Considering how things are going in the show and on the forum; I feel like sharing something. Whenever a journey ends, I like to look back and ponder upon what took place? What I feel about the journey, am I satisfied with the outcome, will there be a next time, etc. Parichay has been a journey that sucked me in without my knowledge. I do not need to list or expand upon what was so captivating about it. Now it appears my journey ends here and I must find a way to move on. But given I must admit the attachment is just too strong. I often go back to watch the golden days of Parichay and wonder why do I have to say goodbye? Became such an addict that I actually joined an online forum, used my FB account for the sake of show alone and even opened a twitter account. So much determination for a show? I wonder how a fictional series can be so powerful. Usually not even bothered by real people, here I go on to ponder upon and discuss reel characters.
But our efforts just went in vain and spirit just crushed brutally. Result, many of us bid farewell. But some strong mind remained with the show. But I do see severely damaged spirit among them as well. Please pardon my complete honesty here but I do not only see change in the show but also where do fans stand at this moment? I must say CVs are so powerful that they broke unity and spirit of Parichay land in just 2 episodes. Those who eagerly awaited to even catch a glimpse of Kunal now hate him. Those who wanted to see him move on in his life now want him to suffer. Those who enjoyed every bit of SINAL scene and pleaded to see them together now want them separated and with other people. Now we talk about Sameer sir's performance and Siddhi's life ahead. Very smartly CVs flipped the coin from Kunal's life to Siddhi's life; and it appears may be all will welcome it? Now if I say still I would want Kunal and SINAL intact; I would get laughed at. Well no offense to anyone and not saying what people should discuss; just an observation.
About the effect of Parichay, Oh well I must come out of it. But I feel it is similar to grievance process. I got the feeling that may be I am not alone in this process. So I thought of sharing famous five stages of grief to help myself and fellow members ' 1) Denial, 2) Anger, 3) Bargaining, 4) Depression and 5) Acceptance. Do bear in mind that everyone has different temperament so how long does the process last, well'''''
Those who have decided to stick with the show, may God give you strength and keep in mind this is a fictional show where things can be easily manipulated. Try your best to avoid anger and frustration, and point it towards people responsible for it and not anywhere else. 👍🏼
Nikla Tha Kunal thoodne apna Parichay,
Hum bhi jud gaye iss karwan mein;
Ab itna aage chale aaye hai hum,
Ki raah chutne ka gehara dard bhi hai;
Kaash aise hum yun alvida na kehte,
Par aage jaane ka koi matlab hi nahi;
Ae dosto phir kabhi mulaakat ho paye to sahi,
Varna abhi hamara aakhri salaam kubool karo'''''
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
