Jagias defense what is his mistake to get punished

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Sreder23

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Posted: 13 years ago

I was watching this episode but could not understand why Jagias charector is a bad guy and why he gets blamed in the forum. We all are against getting married early so we all support these marriages not working properly and he went to college seen the world and understoond what is true love and he fell in love with a girl who infact matches to his height and education. He fought for his love which he should and married her lover.He got married t, it is not his mistake for his child marriage and he did't decide that. He always showed respect to elders and treaetd Anandi as a very good friend.

He always kept his righteous he did't chaet with Gauri, he came for the rescue of Anandi when she needs help and always tried to get to his parents and get their respect. He should not be blamed for their parents misatke. He came in rescue to his Bade Dadi just witha phone call. .

I don't blame him for asking for his share, his parents are not even paying money for his college forget about his share.Keep yourself in that situation if yo uare owner of crores of rupees and brought up like that and your EX wife gets the hold of the people and the property. You will look for options to get your share unless you are a mahan person.

Just like a regular person he gets angry jealousy etc and he even left the hospital because they are not being right.

He lost his college to come close to the family now he lost money also.

In real world If I am in their parents palce I would understand my son understand my mistake and remarry both of them they like but never ditch my son like that. He is not a bad person...

Of all the people Jagia is victim , Anadi gets new marriage and all the love poor guy Jagia gets nothing because he went for his true love and went against child marriage.

It is atleast my opinion.

Jagia supporter...

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runes

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Posted: 13 years ago

😆First of all are you only a Jagya supporter or a Gauri supporter too? And did u start watching BV recently????

Why people bash Jagya:

-He cheated & two timed both Anandi and Gauri. That is not called true love. He just wanted an upgraded version of his wife.

-He insulted Anandi when she went to Mumbai by calling her gawar and refused to even acknowledge her even though it was Anandi who sent him to Mumbai

-He married Gauri illegally by bribing the clerk even though Anandi was his legal wife at that time. BTW, Bigamy is a crime in India and can lead to 7yrs time in prison

-And his way of asking for his share in property was wrong. He actually blackmailed his family which is illegal

-He left his family and insulted them for Gauri. Even Gauri respects her own parents and fights with Jagat if he insults them

-And Jagya doesn't deserve any property. Did he earn it himself???No. Parents are entitled to give the property to anyone they like. He left his family for his True Love then why does he expect to receive anything from them? How can u blackmail ur own family???????? And you think there is nothing wrong in blackmailing to get ur own haq????

And seriously how can u blame Anandi for getting support of the Singh's???? Singh's are supporting what is right. So even if ur son commits murder u should accept him and support him just because he ur son??? And DIL always remains a stranger even though she invested most of her life taking care of their happiness. That is so unfair. Jagat was wrong and he exploited Anandi's goodness... and they should still support Jagat and accept Gauri as their DIL.

And anyway I fully support Jagya because he is the most realistic character of Balika Vadhu. 😆😆

And just in case u start defending Gauri:

-She married an already married guy and lives as his mistress

-She screams at everyone around her even when it is her own faults

-She likes to blame other people for her own mistakes especially Anandi

-She comes uninvited to Jetsar and trespasses to haveli

-She yells at the Singhs and even disrespects them

-She yelled at Bhairon when he financially helped her and funded her education

-She yelled at Badi Masi when she was critically ill

-She yelled at Anandi on phone and "killed" her own child and then blamed Anandi for it

-Tried to use her own child "Parivaar ka Chiraag" to gain entry in to the haveli

-She is the main reason why Jagat was not allowed to give his exams

-She challenges a mother that her child will never return to her and schemes and plots to win the challenge

-Taunts Sumitra whenever she has a chance

Wow Gauri's list is a lot longer than Jagat. Now I truly sympathize with Jagat 😆 I wonder why people say J-G should get equal punishment lol.

And even if he married his True Love.. he and his mistress has no right to poke their nose into other people's business and just come and yell whenever they feel like it.

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

who matches his height and ecuation ...

yo have taken i to another level.

so now ur also finding anandi physically deficent and unfit becuase of her shorter height in addition to being uneducated.

wow indian men!!!!

by the way in the west sHort girls r considered quite feminien and attractive. they r considered curvier, prettier and more , yes u wud be surprised more youthful than tall girls , are preferred by manyeven 6 feet+ tall men . imo height has nothign to do with a oerson being beautiful or attractive.salma haayek, winona ryder , riya sen all r short but they look gorgeous and so ds anandi!in the west people dont want ramp models , they want partners. but indian men! of all other things they wANT HEIGHT. trapped in the mindset they choose to ignore any other virtue the girl may have!

im against people stripping someone from a sense of self worth merely due to deficiency in one physical asset.

anyway for your information anand may be shorter in height, but so are sumitra and gehna, their husband sdid not chuck them for their height. amitabh did not chuck jaya, imraan did not chuck avantika. bhagyashree wudnt be married. inspite of being short anandi is a much larger persona than that gr8 heigted gawari who has nothign to her credit. anandi ka vyaktitva vishaal hai aur gauri ka itna chhota ki dikhayi bhi nahi deta.

forget child marriage, so many people still go in for arranged marriages , so even they have the right to chuck their wives when someone attractive comes along.

waah.

i dont support jagiya, never can. somethign r more important than arousal.rsponsibility for instance.

any sane man would find anandi more beautiful than gauri anyday.

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

also jagiya is educated becuase of anandi. she used to do hishimework while little.

she encouraged,supported,sacrificed for him.

and gauri got paka pakaya maal!

and anandi is uneducated because of jagiya ... dadisa quickly realisin anandi was much moe intelligent tha jagiya , burnt her bookls and denied her education so that she cud respect and serve jagiya when she grew up.

and that jagiya chose to leave her! so chuking anandi for being ueducated is like victimising the victim.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

tm tumhare sawalon ka jawab dena bekaar hoga kyonki jo bhi jagya ke virodh mein jawab diya jaayega tum usse kabhi agree nahi karoge .kyonki jisko sub pata ho ki jagya ne kya kiya hai phir bhi woh jagya ko galat nahi sahi maanta hai .to mere khayal se aise sawal ka jawab dena bekaar hai ki jagya ki kya galti hai jo use sajaa milni chahiye

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Neutral2

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am neutral and able to justify in both direction
1. What was jagya fault?
Ans):- He consummate his marriage (complete it by having sex) at the age of 19. This is very critical age. Since the legal age of man for marriage is 21 but if he consummate his child marriage after 18 it is very difficult to nullify the marrige.
However he cant be blame fully because his environment is so much pollute that even any good man will do that mistake. Jagya's friends already do sexual pleasure with their wife at age of before 15.
Next he fall in love with guari at the age 19-20 but did not try to cancel his previous marriage. Why? Doesn't have the responsibility of life of anandi, his most good friend. He didn't even inform her. May be he fear that bhairon would not fund for his mbbs. So he tricked to hide everything until his study got completed. He is just a normal person. How many of u have a dare to complete ur graduation on ur own when ur parents have crore of rupees? If he is true person he would face the situation, try to free anandi completely. But he is a selfish person.

I dont support child marriage. I agree with u (@sreder23) that college is the good medium to seen the world. The age of 18 is the best age to learn by urself, think independantely without interferance of parents. But i am against jagat. He did sexual commitment to anandi. He himself admit that he mistaken good friendship as love. So he lost all right to blame child marriage. There are many cases of nullifying child marriage. I have read an article about girl who understood that she can't live with her child marriage husband. She maintain distance with her husband, living in her mayka, doesn't consummate her marriage. Even then she face difficulty as she is now 21 and her husband demand to return his wife lawfully.
So dont support jagat.

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malika

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think jagiya was not wrong when initially he fell in love with gauri.What he felt was the most natural emotion in that age.Moreover Gauri was just like him,independent and modern,and into a profession he loved.He could easily match her to the way he had foreseen his life partner. Till this point of time Jagiya was not wrong.Obviously if he would have loved gauri and yet been with Anandi,then that would also be termed as cheating.But the first wrong step from Jagiya's side came when he hid the reality and started mistreating Anandi.

I think there is always a very small difference between right and wrong.In case of Jagiya loving gauri was not wrong but hiding it and mistreating anandi was the fault.This is where his selfishness comes in to picture.He wanted a comfortable college life.He knew if his family comes 2 know abt his love either his studies would be stopped or all the monetary help from his family would be withdrawn as his family considered Anandi as an ideal daughter-in-law.He definitely didnt want that.And thus without even considering once abt what Anandi will go thru when she comes to know abt it,he continued to rise the levels of his selfishness.

I disagree on the fact that he was Anandi's friend.If he had been then he should have told Anandi abt his feelings.He should have had humanly concern for her and acknowledged the fact that It wasnt that she faltered in any of her duties but rather it was he who fell for someone else.He should have,at an early stage only, confessed his truth.If he would have done like that,then I am sure Anandi would have understood.She would have understood that it would be much better that she separates from jagiya than spoiling three lives.But he never told her the truth. Rather whenever he used to come to Jaitser he used to make Anandi feel down upon.He insulted and ridiculed her.He never acknowledged the fact that when he was busy enjoying with his gf, it was Anandi who took care of his family.Forget friend If he would have been even a good person,he would have felt for Anandi's pain and tried to ensure that because of his mistake her life doesnt get soiled.

I would again say that Loving someone is never wrong...But the first thing what True love does is make u a good person.When true love comes in ur life u start loving and feeling for every1.U become sensitive towards pain.Not only u feel for ur love but for all lovers u evr come across. If Jagiya actually felt True love then he should have understood the pain of losing true love and shud have supported Anandi rather than insulting her.And on that parameters I still doubt that whether Jagiya ever felt true love with Gauri!

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ankit111

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Posted: 13 years ago

Good atleast one fan Jaggu hs, ofcourse apart from me. 😉 😉 otherwise poor Jaggu hs become sacrificing goat. To justify Pizza madam ALL blame put on poor Jaggu dada. Even people love him but fear to openly claim, becoz it wd weaken G position 😉 😉 people defend his actions, but atlast not forget to mention tht they r not defending him and hate him 😉 😉 but chalo, atleast one fan dare to say openly, tht he love poor Jaggu 😆 😆

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: princessyashika
I think jagiya was not wrong when initially he fell in love with gauri.What he felt was the most natural emotion in that age.Moreover Gauri was just like him,independent and modern,and into a profession he loved.He could easily match her to the way he had foreseen his life partner. Till this point of time Jagiya was not wrong.Obviously if he would have loved gauri and yet been with Anandi,then that would also be termed as cheating.But the first wrong step from Jagiya's side came when he hid the reality and started mistreating Anandi.

I think there is always a very small difference between right and wrong.In case of Jagiya loving gauri was not wrong but hiding it and mistreating anandi was the fault.This is where his selfishness comes in to picture.He wanted a comfortable college life.He knew if his family comes 2 know abt his love either his studies would be stopped or all the monetary help from his family would be withdrawn as his family considered Anandi as an ideal daughter-in-law.He definitely didnt want that.And thus without even considering once abt what Anandi will go thru when she comes to know abt it,he continued to rise the levels of his selfishness.

I disagree on the fact that he was Anandi's friend.If he had been then he should have told Anandi abt his feelings.He should have had humanly concern for her and acknowledged the fact that It wasnt that she faltered in any of her duties but rather it was he who fell for someone else.He should have,at an early stage only, confessed his truth.If he would have done like that,then I am sure Anandi would have understood.She would have understood that it would be much better that she separates from jagiya than spoiling three lives.But he never told her the truth. Rather whenever he used to come to Jaitser he used to make Anandi feel down upon.He insulted and ridiculed her.He never acknowledged the fact that when he was busy enjoying with his gf, it was Anandi who took care of his family.Forget friend If he would have been even a good person,he would have felt for Anandi's pain and tried to ensure that because of his mistake her life doesnt get soiled.

I would again say that Loving someone is never wrong...But the first thing what True love does is make u a good person.When true love comes in ur life u start loving and feeling for every1.U become sensitive towards pain.Not only u feel for ur love but for all lovers u evr come across. If Jagiya actually felt True love then he should have understood the pain of losing true love and shud have supported Anandi rather than insulting her.And on that parameters I still doubt that whether Jagiya ever felt true love with Gauri!

IN INDIAN village set up these mature talks do not apply. and even if from a modern feminist point of view.

what if after growing up anandi did not like jagiya and fell for smone else? would it be condonable/pardonable?

when u defend jagiya for having found his true lov after getting free from child marriage trap, think did anandi have that choice? can any anandi ever have a choice?

now she ds but while she was married and bahu? no.

women r supposed to accept and obey men while men can go and find true love. convinient.

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Pratishtha Dsouza

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: earth1978
who matches his height and ecuation ...

yo have taken i to another level.

so now ur also finding anandi physically deficent and unfit becuase of her shorter height in addition to being uneducated.

wow indian men!!!!

Ya, right, now what does height have to do with anything, height makes partners unfit LOL
My husband is 6 feet 1, I am barely 5 feet, my 7-year-old daughter is already up to my chin, more than anything its amusing actually and the height factor, we never ever once thought about it, others pointed it out but it was never an "issue." Plus they got married as children, how is one to know who will grow how tall 😆😆

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