is the behavior of family justified?

First Previous

Page

Frequent Posters

Karan

@phadukaran

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: amisamrat

Calling then rich brats !!!! for what ???/ -----It is never this way or that way - life is complex and they are justified in whatever they doing !!! waht you want them to do ?? be normal in few days and forget about everything ?? it takes time for forgive -------

she was leaving the family wasn't she, they should have let her GO, then,.. It is not fair that always females that have to listen to crap from sasural, they call themselves Vaishnav,. they forgot, "Vaishnav jan to tenej kahiye je, peer parayi jane je, per dukhe upkar kare to e maan abhiman na ane re".

And i didn't say forgive her, see, that is the difference, i said don't like her presence, then let her go. because keeping her there, and acting inhumane, then there is no difference between them the educated and the illiterates who bit their wifes, burn them and kill them.

Quote

Karan

@phadukaran

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ami_31

Here Rajni is Krish's wife, he gave her many chances and Rajni always misused those chances and lied everytime that its her friend ka baccha and kept making stories one after the other. in initial days she was shown as a real bhakt in mandir praying, doing aarti and garba and now after marriage she even lied once that she went to mandir when she was with Aryan. This is height.

no he got engaged to Paulomi, and he did what he must have seen in American Cultures, gave her surprise, went in front of god and accepted her as his better half,. that is called breaking someones heart.

well, did he? everytime she wanted to talk, he said "i don't think this the right moment,". now i know what you guys will say, but she was going to lie anyways, well only way we could off found out was if krish would have let her talk the first time she came in white sari.

and for the 100th time, it is not EASY or common in villages that people tell about their daughters past to the inlaws, especially when it is unsharable past, that still exists, we in cities have moved really forward to the american culture where we open the books as if it's nothing,. but for villages and its citizens their dignity and pride resides with them, because they have to live in that village forever.

Edited by phadukaran - 13 years ago

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Karan

@phadukaran

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: PrincessRu
"Inhumane"??????

Yest Krissh's dad told Krissh to go and pick her up from the bus stop. They are tolerating her SO MUCH after all the crap she gives them. Whether its her preaching on workers rights or going to the office. PUHLEASE you are highly mistaken!!

Rajni is the one who is treating the loving and sweet Vaishnav family inhumanely. She has taken all their happiness away in one lie. Where's Karma when you need it?!

really where is karma?, for once think like a woman if you are one,. yes Inhumane, krissh's dad did tell him to pick her up. so what krissh did by showing off her car in front of bus stop that was ok, making her work extra at the office it was ok, talking her down as if she is a low life its ok, (well that is in their blood,). then Bua, calling her names, its ok, not letting her do kitchen chores, its ok, then same bua tells everyone to keep tabs on her after everything, what does Rajni suppose to do, sit in her room, and look at the ceiling. "she is not the bahu, but after all she is the member of the house," so i didn't see them acting "INhumane" towards surbbhi when they found out about the what she had done, did they?

Quote

pari2386

@pari2386

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

for wat she had done with them , if they behave rudely with her no one can blame them. And they are not Humilating Rajni, if they had been then Yashoda would have been the first one to kick her out .But baa, yashoda , namita and Krish's dad are still giving her more time since they have at least some love for her and they also know how much Krish loves her so dont wanna impose their decision on krish .Yashoda is right in saying that it shud be him who has tot ake a decision about rajni becoz ultimately its Krish and Rajni who will have to spend entire life together .
And one more thing which I hate at the moment is that , Rajnis behavior is as if she is all corect in hiding the truth and Krish is wrong in blaming her to be a liar.😕 Theres no mistake of hers in being surrogate mother but Lying is something which is unpardonable . So if she wants krish to forgive her at instant , shes completely wrong . it will take some time and also she needs to assure him about her love for him and she wont commit same mistake in future

Quote

Karan

@phadukaran

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: pari2386
for wat she had done with them , if they behave rudely with her no one can blame them. And they are not Humilating Rajni, if they had been then Yashoda would have been the first one to kick her out .But baa, yashoda , namita and Krish's dad are still giving her more time since they have at least some love for her and they also know how much Krish loves her so dont wanna impose their decision on krish .Yashoda is right in saying that it shud be him who has tot ake a decision about rajni becoz ultimately its Krish and Rajni who will have to spend entire life together .
And one more thing which I hate at the moment is that , Rajnis behavior is as if she is all corect in hiding the truth and Krish is wrong in blaming her to be a liar.😕 Theres no mistake of hers in being surrogate mother but Lying is something which is unpardonable . So if she wants krish to forgive her at instant , shes completely wrong . it will take some time and also she needs to assure him about her love for him and she wont commit same mistake in future

O ok, so if a person is using foul language for example, the other person should do the same,. If one person is jumping in the river everyone should follow. Rajni made a mistake, and for that "AGIAN' she was leaving the family and the house, then why didn't they let her go,.

I guess you are watching another serial all together, What Bua is saying to her in front of whole family is called humiliation in any dictionary, but YAshoda or Krish or Bapu ji isn't saying anything to Bua,. fine, then Krish keeps on screaming at her, for everything she is doing. She is trying to win his trust and love back, how else would she do that if Krissh keeps on running from her. Oh wait, this is the game of Dolls, they should give each other space. Next thing you know, the guy who doesn't know what love is, is going to file for what is called divorce, because he doesn't know what he wants in life.

Quote

rppdhr

@rppdhr

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Friends good discussion and i found every body are wright in their perceptive.SUGGESTION BECOMES TRUE WHEN IT COMES IN LIFE.

Have not any one of us spelled lie for any reason to our loved one for the saving our relationship.?

lie is lie whether small or big.

But every body speaks lie in life for one or another reason either with spouse or with boss or with mother, friends.

It is the other person hoe he or she takes that lie .

it is noe on krish head hoe he takes with rajni.he also trying to find solution so her family image do not got spoiled.here is their purpose for keeping rajni in the house.Rajni also trying not to spoil family image in samaj.

Quote

forummtjr2

@forummtjr2

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: phadukaran
My thing in this whole situation is, if you want to misbehave with Rajni then let her GO,. Because now so called Educated and Rich brats are acting illiterate, and dumb,. (Excuse my language). Rajni must have made a mistake, whether it was small or big, family members shouldn't act inhumane toward her,. and if they want to then let her go, she was going then why stopped her, only for her to listen to crap from Krish and Buaji. NOt Fair.

i dont agree with u... rich or middle class or poor its the same evrywhere... be practical... who can digest when they come to know daughter in law/ wife had bore a child before ... it would be a shock and evnthough they behave badly it is just cos they couldnt accept the fact rajni could lie cos all thought she is perfect ... it takes time to forget and forgive ... love is still there... its just that the anger and shock has supressed it for time being thatz ittt wat say guys

Quote

classyjas

@classyjas

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

As far as I know, Yashoda stopped Rajni for two reasons- one, the reason she herself gave that it was Krish who should decide whether he wants Rajni in his life or not and that if he couldn't decide right away,then Rajni should stay till he decides. And the second reason that I feel is that deep down her heart, she wanted Krish to forgive Rajni and by stopping Rajni, she was probably ensuring to buy some time so that Krish doesn't make a wrong decision in the heat of the moment. And in the further episodes, it's Yashoda who directs Krish to reach a decision soon and not to keep Rajni's fate hanging. She can see that Rajni is making an effort to win everybody's love, is eager to make amends, so it can be seen that Yashoda wants Krish to decide right and decide fast.

Coming to Krish, one can't blame him for being overtly angry and hurt with Rajni. He still loves her very much, but cannot bring himself to forgive Rajni and believe that every thing is hunky dory. It was Rajni's decision to come to office to be able to be near Krish, Krish didn't ask her to come down to work. And then he confessed to Rajan as well that he is full of resent the moment he looks at Rajni. He didn't treat Rajni well in the office but what else would one do if he isn't able to bear the sight of Rajni. It was his idea to get her to stop coming to office by giving her difficult tasks. To his credit, he tried to make Rajni understand that all this won't solve any purpose.

Namita has always been in favour of Rajni. They both need to understand that Krish needs some time ad space. Constantly having Rajni in his presence is definitely not a good idea.

Ba too is supportive of Rajni's persistent efforts in wooing Krish and other family members and encourages her not to stop her efforts. She was sympathetic towards her as Krish hasn't made a stand yet.

As for FaiBa, she has always been like that. An acidic tongue, as she herself says is what is her suit. In previous instances everybody chided her for bad mouthing Rajni but now what would family members say in Rajni's defence!!

The precap shows Krish saying something that he shouldn't have but it's too early to comment as we don't know what precipitated in him saying that.

It's Krish who has been hurt the most and that's not to be belittled. After all, his immense confidence and trust in his wife has been shattered. He cannot be expected to be hammered by Rajni into forgiving her. Give him some time, dude:-)

You still feel that the family is humiliating Rajni?

Quote

_Fantasy_

@_Fantasy_

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

I agree with classyjas.

Everyone seems to forget that Krish absolutely adores Rajni. He loves her so much! His world would have crumbled down when he heard Rajni's truth. He blindly trusted her and justified her doings to his family and what did he get? A kick in the back?!

I really don't see anyone but Faiba humiliating Rajni; when does Faiba say anything nice anyway! Everyone else has been pretty calm as we can see. And Yashoda still believes in Rajni, it's so easy to see... Krish still loves her, you can tell when he was watching her as she came down all dressed up...

But Rajni needs to realize the depth of the damage shes done, it's not a small mistake so don't treat it so. She is forcing Krish to forgive her and it's only making him angry. She needs to give it a rest, give him a chance to miss her..

Quote

Karan

@phadukaran

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

oh, so one lie, (big LIE), gives everyone right to say anything and everything possible. And if Krrish is outspoken about everything then why doesn't he clearly tell the family that he needs space away from Rajni. and he needs to chill out and think, wait he can't do that either, (Because he loves her right!). but if he loves her then i don't think anyone would say all this non-sense to the person they love.

Main reason why Yashoda stopped rajni was because if rajni had left, people would have talked about it and it would have brought Shame, and of course she knows her son, who takes decision in a blink of an Eye, so she wanted him to take time and think about the situation.

But I Still don't think that justifies Krissh or Bua trash talking to Rajni, and todays episode it reached the Heights, it had surpassed all the limits with both Krish and Bua, taking to Rajni like that.

Quote

1 2

is the behavior of family justified? - Page 2

Related Topics

Explore Topics