Hear me Out before Bashing Anjali

I somewhere sensed that I would see a lot of Anjali bashing post today and I did which to some degree is very much justified...even I was terribly angry on her yesterday and I did not want her to disturb the perfect moment of Arshi...but then I rmbered a frnd of mine who was in a similar situation like Anjali-My frnd..one of my bestie , a CA by proffesion, worked with the biggest financial giant in the world fell in love with a guy who was 2 1/2 years younger to her and was a struggling model. The guy was from Chandigarh and had an awesome built and great looks. My frnd is more on the cuter bubbly side. She paid half his rent , she paid for his portfolio and they both took care of each other immensly. Ofcourse she had to travel the globe coz of her job and everytime she went abroad she shopped more for this guy. money was not the only think, she practically worshipped him. He too was extremely fond of her, atleast in front of us and cared for her deeply. One unfortunate day she entered the apartment where he was living and ofcourse she paid almost 50% of the rent for it and she caught him redhanded with some random gurl in a very compromising position. It was earth shattering for her and she was suicidal for 3 months. imagine a gurl who is so intelligent was capable of this. We were always there for her. She was in a very bad state gurls, I get goose bumps while I am typing all this. When women are at such a weak stage they seek emotional support from their loved ones, I was happily seeing my boyfrnd then but I did not speak to her about it, she use to ask me how is it going for you, i use to be like yeah good...and did not speak further about it. She was so weak emotionally that she actually called that guy and met him without any one of us knowing and told him she had forgiven him and is ready for a 2nd chance. I know you would feel she was crazy ..she was ...she had given her life to him...everything and she was depressed.She had always been a pampered kid with the family entirely doting on her...extremely well to do family..but a modest down to earth gurl who wud not even hurt a fly.