Adults -insecurity

In PV - adults in their pride have made so called wise decision again in their own self interest and ego and boy height of emotional blackmailing. Keep conditions that are only going to be in there favor , In reality they don't want tension in family, their word is last word, they say day its day they say night its night


I have seen this in many families under the big umbrella of emotional love for children often parents have strong control over them. Directly indirectly they have control over their kids even after marriage, they all say they have nothing to do with how their daughter and especially son is leading their life but in reality unknowingly they impose. Constant pressure of obligation from parents keeps kids under pressure.

They always feel if the child is going to be in control then he will take care of them when old. Why parents have this feeling. We as kids will take care of them if we are humans so why emotional blackmailing and insecurity.
Another thing why people have to blame wife for changing son . If women in general had that power why they would be battered all over the world and have sudden outburst.