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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: spdp

Very nice & apt response Smita,

Thanks for the initiative! Hope these words reach the right ears!
My tippani:
Woke up to the link to Nimmi's post: read it: & first reaction :HAwww My God😕😭 Meanie me - bad phangirl You you & you r culprit of all these( u can chhose gopivahu or munni to visualize this random reaction) - why did you do that?
then it changed to- arre , how can he blame it all on us?!?! just how😲?!?( change yr imagination to Kokilaben or dhinkachika baati)
I was already feeling bad from the day before after T-land was bye-byed by suprSheikhman😔 .. had felt miserable - written hearfelt sorry on his profile here & many times on twitter! Was still hopeful - he'll join back! and was thinking- he needed this break, to figure things out & sort out craziness!
Then this 'reaction' of Shaheer came out -- which, in my opinion, if true- is too strong, eventhough not wrong!
My dil was going : Lut gaye .. haan lut gaye 😭..
But then I thought: wait a minute! Dil sambhal jaa zaraa🤓...
Is this an official 'reaction'? NO.
it is second hand 'information' ? 🤔Yes!
SO how much & how deep should I react to it? Errmmm .. Well,No! I will wait for Shaheer & SOmya to open up & clarify it! and then react.
Its not that difficult , as pointed out by many: 1 single tweet / one clarifying article is all it takes. Simple as that.
Till then- i'll reserve my opinions to bare minimum reactions!
Would love Shaheer to read Nimmi's post and all other reaction posts to it.
About some pointers of the post & my reactions to that!
1. Agree to intrusion in private life -- but it totally is an actors choice how to deal with it. Sorry for any 'bad' tweets from my part. But i usually don't tag him in each & every tweet. still sorry for that misconduct. And as many said it - wish he had spoken about it upfront before! people would have stopped!
2. About friends Smilie and Sana -well won't repeat what all have said- just one thing:
One request to all Shaheer followers: please collectively unfollow Smilie Suri and Sana Sheikh, if you follow them because they are Shaheer's friend. LEts do that as honest gesture by fans to respect his concern about abuse of his friends. easy done?!
3. LAughing at tweets: Hi5😉😃 .. because- we laugh at many of SS2 tweets to! I'l take this comment in regards to some crazy tweets/ convos & wot not we keep bak baking! and not to our senti ones!
Would love some clarification on this one!
I have been following Shaheer on twitter way before Savenavya1. it was different then! reaction were taken very positively by him then!
An actor knows the proffessional hazards of this field! And actor knows he will recieve bouquets & brick bats in equal manner! and as they both progress in their carrers- this fan antics & fanatism is going to grow! They'll have to deal with it head on!
4. I was surprised as how come None mention of what blametweets Somya faced last week!!! How some fans who are now running the bb SSm, did unfan & fan again Somya last week! How they tweeted Shaheer will gt much better partner & wot not! That should have affected him a lot - as his another best friend was blamed very wrongly!
Anyways:
I really am tired of this issne kaha- ussne kaha-- this info- that info!
I respect their privacy - as I have said it time and again: TIME, SPACE & PATIENCE! are needed regarding ShaMya.
We simply can't tell them what to do when .. I am ready to see them in new shows, and they will have to work with other actors as well! I a mature enough to know & respect that. And I am sure, though we all want to see ShaMya magic again - We all are prepared to see them with others as well!
I truly wish Shaheer & Somya speak up -as is! whenever they are ready to talk. I really hope this was not an official attempt to put the point accross to fans!
A direct reaction , an honest talk would go better with all!
I am a fan who adores Shaheer, Somya, ShaMya. I like them- but I dont worship them.
I respect them- their views & their honest reactions. Therefore if any such news is to come out- I would prefer to have it from them!
Sidhi baat! kyoonki.. jab baat niklti hai to phir dooor talaq jaati bhi hai!
Navya was a special experience - both on-off- aaju-baaju-all ways!
I definately am not liking this bitterness😔!
Wish that things get sorted out soon -- and right time comes soon!
We have some really good reactions here- and I Hope Nimmi or Rachit or any other insider will lead Shaheer to this.
Will wait to hear from Shaheer & Somya! one day- someday!


Amazing as always Shaina...reflected all my feelings and thoughts ATM...umm..i really hope Shaheer gets to see this thread...and clarifies certain issues himself instead of others tryin to do it for him!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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wen shaheer deactivtd his accnt ..i got really angry n made a post trying to mk those particular fans realise their mistake..coz that tym i culdn't see ny other possible reasn ( that tym wen nimmi's post wasn't there). nw i pray that every1 to get their lesson coz i feel we all are smwhr responsible.
After reading so many minds here n on twtr too..nw i want to say that ..just let it be, sm fans who bashed Smilie n Sana ws wrong n we all agree on that..the main doubt lies wether Shaheer-Somya are at fault or nt..sm think that they are n sm think they aren't..k..well n gud..almost all fans hv spoke out their minds uptill nw..me too n that had to happen..we have always said that every1 has diff POV & we shuld repect that..nw its tym to shw it instead of fyting..coz it'll be never ending battle otherwise.
We hv to cont. with our waiting which we are doing frm begining.
Edited by surbhianya_17 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well written... :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Looks like I am the last one to comment.. nonetheless i will write what i feel... A lot has been said already and heres what I feel..

Talking about shaheer, I joined Twitter much later the time when the show was about to go off-air back in January during savenavya1 and all i can say from what I observed from January till now is that Shaheer has been quite upfront.. he tweeted what he felt.. he tweeted that hes upset, tweeted he wanted the show to go on for another year atleast, above all he tweeted #savenavya on twitter to support us.. he being an actor must have known that tweeting savenavya supporting his fanatic fans n going against the top channel in d industry would definitely not go in his stride yet he went ahead to do that.. I doubt if any other actor would have done that in his place..

Our Concept Of Shamya: we managed to savenavya and after savenavya1 there was no looking back. the rapport between fans and shaheer somya increased more and more.. they became more fond of us and so did we.. with each passing day the fans-shamya raabta increased all the more.. they became friendly with us and we started taking liberties.. pushing the invisible line in the raabta a bit more each day.. and then came the V-day article where somya said she wud like to "DATE" shaheer and thereon started all speculations.. we speculated everything related to them.. every bit.. we related everything that they said, tweeted, did with OUR concept of "fairytale" SHAMYA.. Which is where we went overboard..

Stopping the hazard: BUT as i say we pushed the line i also say that we cud have been stopped.. Yes thats right as I believe Shaheer to be upfront with fans I think It would have been nice if he tweeted something hinting at his discomfort at such tweets.. and i believe people would have stopped coz I remember him tweeting to his fans not to ask 4 pix everyday coz he doesnt click them always.. and fans did stop asking him for pix after that.. so his fans do listen to him and he knows that n hence could have stopped it long back.. so things wouldnt have come to this.. he wouldnt have had to leave twitter coz of "embarrassing tweets" about Shamya.. and the hazard could have been prevented..

Bashing his friends: I personally feel that following and bashing people just because they are somehow related to shaheer or friends with shaheer is not only unfair but also ugly to be precise.. it is not at all a humane move and any1 in Shaheer's place would get annoyed and angry even I would.. no sane person would take disrespect towards his friends!! BUT here again they could have been stopped with just one tweet..

Yes Post-Navya things changed.. Dreamland of AnYa was taken away from fans and they wanted to retain Their ShaMya at any cost.. this led to insecurities people behaved immaturely asking shaheer sometimes to NOT sign shows and sometimes to sign shows only with somya.. Yes people behaved immaturely, Yes there was a lot of negativity, Yes people gave threats, Yes things changed and for the worse, Yes any1 in shaheer's place would react, Yes what he did was justified.. BUT he should know by now that if there are people who disrespect, people who hate, people who bash, there are also people who Respect, people who Love, people who care.. If there are people who log into twitter to bash there are people who fight for him with the bashers.. if there are people who show disrespect then there are also people who love him so much that they stay up late into the night to save his show.. people who spend all day online just waiting for his tweets.. Yes I know he is hurt and though I have never tweeted anything direct about Shamya or bashed any of his friends yet I am sorry that he left twitter coz I too am his fan.. and a fan who loves him enough to spend hours on the internet just for him.. I wish he realizes that there are many more fans like me.. and I wish its him who tells us the reasons/clears the air directly for us instead of some random person on twitter who tweets and deletes some indirect hint related to him and his former lead actress or some insider info coz that will only increase restlessness and speculation among fans..

I still believe Shaheer to be upfront enough to tell things to his fans directly and i will wait till he tells us the reasons himself..

PS shaheer i wish you could chose the love and forget the hurt because there are people who mean it when they tweet love and respect to you..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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No titaliya m d last to comment , & m completely agree wid u...
so my points r
1)directs tweets r nt d main reason ...so no need to focus on tht only .
2)v all bashed his frnds , as if he is nt a human being ...he dont hav any right to hav femnale frnds...ya media is som how responsible fr dis bcoz thy spreaded d rumour tht shaheer & suri r couples...bt jab shaheer ne 50 bar clr kar diya hai iss baat ko ki v r old frnds ..jab main navya main lime ligght main aya tab logon ne kuch aur soch liya...phr hum itne insecure kyun hain...jab somya khud media k samne bolti hai i trust him ...uske honesty ko sabke samne praise krti hai...phr hum itne over possessive kyun hain...ki wo kisi aur female actress k sath baat b kare ya pic b le to ghor paap...sab k sab bashing pr utar ate hain...WHY ...
3) y he cant act wid anyother actress , kyun mahabharat pr sucha a big chao...aftr all its his job , he cant sit jobless at home fr us...he is a mature human being & he can take his decisions...bt aftr Navya d way fans pressurised him was unbearable fr any one...dont sign any shw ...wht is dis...u can giv him ur suggestion bt u cant spam him ur negetive twts day night ...dont sign , fans kum ho jayenge , shw doob jayega ..blah blah...juz keep urslf in his place & think ...kaisa lagega if u r going to start something new in life aur din raat uski hone se pehle hi uski burai ki jaye...can u focus on ur wrk aftr tht...
4) thy nvr said tht thy r couple...NEVER.,...thy never denied too bcoz aj tak media ne pucha hi nai...pucha kya ??..somya se jab pucha gaya ..whom wud u lyk to date on vday she replied shaheer...its a quite obvious ans fr any gal who knw shaheer ...wht a big deal...
5)v cant say k un dono ne clarification nai diya...diya to hai...jab fans ne pucha R u best frnds...dono ne haan kaha twtr pr ...
6) i still blve tht thy r on...thy juz want som more tym ...bcoz according to dem dis is nt d right tym fr dis...silla ko b somya ne yehi kaha thha if fans really want to knw somthing thy shd wait fr d right tym...if thy want some tym...cant v give ?
7) jab alredy 3 4 log twtr chod chuke hain...so atleast now v knw d main reason ..right...jab humse 1 din ki bashing bardast nai hoti aur hum chod saktre hain twtr...phr shaheer somya kyun nai...jabki wo dono mahinon se bardast kar rahe hain ye bashing aur negetivity phr b kabi palat kar hum pr nai barse humain pyar hi dete rahe...koi kitna sahe aur kab tak...der is a limit of patience fr evry person ..right.
thts it...its all my pov...galti to humse huyi hai...apne over possessiveness k chalte humne uske samne uske frnds ki buri tarah insult ki hai jo koi b nai seh sakta...mahabharat ka news ate hi kuch fans ne din raat ek kardi ushe ye ehssaas dilane main ki wo galat hai ...aur had to tab hogayi jab kuch fans ko pata nai kya hua ...wo shaheer k unwell condition k liye b somya ko responsible samjh kar bash krne lage...den wo sbs sgmnt on frndship day...fans ne phr se sana ko bash krna suru kar diya uske samne wo b buri tarah...agar unhone kuch kaha nai uska 1 reason ye b hai ki all d media is stalking dem on tweeter.
agar itna sab sehne k baad b agar wo twtr na chod te to depression main chale jate ...i juz hope ye ek chota sa brk ho aur wo jaldi wapas ajaye...bt its Hi tym fr us to leartn frm our mistakes...stop bashing his frnds 1st & let dem take d decisions of der life...STOP DIS NEGETIVITY .
Edited by meenakshi.anya - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenakshi.anya

No titaliya m d last to comment , & m completely agree wid u...

so my points r
1)directs tweets r nt d main reason ...so no need to focus on tht only .
2)v all bashed his frnds , as if he is nt a human being ...he dont hav any right to hav femnale frnds...ya media is som how responsible fr dis bcoz thy spreaded d rumour tht shaheer & suri r couples...bt jab shaheer ne 50 bar clr kar diya hai iss baat ko ki v r old frnds ..jab main navya main lime ligght main aya tab logon ne kuch aur soch liya...phr hum itne insecure kyun hain...jab somya khud media k samne bolti hai i trust him ...uske honesty ko sabke samne praise krti hai...phr hum itne over possessive kyun hain...ki wo kisi aur female actress k sath baat b kare ya pic b le to ghor paap...sab k sab bashing pr utar ate hain...WHY ...
3) y he cant act wid anyother actress , kyun mahabharat pr sucha a big chao...aftr all its his job , he cant sit jobless at home fr us...he is a mature human being & he can take his decisions...bt aftr Navya d way fans pressurised him was unbearable fr any one...dont sign any shw ...wht is dis...u can giv him ur suggestion bt u cant spam him ur negetive twts day night ...dont sign , fans kum ho jayenge , shw doob jayega ..blah blah...juz keep urslf in his place & think ...kaisa lagega if u r going to start something new in life aur din raat uski hone se pehle hi uski burai ki jaye...can u focus on ur wrk aftr tht...
4) thy nvr said tht thy r couple...NEVER.,...thy never denied too bcoz aj tak media ne pucha hi nai...pucha kya ??..somya se jab pucha gaya ..whom wud u lyk to date on vday she replied shaheer...its a quite obvious ans fr any gal who knw shaheer ...wht a big deal...
5)v cant say k un dono ne clarification nai diya...diya to hai...jab fans ne pucha R u best frnds...dono ne haan kaha twtr pr ...
6) i still blve tht thy r on...thy juz want som more tym ...bcoz according to dem dis is nt d right tym fr dis...silla ko b somya ne yehi kaha thha if fans really want to knw somthing thy shd wait fr d right tym...if thy want some tym...cant v give ?
7) jab alredy 3 4 log twtr chod chuke hain...so atleast now v knw d main reason ..right...jab humse 1 din ki bashing bardast nai hoti aur hum chod saktre hain twtr...phr shaheer somya kyun nai...jabki wo dono mahinon se bardast kar rahe hain ye bashing aur negetivity...koi kitna sahe aur kab tak...der is a limit of patience fr evry person ..right.
thts it...its all my pov...galti to humse huyi hai...apne over possessiveness k chalte humne uske samne uske frnds ki buri tarah insult ki hai jo koi b nai seh sakta...mahabharat ka news ate hi kuch fans ne din raat ek kardi ushe ye ehssaas dilane main ki wo galat hai ...aur had to tab hogayi jab kuch fans ko pata nai kya hua ...wo shaheer k unwell condition k liye b somya ko responsible samjh kar bash krne lage...den wo sbs sgmnt on frndship day...fans ne phr se sana ko bash krna suru kar diya uske samne wo b buri tarah...
agar itna sab sehne k baad b agar wo twtr na chod te to depression main chale jate ...i juz hope ye ek chota sa brk ho aur wo jaldi wapas ajaye...bt its Hi tym fr us to leartn frm our mistakes...stop bashing his frnds 1st & let dem take d decisions of der life...STOP DIS NEGETIVITY .

well written👏 loved all ur words over here..
true dat shamya never denied or ever accepted dat dey r on...
n yes as u said, somya n shaheer both have given the statement wait for summore time... if nything to reveal, den we will ask n wait for ry8 time ry8... if at all nothing to reveal, den y wait for ry8 time n can deny straight away..so i still trust dat dey r on n may be waiting fora ry8 time to reveal.. n moreover media never ever questioned dem once also regarding deir rapport.. if asked, by now atleast we cud have been relieved n put a stop concerning shamya speculation..
n yes how long can nyone be patient about a certain thing haan.. dat too shamya r celebs n cant be rude straight away to public regarding deir friends circle n shaheer- poor soul waited n was patient concerning all the bashing nasty tweets... wen things go out of hand in dis case, we will be restless n shaheer acted accordingly wen he thought that stuffs r turning to be filthy...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenakshi.anya

No titaliya m d last to comment , & m completely agree wid u...

so my points r
1)directs tweets r nt d main reason ...so no need to focus on tht only .
2)v all bashed his frnds , as if he is nt a human being ...he dont hav any right to hav femnale frnds...ya media is som how responsible fr dis bcoz thy spreaded d rumour tht shaheer & suri r couples...bt jab shaheer ne 50 bar clr kar diya hai iss baat ko ki v r old frnds ..jab main navya main lime ligght main aya tab logon ne kuch aur soch liya...phr hum itne insecure kyun hain...jab somya khud media k samne bolti hai i trust him ...uske honesty ko sabke samne praise krti hai...phr hum itne over possessive kyun hain...ki wo kisi aur female actress k sath baat b kare ya pic b le to ghor paap...sab k sab bashing pr utar ate hain...WHY ...
3) y he cant act wid anyother actress , kyun mahabharat pr sucha a big chao...aftr all its his job , he cant sit jobless at home fr us...he is a mature human being & he can take his decisions...bt aftr Navya d way fans pressurised him was unbearable fr any one...dont sign any shw ...wht is dis...u can giv him ur suggestion bt u cant spam him ur negetive twts day night ...dont sign , fans kum ho jayenge , shw doob jayega ..blah blah...juz keep urslf in his place & think ...kaisa lagega if u r going to start something new in life aur din raat uski hone se pehle hi uski burai ki jaye...can u focus on ur wrk aftr tht...
4) thy nvr said tht thy r couple...NEVER.,...thy never denied too bcoz aj tak media ne pucha hi nai...pucha kya ??..somya se jab pucha gaya ..whom wud u lyk to date on vday she replied shaheer...its a quite obvious ans fr any gal who knw shaheer ...wht a big deal...
5)v cant say k un dono ne clarification nai diya...diya to hai...jab fans ne pucha R u best frnds...dono ne haan kaha twtr pr ...
6) i still blve tht thy r on...thy juz want som more tym ...bcoz according to dem dis is nt d right tym fr dis...silla ko b somya ne yehi kaha thha if fans really want to knw somthing thy shd wait fr d right tym...if thy want some tym...cant v give ?
7) jab alredy 3 4 log twtr chod chuke hain...so atleast now v knw d main reason ..right...jab humse 1 din ki bashing bardast nai hoti aur hum chod saktre hain twtr...phr shaheer somya kyun nai...jabki wo dono mahinon se bardast kar rahe hain ye bashing aur negetivity phr b kabi palat kar hum pr nai barse humain pyar hi dete rahe...koi kitna sahe aur kab tak...der is a limit of patience fr evry person ..right.
thts it...its all my pov...galti to humse huyi hai...apne over possessiveness k chalte humne uske samne uske frnds ki buri tarah insult ki hai jo koi b nai seh sakta...mahabharat ka news ate hi kuch fans ne din raat ek kardi ushe ye ehssaas dilane main ki wo galat hai ...aur had to tab hogayi jab kuch fans ko pata nai kya hua ...wo shaheer k unwell condition k liye b somya ko responsible samjh kar bash krne lage...den wo sbs sgmnt on frndship day...fans ne phr se sana ko bash krna suru kar diya uske samne wo b buri tarah...agar unhone kuch kaha nai uska 1 reason ye b hai ki all d media is stalking dem on tweeter.
agar itna sab sehne k baad b agar wo twtr na chod te to depression main chale jate ...i juz hope ye ek chota sa brk ho aur wo jaldi wapas ajaye...bt its Hi tym fr us to leartn frm our mistakes...stop bashing his frnds 1st & let dem take d decisions of der life...STOP DIS NEGETIVITY .

loved yr reply
when things are viewed with lots of negativity , only negativity prevails and it just wipes off the positivity that shines.
for any relation be it friends,relatives or fans actors- time and space is very important for that relation to bud out properly and wonderfully. i think they should be given their time and space which they really need now. just like how all feel about being hurt, just think they would also be hurt in the same wavelength. when people continuously judge a person , then it only makes them to forget loving thm and ultimately we will be just left back loosing them. eyes will always show limitations and if we see through our mind and heart it wil help us to fly beyond that.
these are just my pov and not to hurt anyone .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with u minakshi aapne bilkul sahi kaha agar hum ek din ke basher pr itne pareshan ho jate hai toh shamya ka kya? Wo bechare toh itne din se sheh rahe the aur Hume unhe samjhna chahiye aur sbse badhi baat ye hai ki fans humesha unki real life ke bare me hi Que. Krte the aur shamya ne kabhi bhi fans ko roka nahi kyu?kyuki wo right time ka wait kr rahe the aur humne unhe time diya hi nahi hum apni enjoyment me unki khushi hi bhul gye hum nahi jante ki unki real story me kya chal raha hai toh hum unke disison lene wale kun hai.unhone kabhi yes nahi kaha ki wo cuple hai but no bhi nahi kaha.sach btau toh fans ki galti bhi nahi hai sari galti humari insecurity ki hai aur fake fans ki hai Jo bashers ke roop me samne aye.shaheer ki friends ko bash krna wo bhi friendships day ke din galat tha. Me toh bas shaheer soumya ki khushi aur unka sath chahti ho mujhe shaheer ki friends se koi problem nahi hai but me tb jaroor darr gaee thi jab sana sheikh ne onscreen cuple n offscreen ke bare me tweet kiya aur delet kr diya pta nahi wo kya kehna chahti thi. But mujhe mere shamya pr pora trust hai. unki honesty n innocent pr hi toh me jaan deti ho.no plez guyz aap sable bhi shamya pr trust rakho jaldi hi wo confuss bhi kr lege ki they are in love.

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