With Or Against Aditya?- 26 July, 2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

What Aditya did today, by going against the 'baratis', how many of you think was wrong?

No one? Well, it won't be surprising to see that no one is against Aditya.

But today I would agree with Adi's nanaji "Chote chote shehron mein aisa hi hota hai!"

Exactly! This is what has been happening since ages in India. Although these kind of practices have decreased now since people have manners and respect for everyone now, even if they're arrogant.

But in small towns, in poor and middle class communities this happens in the present also. The direct impact of such incidents are seen on the bride. The bride is never at fault.

Many you guys would say that Neha shouldn't have married Pankaj. But marriage is not a thing to play with. It is something very colossal. Plus, when it comes to the marriage of the daughter of the family, the family is very much bound by the so-called rules and laws of society. But they have to follow them. After all, that is the place they have to live in. After all, society does make a part of them.

We saw that what Adi did was after Neha-Pankaj's marriage was accomplished. I don't know what would be shown in tomorrow's episode or how this thing will come to an end. But let's think that if those 'baratis' had left the marriage, then, out of shame, Pankaj's parents would blame the Guptas and the Mumbai wales.

But how much will they blame the Guptas? They cannot back-off from the marriage now. This is when all the trouble starts shifting to Neha's shoulder. We already have seen many cases like such where the daughter-in-law is not respected by the in-laws because of small mistakes of her family and relatives.

Adding to this are Govardhan's lies. When the truth will come in front of everyone, leaving aside the Guptas and the Deewans, imagine what will be the reaction of Pankaj and his family? Won't that affect Neha's married life?

But Govardhan's lies aren't new. They would have still remained if Adi wouldn't have done all this. But now there are two things which can have and will affect Neha and her married life in a very negative way.

I know what Adi wasn't wrong. But the way he did that, was wrong. The consequences will not be favorable, not for Neha at all.

-Anshi😊

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree, No one will be against Aditya because whatever he did was abs right. If one belongs to groom's side, it doesn't give him/her to insult the elders. One should always respect other.

Adi's Nanu Said: - "Chote chote shehron mein aisa hi hota hai!" I actually don't agree with this, because whenever creatives want to show some social problem...they always say that this happens in small cities and big cities believe in equality. But on the other side, small town people are much better than others. I have attended so many marriages, and from my experience I have seen that this kind of things are never so dominated in small cities.

The whole issue actually depends on mentality of people, no matter where they belong. Some people think that they have some on bride's side because they are rich, high class, social people or they think that they are doing some kind of favor for getting their son married with their girl. It's just How people thinks.

Neha-Pankaj marriage is done...And if we look at all the issues; they can get complicated. Adi won't be saying sorry on the part where he is not wrong and Pankaj's family will definitely bring the issue of Adi getting treatment and this can only worsen the situation. The whole issue is all because of one lie Govardhan told to Aditya. In this situation, only if Pankaj support Neha...the problem can be solved, Because its their life and Marriage is definitely not some game.

Pankaj's family need to learn that Bride's parents or relatives are also living beings, and they don't have any right to insult any one like that.

One lie can change so many things, this can be proved by the whole issue created in PKDH. I still won't say that Aditya was wrong, because he has those values where he believe that all people r equal and one should respect others by looking at the behavior and not at their status.

P.S. Sorry for such a long comment 😆

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Supriya

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Posted: 13 years ago

i hvnt watch today's epi...wil get bk after watching!

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Atharva Dev

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yes i was feeling sorry for Neha ,poor gal have to bear Poblems coz Of Aditya! Yes what he does was ri8 but the way he does was Wrong!

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anusha.cochin

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Posted: 13 years ago

Actually wat Adi did was right...Naman's family was really irritating...But the way Adi did was wrong...he shouldnot react like dat ...During a marriage occassion there will several small matters we dont like ,but if we point out in Adis way it will create big issues. Adi doesnt belong 2 dat family and usually Groom's side wont like his interfering...Adi shud have think of poor Neha at dat time.

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AfflicteD

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Posted: 13 years ago

Couldn't reply earlier...and I don't need to now, I guess..we have seen the episode- clarification to doubts!😛

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Preet

@RadhaKrishan

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Posted: 13 years ago

^^Yes, I agree...It was such an amazing episode...will be waiting to read ur analysis tonight

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princess

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hii

I am new to PKDH forum...

After watching today's episode, flashbacks of a similar incident came in my mind. I also thought about posting a topic related to that but as your post is related one, I thought I should post it here itself.

I dont know if Adi was right or wrong. But 2 years ago in my cousin's marriage, my situation was exactly similar to that of Adi's. I opposed the baratis for treating my brothers as waiters to serve them drinks, snacks etc. And then came Juta chupai rasm in which I just cracked a simple joke with my jeejaji and the baratis to take revenge for my earlier behaviour created a big issue of it.

One of the elders from barati's side was a very decent person. He apologised to me and so my father also asked me to apologise to them. But I refused to apologise to those baratis. But for the sake of my sister's happiness I said sorry to my jeejaji and not to those baratis. The other baratis were still not sorry for their behaviour.

The point is that in the end it was me who had to surrender since I was from bride's side. I was always thinking that I should not hjave said sorry that day. But today after watching the episode I felt sometimes it's better to say sorry for the sake of happiness of ou dear ones.

So I am with Adi for what he did before and afterwards too. And I always like Adi for his honest behaviour😊

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey! Welcome to the forum..even I'm not that old member here but senior to u😆

Well, yes, I never said Adi was wrong. He wasn't. Until today's episode, according to me the way he chose to oppose the groom's side was wrong. But today he made up for it!

Have a look:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/pyar-ka-dard-hai-meetha-meetha-pyara-pyara/3119196/problem-solved-27th-july-2012