Mother or MIL Challenge !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well today though I loved bits of confidence Koki had shown in her Gopi Vahu, for me she agreed for the challenge as a mother.
She could not take it that her son Ahem could even today love Anitha & disregard her choice, her Gopi Vahu !!! Today I regret to say that I did not like Kokilla at all ...because
  • She was no where considerate about her DIL's feelings---if she was, she would at the 1st place not accept this humiliating challenge for a wife to prove that she is worthy over his ex to stay in his life !!!

  • It was her ego which did the talking as she took up the challenge...you humiliate a young girl struggling hard for her marriage but pushing her over the edge again & again...I understand she is a motherless child & does not see bad about it, but as a mother are you not supposed to take care of your child

  • You could not throw Anitha out of the house but you are fine to put your DIL thru heartbreaking pain.

  • By accepting the challenge you are strenthing the doubts in that young girl's heart that yes your husband may still love his ex

  • And after accepting the challenge then what do you, you do not even go & tell the girl on what has happened, you break the news in front of the ex & you do not give her the choice of making her decision if she even wants to be part of it !! You force her to be part of it. Do you know what will happen to her self confidence !!!

  • When Anitha challenged it was your pride , your ego that how can anyone question me?

  • Why dnt you ask your son on what he wants in life, why should someone else, even his wife have to go thru this confusion !!!

  • So if Anitha wins, are you telling your DIL, that you are no more part of Modi family & you are not Ahem's wife !!!
  • Hasnt you DIL proven you all along, why should she prove it to the outside world !??

No Kokilla Modi , I do not agree with this challenge. It is degrading a women, who is a wife & who respects & loves you as a mother .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post navya.
Being a fan of Maaji, I never ever thought that I would be accepting these words against Koki. But what you said is completely true. I really feel bad that CVs are making a mess with the strong base -characters of their show.

Originally posted by: navyab


  • Why dnt you ask your son on what he wants in life, why should someone else, even his wife have to go thru this confusion !!!

  • So if Anitha wins, are you telling your DIL, that you are no more part of Modi family & you are not Ahem's wife !!!
  • Hasnt you DIL proven you all along, why should she prove it to the outside world !??

No Kokilla Modi , I do not agree with this challenge. It is degrading a women, who is a wife & who respects & loves you as a mother .



These are the exact words in my mind.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gohem_ka

Great post navya.
Being a fan of Maaji, I never ever thought that I would be accepting these words against Koki. But what you said is completely true. I really feel bad that CVs are making a mess with the strong base -characters of their show.



These are the exact words in my mind.

Oh Gohem...I also loved the character of Kokilla but at times she goes in a tangential route altogether & thats when Im like 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Navya, I am all spent. Can't think any more. You said it all. The CV's have destroyed two of the strongest characters of Kokila and Ahemji in this track. We can't count on them to do things that we expect from them. I was excited that Kokila and Ahemji will step up to resolve the Anita conflict, but they are both going about it in the most stupid manner.
Ahemji is still dumbstruck and Kokila has gone over the deep end. I am afraid during this moronic competition, Gopi's character will be butchered next.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aris22l

Navya, I am all spent. Can't think any more. You said it all. The CV's have destroyed two of the strongest characters of Kokila and Ahemji in this track. We can't count on them to do things that we expect from them. I was excited that Kokila and Ahemji will step up to resolve the Anita conflict, but they are both going about it in the most stupid manner.
Ahemji is still dumbstruck and Kokila has gone over the deep end. I am afraid during this moronic competition, Gopi's character will be butchered next.

Touch Gopi & that will be the end of SNS Aris !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyab

Touch Gopi & that will be the end of SNS Aris !!!



first off navya i really agree to all your points. .

Aris good fitting reply. . .and yes navya if they go for butchering Gopi's character next. . sorry but I will seriously consider retirement from hindi serials. . all of em . . . coz nont touch my heart. . perhaps make my smile. . but SNS reaches to the core of me. . and also makes me happy. . . but i wont tolerate it if Gopi is next.. . . but I am sure they wont mess GOpi up . . . they really cant.. and Koki and AHem will be more human at end of it all. . i pray. .

I prayed for the change i always wanted to see in Koki during batwara track . .but there was ABSOLUTELY no change in anyone after batwara track . .apart from revelation of teh fact that GOpi will stand strong in case the family has any issue and will fight for everyone as much as she can. About fighting for herself. . well her experiences in life shattered all her hope whenever it gathered speed .. i wont touch on that , i have said enough on that. .

My family after such a long time started watching SNS more peacefully . there was no argument about it. . they were shouting to each other to remain silent to see what will happen next. . . i know they are not regular viewers like me. . but as soon as Koki started this chalenge tthing. .. i regret to say. . . but I was deserted yet again. . .found myself sitting alone lol. . all around me got busy in their work. . and yelled that it was all b**l s**t . . and foolishness towards GOpi. . I wont blame em coz they haevnt watched it regularly. . . but personally even i dont like whats going on. . . 😭 😭 😭 I pray that it comes to a close soon .. . and before AHem and Koki get butchered enough . . they need to be revived FAST. . . they need more lease of life. . . its not too late. . .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree. i am a big fan of koki but she broke my heart today. I like that she has full faith in Gopi and Ahem but this is not a way to prove it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i missed this episode , but reading this post i can guess what showed in this episode .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyab

Well today though I loved bits of confidence Koki had shown in her Gopi Vahu, for me she agreed for the challenge as a mother.

She could not take it that her son Ahem could even today love Anitha & disregard her choice, her Gopi Vahu !!! Today I regret to say that I did not like Kokilla at all ...because
  • She was no where considerate about her DIL's feelings---if she was, she would at the 1st place not accept this humiliating challenge for a wife to prove that she is worthy over his ex to stay in his life !!!

  • It was her ego which did the talking as she took up the challenge...you humiliate a young girl struggling hard for her marriage but pushing her over the edge again & again...I understand she is a motherless child & does not see bad about it, but as a mother are you not supposed to take care of your child

  • You could not throw Anitha out of the house but you are fine to put your DIL thru heartbreaking pain.

  • By accepting the challenge you are strenthing the doubts in that young girl's heart that yes your husband may still love his ex

  • And after accepting the challenge then what do you, you do not even go & tell the girl on what has happened, you break the news in front of the ex & you do not give her the choice of making her decision if she even wants to be part of it !! You force her to be part of it. Do you know what will happen to her self confidence !!!

  • When Anitha challenged it was your pride , your ego that how can anyone question me?

  • Why dnt you ask your son on what he wants in life, why should someone else, even his wife have to go thru this confusion !!!

  • So if Anitha wins, are you telling your DIL, that you are no more part of Modi family & you are not Ahem's wife !!!
  • Hasnt you DIL proven you all along, why should she prove it to the outside world !??

No Kokilla Modi , I do not agree with this challenge. It is degrading a women, who is a wife & who respects & loves you as a mother .

Excellent .well put

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