towards him and for that he has to do extra efforts...khane ki khichdi nai hai 😆
Both need to take a step forward and as Anjy said, Shiv has right over Anandi now, he should start spending time with her ( apart from office ) and Anandi should instead of giving him cold stares and discouraging him should just go with the flow and for god sake leave her zombie like attitude !! Its damn irritating ! People were making a fuss that CM should atleast have smiled while entering the haveli and meeting Anandi and family so same applies on Anandi. A smile would have been fine. Why to show that you are sad ? I think CM must have figured that out ( except her everyone was just nihaarofying her beauty but CM was doing her x-ray )
Its true that she needs time..but she should atleast try ! They both need each other, desperately. Stupids ! Dont know this ! 😳 😆

P.S. Kuch tha nahi likhne ko tab i've written so much. 🤣 whos gonna read !! 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
why she is so much still with pats when phooli asha can move ahead why she is sticking to that venom man jagya i hate his presence on show no need ,four months made me disappointed difficult to aaccept
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: GoldenDew


Waise I am a bit partial for Anandi but phir bhi abhi tak Anandi ne bhi aisa kuch kiya nahin that would say that she "earned" Shiv..


thats just it.. she doesn't want to earn his love. She has def. earned his respect didn't she by her good behavior and that she will continue doing so, even after marriage by respecting his family and being a dutiful bahu which she is capable of.

Now if you strictly speak about being a wife, She will do everything for Shiv, but the physical relationship part + the love part... that she is not capable yet.

Unless... shiv wants a wife who is just doing what he wants, including the physical part of the relationship, she might eventually oblige.

But shiv does not want that, he will never want that. He wants Anandi tolove him, and for that that earning needs to be done from Shiv.

Its complicated.

He loves Anandi and I am sure he will be patient and make a way in her heart.

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