Jagya and remorse - Page 2

I still cannot see any kind of remorse in that slimebag...he is still concerned only about himself...as though he is being punished for committing only silly mistakes...

i think he is a victim though...that doesn't make his handlign of anandi right nor do i agree with the senseless way he treated her whatsoever...but who has any sense of what they are goign on at 8 years old?? i dont think he is so bad for growing up, coming to the city, and falling in love and realizing this is the person he wants to spend the rest of his life with...i mean even my parents when they got married though it was arranged had the choice to say yes or no to the wedding. and once htey said yes it became their responsibility and commitment...and at 24 they had a clear understanding of what htey were getting into. it wasn't his fault that at age 8 his parent had him married...that was their fault and i feel anandi became more their responsibility than his when they brought her into the house and they are handling that responsibility very commendably. what he did wasn't right, the way he treated her wasnt' at all right whatsoever, but considering hsi was a child marriage...i give him some slack...and as of right now do feel bad for him as gauri to me is more wrong than him. for sure he was wrong for lying to her...but before they got married all the facts were clear infront of her face...and she had a choice. she should have and could have rejected him...but still knowing he was previoulsy married...she married him. and he was i think fulfilling that marriage in the sense that he had no desire to return home and was ready to break off the connection. she was the one who insisted and demanded to return to his home and get everyone's blessings and acceptance. and then she's the one who became an insecure psycho soon after...i think jagat should suffer but so should gauri possibly even more than jagat. what did she think she would marry jagat, displace anandi, throw her out of the house...tkae her place and let her suffer?? and when that didnt happen and she didn't get all the luxories decide that jagat is worthless and throw him out of her life?? it's not really fair and extremely selfish too me.

Originally posted by: tweetie19

I still cannot see any kind of remorse in that slimebag...he is still concerned only about himself...as though he is being punished for committing only silly mistakes...

I totally agree with groovychia. You can not completely fault him for falling in love with Gauri.

IMHO being a victim of Child marriage does not give Jagya the license to trample others (Anandi, his family, his friends).

exactly hence i said i completely disapprove of jagya's handling of the situation and treatment of anandi...i don't believe the manner in which he treated another fellow victim was right i agree with you there. he acted like she was teh cause of all of his life's problems when she wasn't. that's why my sympathy for him has a limit. had he gone with gauri but handled the entire situation significantly more delicately and sensibly...treating anandi with utmost respect and empathy it would not have been as bad as it was.

I do understand his moving 'away' from anandi and the liking for gauri and the want to marry her to some extent...but if he would have done it in a betterw ay by discussing and informing anandi abt his change of feelings...and not disposing off anandi as a tissue paper ...all this mess he is in now would surely not had happened..

he never ever blames himself as if he is the purest person!!! ugh🤢🤢

Originally posted by: groovychica_22

exactly hence i said i completely disapprove of jagya's handling of the situation and treatment of anandi...i don't believe the manner in which he treated another fellow victim was right i agree with you there. he acted like she was teh cause of all of his life's problems when she wasn't. that's why my sympathy for him has a limit. had he gone with gauri but handled the entire situation significantly more delicately and sensibly...treating anandi with utmost respect and empathy it would not have been as bad as it was.

but he was a victim of child marriage...and gauri was as guilty an accomplice if not worse. as jagat was raised in chauvanistic household, spoiled, wiht his family constantly feeding his ego...for example when anandi proved she was smarter than jagya in studies her books were burned...not saying it's his family's fault or justifies his personality but he innately is spoiled and gets what he wants. but gauri is equally selfish...she had her education funded by his family, attempted to displace anandi out of her own house, created so many rifts and misunderstandings between each individual member of jagya's household...which jagya is stupid too for not having judgement sense of his own but still she did manipulate the situation too...infront of him showing only sweetness towards anandi and behind his back only cursing her out and etc basically what i'm trying to say is i do believe jagya should learn a lesson i'm not at all opposed to that. but gauri too should be there suffering side by side and having some relevations of her own as well...this is annoying he's not the only one wrong she is too and i find her character worse than his so this tract is annoying. i don' twant them to be happy together after howt hey both treated anandi but i believe htey both need to learn a lesson...gauri is not learning anything except for how to successfully use and disuse people for professional gain...

yeah i agree with what you are saying...his attitude is really wrong. :)