Yah, Urmi was right, now that Kokila knows what is in Anita's mind and to cause havoc she should throw her out of there house, but she feels Anita will be worrying Aham at work, possibly, that's why she wants to sort her out quickly, she has even put a 2 hour limit on the challenge, but to be honest Anita needs a confirmation from Aham as to his true feelings.
Kokila also has forgotten her lesson from Naani, remember the sandook challenge, Gopi failed that challenge because though all the family give a blessing that does not make her an adarsh bahu, because she marries the man and he needs to accept her as his wife, without that first acceptance she is not in the house right? Therefore, no matter if she is good daughter-in-law and can serve and anticipate everyone's needs, the first person to approve her needs to be Aham, therefore Aham should have been the first person they ask now, who he prefers...Anita or Gopi.