My Dear Yash... I am waiting for the day when you will swallow these very words... and i know it will happen.
Yash... Love is boundless... it is not limited to one. What you are feeling Yash, is obsessive love ... that is not love... what you are feeling is GUILT... earlier i used to think that yes you loved Arpita with the whole of your being... but on seeing how she died... i realise that you feel responsible for her death... and you feel guilty... because of that you are holding on to her memory obsessively as though it would wash your guilty feelings away.
I am sorry Yash, you will not be relieved of that guilt, not as long as you cling to Arpita's memory. You are building a world of dreams, a dream where Arpita is perfect - but she is not is she, Yash? No one is perfect... YOu cling to your dream because you do not wish to remember the night she crashed her car - why did she crash? It is not your fault... if there is any fault at all it is Arpita's ... but of course Arpita is perfect so how can she be at fault ... so if she is not at fault, then whose... your's? It was because of your oncoming headlights that caused Arpita to swerve ... guilt...
Yash, as i said earlier, love is boundless. One can have love for more than one - i am talkiing of true love ... not passionate love, not selfish love... you can love arpita and the memory of the life you shared but you can also love the living - you can live again Yash if only you would stop living in your perfect dream world. You can love Arpita - you don't have to stop loving her - provided your love is pure in the true sense , not the obsessive love that i see in you. Love never dies, love always live. Love is for the living ... love is not to hold on to ... love is to let go... love is limitless, you can love Arpita and you can love Aarthi. You are right Yash, Arthi is not Arpita - and it is good that you know this. Arthi is Arthi... Arthi is not afraid to love again... Arthi is not afraid to take risks... Arthi is not afraid to stand for her love...Arthi is love. Yash if only you could throw your obsession and your guilt aside - you will see that Arthi is love.