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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: bhallarox
Good post sherma.

Arjun and Purvi are not innocent they have made many mistakes. Arjun cheated Ovi and never told him he fell in love with Purvi but kept on making her hopes get higher.

arjun tried many times before confess in front of purvi but he couldnt,,,,,,,,,,,,,,she never gave any hopes to ovi,,,,,,,,after engagement he again tried but coulnt coz ovis so called problem,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

arjun not cheated ovi,,,,,,,,,,,purvi also there is no question about this ,,,,,,,,,she never cheated ovi,,,purvi is 100 times innocent,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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dolce123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

One of these days, Ovi is going to do something drastic because of her obsession but some people will still be defending her. She has been coddled so much all her life, never had to hear NO for an answer, treated like a barbie doll and her grandmother still talks to her as if she is 4 years old...Miss Ovi need a huge reality check that the whole world does not revolve around her and she need stop feeling sorry for herself because it ain't so bad for her...people are far worse off and still don't complain.

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sharona bhasteker

@sharona_bha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

how can purvi snatch ovi from arjun when arjun not love ovi at all who snatch perspon from other when some one love each other and even know this she try to snatch him this is call snatching. but her it no like that you dont understand that he even not love ovi and she is only he's chilhood freind why he would marry with the girle that he never love her and if after marriage arjun will not give her the love that she want ovi all time will cry the person should to marry with they person who love each other and ovi's love is only one side and how purvi think only about her self and not about other.you hear purvi praying to god and make wish from god for hrself she never pray to god for her self she always pray for other's happenis but ovi only pray for her self and think about her self . and tell me why purvi should to sacrfice her love for her sister do you think if ovi was in purvi place she sacrfice arjun for ovi.when archana sacrife manav for shravni you say that she is wrong and and now when purvi not sacrifice arjun for her sister you'r saying that she is wrong.then tell me one think when manav try to save purvi then why she not let manav to save purvi i know that she is angry on purvi but she should think that she is in danger and maybe she will die if he not save her.if ovi get kidnapped im shour purvi tell arjun to save ovi even if she know that ovi love arjun she will not stop him from saving ovi and even help manav for money.then please dont tell that she think for herself and not other's.dont you think that purvi save ovi from this relationship othervise if she marry arjun she will cry all her life and has to suffer because she will never get arjun's love.

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Ume Salma Kakal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Hi I am new here.

I find this snatching part 😆, how can one person snatch a other human.

Arjun and Purvi are not at fault, in to some extent neither is Ovi.

Ovi has been shown to be self absorbed, she seems to be have spoiled by her family. Given everything she asked for maybe except mother's love. Now Arjun has become a thing for her, that she wants at any cost. Not accepting that you can not treat a human being as a thing and that he is in love with someone else.

Purvi is not at all selfish, in fact it's better that she did not sacrifice her love. Would have ruined all 3 of their lives.

One thing when it comes to feeling compassion, age does not factor. She is 19 years old, old enough to understand human emotions. Her callous behavior regarding Purvi's dangerous situation was disgusting. You would feel bad for an animal who is in danger, here we are talking about a human being.

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newt2007

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

No one is at fault here. Fate played worst role in all 3s life.

Arjun and Ovi are friends. Ovi love Arjun. Arjun never had feeling for Ovi but he is aware about his future life with Ovi. but paid no attention to that becasue his work his first love. He tried to develop love for Ovi but he couldn't. When he gifted bangle to Purvi during her engagement, he bought one for Ovi also. He didn't buy bangle for Ovi in love. He tried to hide his hurt of losing Purvi. Eventhough he is not in love with Purvi that time he had feeling for Purvi. He hide his feelings inside in the name of his tough attitude.

When Purvi's engagment ended in a worst manner Arjun couldn't hide his feelings because he started feeling her pain as his own. Still he is confused. That time his mother's atma showed him that he is in love with Purvi. Then only he went ahead and proposed her.

Purvi is totally different case. She is not aware of Ovi and her connection with Arjun. Purvi know Arjun as her khadus boss. she also noticed changes in Arjun's attitude. She took time to accept his love.

Ovi know Arjun from her childhood. Entire family is soft towards Ovi, eventhough Tej and Ovi are in same age. Tej never expected any attention. Like other Arjun too showed softness towards Ovi, she understood his softness as love. Arjun never thinking about his personal life too much involved in work. Ovi never got chance of hear the word 'no' or not faced any tough situation assumed Arjun's attention as love. Arjun actually closer with Ovi like friend.

Until DK heard 'i'm in love' from Arjun's mouth he didn't come to the decision of engagement. DK and Manav misunderstoof the close friendship of Arjun and Ovi when Arjun telling about his love DK didn't give time to Arjun to tell his lover name. Its a pure fault of elders misunderstanding.

Ovi's engagement to Arjun came to surprise for Arjun and Purvi. Arjun is struck between friendship and love. He doesn't want to insult his father infront of big shots. He tried to tell that to Ovi but her situation and his friendship create problem. when everything is solved Arjun didn't take much time to reveal it. He didn't fear for Ovi's friendship and hide his love for Purvi. So he is very much strong in his love.

Now Ovi is not ready to accept the truth. Ovi's heart is full of hate towards Purvi. She is thinking Arjun didn't love Purvi. She is getting angry on Arjun for taking care of Purvi. Arjun don't have to fear for Ovi anymore. He don't have to hide his feelings just for Ovi. Earlier Arjun did the mistake of hiding his love to Ovi thinking his words will hurt her. I'm happy Arjun didn't repeat the same. This time i love the way he is restless as a young lover when Purvi got kidnapped.

Ovi has to change herself. yday even Savita seems to be disturbed and worried becasue of Purvi's kidnap. but Ovi didn't care. this shows she doesn't cares for others. She thinks only about herself. Even if she get Arjun (without purvi track), she won't be happy with him. Ovi needs some counselling.

Living as someone's daughter and as wife are different. money is not everything. Love needs sacrifice and understanding. Ovi need to learn many things in her life. she has been protective in her father's hand. Life outside is tough. She has to understand this truth.

Edited by newt2007 - 13 years ago

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Sunflower52 and newt2007, very well said. Love is not just hankering after a person, it also involves sacrifice and understanding. Sunflower as you so rightly put it, Ovi is lacking the "human" element, she can only think of herself even when another girl is in danger, that takes the cake!! And grinding her teeth when Arjun is sitting there forlorn, that is love? If she were truly his friend and loved him, she would be hurting for him and consoling him. Until yesterday, I never doubted she loved him in her own way but the grinding incident changed my take on it.

And why blame Purvi in this? If anyone was at fault for inaction or not trying hard enough to set matters straight, it was Arjun. Purvi was not even aware of the Ovi factor. And if you expect Purvi to have sacrificed for her sister, why not the other way around? Ovi could have sacrificed for her sister AND also for her "love" whom she phataoed on second try and the fool fell for it for whatever odd reason. No, not excusing him but you cannot blame him for not falling in love with her, maybe he has always known something that we didnt about her aka her selfishishness, self absorption, dwelling in her two or four year old self. Yes, he should never have agreed to marrying her and he is making Purvi pay for that mistake of his as well as he has made no attempt to clear Purvi's name to the Deshmukhs, including Mother Deshmukh aka Archana.

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diyasingh

@diyasingh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

i dont think arjun and purvi should be blamed for anything becuz arjun NEVER lovedd ovi she jus pushed herself on him. so i think purvi and arjun should get married and ovi should back off and find somebody else since she does modellin it wont be hard for her

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Alicia

@alicia.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

I never knew it was a crime to love now . What so wrong if Arjun and Purvi love each other . Ovi should accept this fact and move on but no she wants Arjun who does not love her but only cares for her as a friend . People should seriously stop blaming Purvi . Remember she did tell Arjun to stay away from her but again and again he told Purvi that he will tell everyone .

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