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Posted: 13 years ago
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why all are focussing only on jagya.he is the only one to commit all crimes.he dosent understand any one .thats his problem. what about dadisa.
has she not done any mistake .anandi suffered a lot by dadisa.because of her she lost her education.she tried to remarry jagya. regarding child birth she was like devil.. she used to dominate others . no wonder she earned money for that she lives others life and want to take all decisions.
but suddenly she changed as mahan ... she is the root cause for many problems. jagdish left anandi. and wants his share thats it .
he is a fool better anandi can leave him.. but what about dadisa . over focussing of jagt and gauri and protraying them fully evil.
jagt saved anandi from kidnappers. he love his family . but since gauri is a devil she wont leave him from her clutches . on that time if anandi was stubborn may be jagya wont be with gauri.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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we cant blame dadisa bcoz she is illiterate n she just did wat happened with her ...there r so many women in rural areas who does this in real in rajasthan even now but they r not bad people...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirankesan

why all are focussing only on jagya.he is the only one to commit all crimes.he dosent understand any one .thats his problem. what about dadisa.

has she not done any mistake .anandi suffered a lot by dadisa.because of her she lost her education.she tried to remarry jagya. regarding child birth she was like devil.. she used to dominate others . no wonder she earned money for that she lives others life and want to take all decisions.
but suddenly she changed as mahan ... she is the root cause for many problems. jagdish left anandi. and wants his share thats it .
he is a fool better anandi can leave him.. but what about dadisa . over focussing of jagt and gauri and protraying them fully evil.
jagt saved anandi from kidnappers. he love his family . but since gauri is a devil she wont leave him from her clutches . on that time if anandi was stubborn may be jagya wont be with gauri.
pls give your views


yes ds did lots of mistake...lots...and she roots of some of them...like basant and gahan marige and their 1st night and all...
i totalllyy agree with u
but their was never like 1st wife alive and go 4 2nd or she supported extra martial affair...she was all anpadr gawanr and belifs where off all that ancient times...
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she changed and if people change for good we should acept them for their good,even in real life if we still go on pointing and taunting them then its off no good..then rather then changing they will again go back..no,one should forget and give encouragment and pat back to move on ...and thats what DS did...she realised and corrected..now seee...widows remarige...treatment to widows...education to female..jelousy thinking if wife more educated and all will not listen to hubby...buw she realises she was wrong...isnt this proof enuf now anadi doing study...she dint let her son ever become sirpunch but she dint stoped anadi to become one and go ahead in life and be progressive...
dont discourage people who realise their mistake and now want to rectify it but encourage them..so that they wont look back and can easily move forward wth more open mind and thinkin(specially guilt..coz it will never let u move forward their will always be some darr left inside u to move forward)...past makes present and present is wht will make future...dont turn it with present should be off past...evrything will be destroyed..we can never move on...i think this must have been in writers head..i thats y love this serial cuz it satays on earth with normal people thinking..a perfect serial to called as truly on ground and down to earth


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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think it is fine that dadisa has changed!! people changes...people realizes their mistake and repents! DS is doing the same thing here and of course the change is not all of a sudden! it has taken time...and this is a positive change...what is wrong in that positive change? 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

i think it is fine that dadisa has changed!! people changes...people realizes their mistake and repents! DS is doing the same thing here and of course the change is not all of a sudden! it has taken time...and this is a positive change...what is wrong in that positive change? 😕


ufcourse..so true...people do cahnges..change is the most prominent and happening thing in life of evry people...and DS too changed,her past amde her what she was..but now she was stying with more advance and positve thinking people,,,and they were able to change her finnaly...bhairo tried and then sumitra and then gahana and then basant too joined and then anandi..so many people tried there effort payed and see now she is the most loveliest and funniest character atm in BV..lolzz..her dreams her words her lines so commedy...so appreciate it..y going in past..it wont help...and DS changed that too for positve thoughts...its so good...so enjoy in the gloryy of new new words DS is suing and joking around and dreaming...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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as far as dadisa'a fault is concerned...yes its true that she commited many mistakes n anandi suffered a lot due to them..not only anandi but also other family members suffered due to dadisa's stubborn nature n old beliefs...BUT we have to look to reason why she was like that. she was widow who had two sons to up bring n was alone at that time but she fought hard for survival n brought up her sons providing them every comfort struggling alone from the whole male dominated society. somehow this must have add stubborn ness to her attitude...on the top of that she was uneducated and believed that all customs n traditions are made for good by the elders without judging their rationality like any other illetrate old villager...but when she saw that due to her decisions n social evil like child marriage anandi's life as been destroyed. she changed herself for good...in fact we shuold give credit to her that at this age she managed to change her whole perspective upside down for her daughter in law because she is good at heart n believed jagya has done wrong with anandi.

as far as jagya is concerned...well he had completely diff atmosphere...understanding parents, intelligent n beautiful wife...most imp of all he was educated n broad minded...then also he cheated anandi...he forget everything she did for him...it was because of her that he managed to convince everyone for studying in mumbai...but when he found gauri which at that time perfectly matched his requirement of "ideal, educated, smart wife" he betrayed anandi to be with her...as far as the fact that he saved her from kidnappers is concerned...welll he is not a complete villain ...he still cherished his childhood friendship n memories with anandi n also accepted once that he has done wrong to her...so may be because of that guilt he has helped anandi...but this doesn't change the fact that he has betrayed her trust n acted as selfish, self centered jerk...now with the growing influence of gauri in his life he has also lost his rational thinking...so anandi should not go back to him in any case.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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like wise jagdish also can change. gauri cannot take any negative advice . so she cannot prove her self. i dont say jagya is correct but if dadisa can change and people accept her why cant jagya...
jagya atleast can be truthful to gauri...whatever happens. let them repend for their mistakes. but they can live their lives.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirankesan

like wise jagdish also can change. gauri cannot take any negative advice . so she cannot prove her self. i dont say jagya is correct but if dadisa can change and people accept her why cant jagya...

jagya atleast can be truthful to gauri...whatever happens. let them repend for their mistakes. but they can live their lives.


yes...i m shure in due coarse of time jagat will change and will realise his mistake but nw he wont be tied up to anandi any more and he will be then ligally husband of gauri..even if they both will feel like air going out of their nose yet tehy both have to tolerate echother..family will forgive him but i know they wont let him go near anandi any more...and its not so easy ke jagat will realise mistake so easily..so dw..by the time he relaise all will be lost..in DS case she did mistake but her intention was always to have good for her son and family...thats y she was given chances and all saw she is nto bad 4rm heart so see..evry one was rewarded with one way or other...jagat lolzzz..what he has done even if they all forgives him he will be all empty..coz some mistakes are not rectifibale... and jagat was given not one or 2 chances but thousand of chances to retcify his mistake...so ftr certain time bad goes worse no one wants to bang their head more on steelll...and ds was shown like a coconut...just little effort was required to open the coconut and crak it..it was finnaly cracked and now its yuummyyy inside ...
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