discussion of the week: 1 sided relations - Page 2

After last evening's episode - soham has probably falling for anjali or is feeling her hurt.

This will be a one sided love afair until anjali will gradually fall for him too.

We will see him change and he will be more like kavya.

I hope this is where kekta is going.

We dont want anymore one-sided affair that does not work.

Esti aunty

Originally posted by: esti

We have seen in kavyanjali the following 1 sided relationship.

Reeva is madley in love with Soham

Soham is showing his afection towards anjali.

Shaurya is in love with anjali.

Arpita was in love with Yug

kavya was in love with anjali (in the begining)

Pammi was in love with kavya

Disha was in love with Jay

Why do we have to constanly see these 1 sided relationship - do 1 sided relationships work?

why do they happen? what could make them work?

Is it better to have loved and not to have loved at all...even if it isnt returned?

The 2 sided relationship we had was Kavya and anjali and kekta decided to kill him off.

What do you think?

Esti aunty

well i will jhadofy (broom) my psycology ki theories n pls bear with me 😆

well on 1 sidded relationship my thinking is its better to forget it if the person u love isnt worth ur love n its stupid to forgive it if the person u love is worth u n u have a practical hope of getting love in return now y i say is practical is coz even in matters of love some practical facts do matter as we live in a societty so we shud keep certain facts in mind if u love (in real sense) some star its no use i mean in kekta's fairy tale stories a fan like kripa can get angad but in real life u cant think its waste of time n society will call it as foolishness now let me analyse our ka 1 sidded relationships on thier practical n emotinal basis

but according to me reva loving sohu is just foolishness only becoz she loves him shes possesive when practical thought its utter foolishness to love some one whom u know doesnt n will never love u shoru loving anju ok that can be taken as some thin rite coz hes always suppoerted her n his love is accepted by anju's family so he can expect love from anju's side which we know he will never get but still according to him he perception is rite disha loving jai was another useless case coz jai never cared a damn for disha n that girl soon realised it n broke the unmeaningfull relationship n basically i never felt disha loved jai i always felt she always kept her relationship coz we indian girls are broughtup tought marriages are never meant to be broken n so she just was trying to keep up marriage n when she realised that jai loves someone else she was hurt as a wife

again pammi's one sideed relationship was a hopeless case n she too realised it n gave up pammi loved kavya from a very long time butu she knew that he loved anju more than her life still she married him n as expexcted it was a sure faliure case

arpita was in love with yug i wud call her another reva n yet another foolish case coz she knew that yug doesnt love her she knew that he was a flirt she knew that he would never be commited to her but still she wanted ti tie him n thats the end of thier relationship kavya loving anju now that i wud call a sesnsible case not becoz its kavyanjali coz when kavya met anju he saw in anju's eyes some feelings for himself n so he went n stopped the marriage n took such a big step when ur sure of the person's love for u even if its 1% u will get the confidence in u n thats what happened in kavya's case though anju hated kavya those days she had a sense of affection in her eyes (may be becoz she spent so many romantic moments with kavya as anjum)which showed n which kavya saw n so he loving her i wont call it fooloish

again yug loving anju i dont think hes wrong coz hes well aware of the fact that anju doesnt love him n he doesnt expect anythin from anju in return to his love coz he knows he lost her coz of himself n so now he loves her supports her but doesnt expect anythin other than trust n friendhsip

now i come to the eternal yogya jodi sohu n anju ok now according to me sohu is attracted to anju n after the farm house incident he has started respecting anju coz in today's world today's men like sohu who have never visited to india have hardly seen women like anju who loves her husband more than her life even after hes gone n hes still alive in her so now hes started respecting her one step further attraction so i wont call it a 1 sidded relationship yet

so my moral of one sided love is its better to forget as some of the foolish cases have no future

so 1 sided relationship do work if know that the person u love has atleast 1% affection for u or has some feelings then yes it does work but in a relationship one sidded relationship without the person u love having no feelings for u its gonna end n the end is disastorous so i feel we shud avoid these kinds of relationships

or otherwise if u really love the person in its real sense then i guess what according to me love is loving one unconditionally that if u love a person u cant expect anythin from the person or rather i shall put it as in love u just give if u expect a person to love u expect him/her to be urs even if u know thier hapiness is some where else then i wont call it love i would rather call it a selfish infatuation n in love u never are selfish

n i do beleive in the fact that loving once is better than not loving anyone at all even if it isnt returned coz as i said love is only about giving not expecting n taking thats y they say love is unconditional

n havent u guys heard the krish song dil na diya dil na diya to bolo na bolo kya kiya kiya

so its better to love once than not oving anyone n according to me every human beings falls in love atleast once well exept brahamacharis😆

pls take no offense i told what i feel honestly 😳

n hope dint bore u with my psycho theories psychology student hone ka yeh ek lauta disadvantage hai😳

love

anu

Anu that was great - yes as i said it will get 1 sided as he starts to fall for her - it will progress and she will fall for him at the end i am sure.

Esti aunty

yes esti aunty ur prediction i feel will prove to be true n this will work cause sohu has kavya's face n so anju has .01% affection which will increase day by day 😳 n so guess they have a gr8 future
by the way esti aunty gr8 discussion topic 👏 👍🏼
love
anu

Originally posted by: jenny1000

We have seen in kavyanjali the following 1 sided relationship.

Reeva is madley in love with Soham - does she have to keep repeating that?? I got it from the first episode..

Soham is showing his afection towards anjali.- what do i say? it seems everyone is fida on Anjali..

Shaurya is in love with anjali. - I can see that as well.. but , they both lack chemistry, soo ummm NO!

Arpita was in love with Yug -- damn it.! It's either Anjali or Yug or Kavya whom people are after..

kavya was in love with anjali (in the begining) - AWW, they are made for each other - Kavyanjali

Pammi was in love with kavya -- Hmm, in the beginning she was like Reeva, but after her love for Ved, she became better. Pammi, umm, 6/10 for being in the story😊

Disha was in love with Jay--what did she see in him? Shlok is more better😊

Why do we have to constanly see these 1 sided relationship - do 1 sided relationships work? -Umm, it's all Ekta's fault. I don;t think 1 sided relationships ever work.. You need "love" from both side.. even Nimmo-Kunal's love is one sided😔

why do they happen? what could make them work? -- they happen because Ekta Mai's creative head can't think of anything else😆, the only thing that can make them work is a joint of two people caring about one another, loving each other and commiting to each other😊

Is it better to have loved and not to have loved at all...even if it isnt returned? - love happens, we don't when it does, but it just happens, but yea if you love someone, and they don't love u back, u shouldn't stop loving them but don't keep expections😊 for example, Sharuya though he loves Anjali , has expections that eventually she will love him as well, that's wrong😃

The 2 sided relationship we had was Kavya and anjali and kekta decided to kill him off. -- apparnatly, they all ran out of ideas and they had to stick to their caption, so they decided to kill him off, which was a wrong thing because , i think the captions suited many times, pammi, yug, etc.. they didn't have to kill him, because went down the trp's and now, KA will be finished😊which is good, rather than dragging on forever like it is now😊

What do you think? -- no offense to die hard KA lovers, but i am glad that it's ending because at least it will remembered as one of the best dramas - that begin perectly and ended perfectly - not like kyunki and kzk, because the only way for KA to work is to move forward-- imagine Eijoo playing a 40 yr old😆😳

Nice discussion Esti di!

- Jenny

well said jenny ekta can't think more than killing the main men of the drama's now luk first she killed om then kavy i don't know who'll be the next target😆

i think 1 sised relations never work as groovychick said.

Originally posted by: anu_thegr8

well i will jhadofy (broom) my psycology ki theories n pls bear with me 😆

well on 1 sidded relationship my thinking is its better to forget it if the person u love isnt worth ur love n its stupid to forgive it if the person u love is worth u n u have a practical hope of getting love in return now y i say is practical is coz even in matters of love some practical facts do matter as we live in a societty so we shud keep certain facts in mind if u love (in real sense) some star its no use i mean in kekta's fairy tale stories a fan like kripa can get angad but in real life u cant think its waste of time n society will call it as foolishness now let me analyse our ka 1 sidded relationships on thier practical n emotinal basis

but according to me reva loving sohu is just foolishness only becoz she loves him shes possesive when practical thought its utter foolishness to love some one whom u know doesnt n will never love u shoru loving anju ok that can be taken as some thin rite coz hes always suppoerted her n his love is accepted by anju's family so he can expect love from anju's side which we know he will never get but still according to him he perception is rite disha loving jai was another useless case coz jai never cared a damn for disha n that girl soon realised it n broke the unmeaningfull relationship n basically i never felt disha loved jai i always felt she always kept her relationship coz we indian girls are broughtup tought marriages are never meant to be broken n so she just was trying to keep up marriage n when she realised that jai loves someone else she was hurt as a wife

again pammi's one sideed relationship was a hopeless case n she too realised it n gave up pammi loved kavya from a very long time butu she knew that he loved anju more than her life still she married him n as expexcted it was a sure faliure case

arpita was in love with yug i wud call her another reva n yet another foolish case coz she knew that yug doesnt love her she knew that he was a flirt she knew that he would never be commited to her but still she wanted ti tie him n thats the end of thier relationship kavya loving anju now that i wud call a sesnsible case not becoz its kavyanjali coz when kavya met anju he saw in anju's eyes some feelings for himself n so he went n stopped the marriage n took such a big step when ur sure of the person's love for u even if its 1% u will get the confidence in u n thats what happened in kavya's case though anju hated kavya those days she had a sense of affection in her eyes (may be becoz she spent so many romantic moments with kavya as anjum)which showed n which kavya saw n so he loving her i wont call it fooloish

again yug loving anju i dont think hes wrong coz hes well aware of the fact that anju doesnt love him n he doesnt expect anythin from anju in return to his love coz he knows he lost her coz of himself n so now he loves her supports her but doesnt expect anythin other than trust n friendhsip

now i come to the eternal yogya jodi sohu n anju ok now according to me sohu is attracted to anju n after the farm house incident he has started respecting anju coz in today's world today's men like sohu who have never visited to india have hardly seen women like anju who loves her husband more than her life even after hes gone n hes still alive in her so now hes started respecting her one step further attraction so i wont call it a 1 sidded relationship yet

so my moral of one sided love is its better to forget as some of the foolish cases have no future

so 1 sided relationship do work if know that the person u love has atleast 1% affection for u or has some feelings then yes it does work but in a relationship one sidded relationship without the person u love having no feelings for u its gonna end n the end is disastorous so i feel we shud avoid these kinds of relationships

or otherwise if u really love the person in its real sense then i guess what according to me love is loving one unconditionally that if u love a person u cant expect anythin from the person or rather i shall put it as in love u just give if u expect a person to love u expect him/her to be urs even if u know thier hapiness is some where else then i wont call it love i would rather call it a selfish infatuation n in love u never are selfish

n i do beleive in the fact that loving once is better than not loving anyone at all even if it isnt returned coz as i said love is only about giving not expecting n taking thats y they say love is unconditional

n havent u guys heard the krish song dil na diya dil na diya to bolo na bolo kya kiya kiya

so its better to love once than not oving anyone n according to me every human beings falls in love atleast once well exept brahamacharis😆

pls take no offense i told what i feel honestly 😳

n hope dint bore u with my psycho theories psychology student hone ka yeh ek lauta disadvantage hai😳

love

anu

kya baat hai anu aaj kal tum bhi anjali ki tarhaan bohut lambe lambe lecture likhtei hoo!!!!!!!! anything special anu beta😛sorry(lol)

yh man i h8 dese 1 syded relationshipz cz dey neva wrk out!!!!!!!!!!! 🤢

Originally posted by: kavyanjaliforev

kya baat hai anu aaj kal tum bhi anjali ki tarhaan bohut lambe lambe lecture likhtei hoo!!!!!!!! anything special anu beta😛sorry(lol)

i was expecting somethin like this 😆 but no dear nothin special as i said i am a psychology student n when u are in a learning a subject like psychology beleive me u give the student any topic n they just go on go on go on 😆 like me thats what i said disadvantage 😉😆

love

anu