Ahem and love: realisation or not - Page 2

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Awesome swasthi! 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Joicej

Swasthi,

Wonderful analysis.

That conversation was much needed. Today's episode reminded Ahem where he stood compared to Gopi and his child. Ahem is a thinker and I hope he will think about what Gopi said and stop being selfish.

I do not wish to see the Ahem I saw today in the office - frustrated out of selfishness. He was still thinking why Gopi hadn't rung him. He was only thinking "me..me..me". I hope this conversation with Gopi will change that.

I did not have a nice feeling about the puppy comparison they tried to show. Just my POV.😛

But I liked the episode because they talked! Now that's not something you get to see everyday in SNS. 😆

Thanks Swasthi.

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Wonderful analysis of Ahem Swasthi.

Nice to see Ahem continue to put his best foot forward and keeps attempting to talk to Gopi, instead of getting mad. Also nice that Gopi is letting him know of what and how she is feeling.

I have not watched an episode since Thursday, but it is still nice to see where Ahem is in his journey of love and expressing that love to his wife thru your Ahem and love posts.

Awesome take Swasthi..👏

My homecoming present from SNS was just beautiful. II was left amazed by the truth in what Gopi said and one other thing struck me and made me speechless..
Gopi may not realize this now but for the first time in Gopi's life, apart from her Kanhaji, there is this one person who LISTENED.. Really listened to her today.. This was not the Ahem who was moved by the sobbing tears of his illiterate wife..

This was Ahem who was humbled and shamed into silence as he realized the pain that Gopi has carried over the years. Her words ring so true. A loving relative can never make up for your own parents.. A small wish, a wish every child carries... To talk and laugh and be loved by your parents.. Gopi never got that ever.

For the first time Ahem, I think has realized that his words hurt more than the surface and that it has left his wife in a place from which he would find it most difficult to get her back. It is his own doing, no doubt but he will just have to get her back..

Jigar's advice is right. Koki is his first step to Gopi for Koki is the mother Gopi never had. If Koki hurts, Gopi hurts with her.. I just hope that this teary conversation and some home truths from Gopi and his conscience is enough for Ahem to curb his temper and make up to Gopi and make her see that he really meant something else.. I just hope he does😛

Thanks Swasthi. I am in touch with Ahem thru you

Originally posted by: mona05

Thanks,,,it is always wonderful to read yur analysis..

I hope this is a start to ahem listening and gopi talking...Want to see Ahem taking gopi out and coaxing her feelings and life experiences from her...want to see Ahemji knowing his gopi ..doing things just to please her without thinking of his own pleasure.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Awesome take Swasthi..👏

My homecoming present from SNS was just beautiful. II was left amazed by the truth in what Gopi said and one other thing struck me and made me speechless..
Gopi may not realize this now but for the first time in Gopi's life, apart from her Kanhaji, there is this one person who LISTENED.. Really listened to her today.. This was not the Ahem who was moved by the sobbing tears of his illiterate wife..

This was Ahem who was humbled and shamed into silence as he realized the pain that Gopi has carried over the years. Her words ring so true. A loving relative can never make up for your own parents.. A small wish, a wish every child carries... To talk and laugh and be loved by your parents.. Gopi never got that ever.

For the first time Ahem, I think has realized that his words hurt more than the surface and that it has left his wife in a place from which he would find it most difficult to get her back. It is his own doing, no doubt but he will just have to get her back..

Jigar's advice is right. Koki is his first step to Gopi for Koki is the mother Gopi never had. If Koki hurts, Gopi hurts with her.. I just hope that this teary conversation and some home truths from Gopi and his conscience is enough for Ahem to curb his temper and make up to Gopi and make her see that he really meant something else.. I just hope he does😛

Originally posted by: A2ZV

Thanks Swasthi. I am in touch with Ahem thru you

Thanks Swasthi, that's really beautiful analysis.