Ahem and love: grounded but shaken

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swasthi

@swasthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ahem's humanitarian action and guilt leaves a lot to be desired of. He began to see and realise that this situation and Anita were getting harder to contain and manage as it had encroached on his personal life.

Ahem knows where his heart is for sure; enough to instantly apologise, tell the truth of what happened and state his solution to his wife Gopi. He was fed up of keeping up this charade as he could see the toll it was taking on his wife and him. He missed the warmth that Gopi projected when she did things for him and noticed her distancing from him. He had expressed in no uncertain terms that he wanted them to get back to how their life.

Ahem's game of deception had brought him more trouble than he ever anticipated. He looked on and was fraught with the past, Anita, and present, Gopi, overlapping and one fading in while the other fading out. First it was his sari that she let Anita to wear and now she permitted her to tie the tie. He was watching this enactment play out through the tie scene leaving him very disconcerted.

Yet his heart soared with love from the little scolding his wife gave him for hurting himself again. He was so lost in this moment.

Ahem knows that his is grounded in love with his Gopi but he realises that his foundation of his marriage is visibly shaken. What will he do to bring it back to the way it was?

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ll-Shilpa-ll

@SIP1997

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Wonderful analysis Swasthi. You have decribed Ahem's state of mind to the T.

He is very much in love with his wife and today he has shown us where Ahem wants Anita to be, in his past where she belongs.

He loved the way Gopi scolded him gently like a typical wife and when she put the bandaid on his finger his words, "it is fine now," was as if he were saying her love and care made it fine. It is as if she had kissed the injury to make it better.

Having said this, instead of taking action he is muddling things more by not being honest with Anita, he is going to make the situation worse before he makes it better.

He loves Gopi yes, but he was not firm enough with Anita when he refused for her to tie his tie. He saw how Gopi felt by Anita's familiarity with him, he could see Gopi was feeling inadequate compared to Anita, yet all he did was look on and felt uncomfortable.

If Ahem doesn't put his guilt aside soon, Gopi is going to end up hurting badly.

Koki's idea of teaching Gopi to be assertive is good, but let's face it Gopi won't learn this overnight and there will be times when she will be unsure.

Anita will keep undermining Gopi's position in his life and he needs to be firm with Anita and let her know in no uncertain terms what Gopi means to him.

Both Gopi and Ahem are too worried about Anita's state of mind and not realizing what this could do to their marriage.

I hope Ahem starts being active instead of passive with Anita. Because if he keeps treating her with kid gloves god help them all.

Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Wonderfully analysed Swasthi and that was a superb PoV Shilpa..

I have not watched it yet but this gives me a fair idea...

@Shilpa -I do agree that as Gopi becomes assertive from her end, Ahem needs to be assertive from his end too..

This may happen the minute ahem gets to know that Anitha knows the truth about the phone calls which can be during their 'outing'.. But agree... GoHem need to talk about Anitha even if it is uncomfortable.. Hopefully this track gets them there.. To actually share their discomfort and try to get their past closed all together😊

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FlowerHater

@FlowerHater

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Posted: 13 years ago

loved it to the core !!!!!1 lovely analysis swasthi and shilpa!!!! two days b4 I was determined skipping this weeks epi but now I wont !!!!!! I will surely see whatever I wished during this dragging period of 3 weeks as from 2day the main story has started and seems promising!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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hridayh

@hridayh

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Posted: 13 years ago

VERY NICELY ANALYSED BY U ALL,. the day ahem get to kno,..the truth that anitha kno,..abt,.her marraige,.or if,they find the cd,..then,...they should not drag,..more,..thisone..love to see gOHEM ..2GETHER,.👏👏👏⭐️,..

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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

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Posted: 13 years ago

I haven't watched the episode yet, but I can firmly say that Ahem loves Gopi without a doubt. I do agree that Gopi needs to be more assertive and needs to be less lenient with Anita and her antics. I never in my wildest dreams thought Anita would fall for Ahem or think he is still in love with her...

But as with all other tracks, we will wait this out and in the end GoEm are going to come out shining and that is all we need to concentrate on. There is nothing that can come between GoEm.

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zeezee09

@zeezee09

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thumbs-up Swasthi for a well written piece, Your observations, as always is apt and sincere. I am looking forward to this new track where the relationship between Ahem and Gopi will blossom and Anita is merely a medium to carry forward this development!

Poor Anita's heart will be broken once more - pity her, no girl should go through this situation ever.

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-neela-

@-neela-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Excellent anaylsis Swasthi ⭐️ 😊

Ahem and Gopi really need to work on their communicationwith each other and others because by not saying how they feel and letting Anita come between them like today, they are all heading for major misunderstandings.

Ahem noticed how crest fallen Gopi was when she said she doesn't know how to tie a tie. This then moved to her feeling even lower and uncomfortable when Anita just waltz in and took over. Ahem seeing and feeling for Gopi will make him even more determined to sort out the situation with Anita.

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varshu27

@varshu27

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Posted: 13 years ago

fantastic analysis swasthi and great povs from everyone...today ahem showed gopi that he wants her and only her...he told her he wants anithas chapter to be overwith and they could go back to their happy and sane lives...gopi looked like she understood what ahem meant...gopi needs to learn to say no and stand up for herself...she needs to voice whats on her mind...ahem needs to be assertive with anitha too...he needs to let her know why he did play nilesh to begin with...anitha is crazy...here gohem are worried about her mental state...where as she is happy thinking herself to be ahems destiny...anitha is in for a rude awakening...thats for sure...