Puner Vivah episode 05/04/2012... with eva...

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In short superb episode today... I had a feeling that Yash is not going to blow up at his mom because that is not he will probably do but he will deal with it in his own way..

Listening to Ansh he was totally shocked and looked at his mom with a little sensor in his eyes. He got up from the floor right away and asked looking at Aarti as why nobody told him about this incident... In directly he praised Aarti that she did not complaint about his mom to him...

Aarti just lifted her eyes to look at him. Yash then leaves the side of his daughters and goes to bring water for that terrified little kid. Ansh was crying being terrified of the punishment and of that dark room. He holds his mother tightly and was crying his heart out... Yash could not see him in that condition and he offers him water and feeds him with his own hand and after he drinks he calls Pratik and gives him the glass and ruffles Ansh's hair lovingly cupping his face with a tender smile. Gayatri notices this behavior.. Aarti asks forgiveness from all saying she is sorry for Ansh breaking down the computer and Gayatri tries to put the front of her motherly love says oh it is ok what if computer is broken but she was worried about the kids and Aarti should take Ansh and make him feel comfortable.. She also asks Aarti if Ansh was taught the computer and she says no there is no computer class in his school. And Gayatri makes the remarks that Payal and Palak has started learned it long back and if Ansh did not know he should have asked them... Yash listens to all her remarks and taunting and notices the treatment and difference Ansh was being given. Yash looks at his mother and knows that she was not at all sincere with this remark but he holds his peace and does not say a word.

He also notices how Palak goes to her Gma and complains about the computer being broken by Ansh and now what would they do about it. Yash calls her near him and tells her that their daddy will bring new computer for them and they do not need to worry. So Payal and Palak are happy and give him a kiss.

Yash could have teach payal and palak to share their stuff with Ansh but he did not do such things when they say that Ansh should not be touching the computer and that he will destroy it again but looking at his face he knows what he is doing and that he did notice everything and he will deal with them at the right time.

]So the girls go to get ready... and Yash walks in the pool area where he sees Aarti and Ansh sitting... Ansh had his head on Aarti's lap and Aarti was trying to make him feel better. Yash stops there and watches how Aarti is trying to sooth the pain and the fear and a feel of rejection from this little boy's heart. Yash heart goes for this little boy and his status of fear and rejection. He hears Aarti saying that nothing happened and everything will be alright but Ansh has a feeling it will not and he wanted to go to his grand parents house where he felt safe and secure.. The expressions on Yash face were to go and hug that little boy and take away the fear but he holds his peace. Aarti tries to give him the assurance and also tells that as they are new in this house people do not know them and once they will know them all will be friend and specially Gma who always loves good boys... Yash was in total awe of the magnanimous of this lady as she never once said any negative things about his family even though they have been treated badly by his own mom. Aarti had tears in her eyes looking at the condition of her little baby but she keeps the brave face and makes her son feel little better. She changes the subject and tells him about his lunch which her loves and that she has given him exactly the way he likes it... Ansh is little but is very perceptive and he just does not say a word but now he is ready to go to school..


They get up and Yash wanted to go behind the pillar but Aarti's eyes fall on him they look at each other. Aarti's eyes as if little hurt and she looks straight at him as if asking him why do my son need to go through all these?... Right now Yash could not answer the question in her eyes and he lowers his eyes but he is determined to deal with the issue in his own ways. So Aarti leaves with Ansh... As he was about to go toward the outer court of his house his daughters come running ready for school. Yash tells them that he will drop them but the girls tell him that their Taouji will drop them. So Yash picks them up and goes out to drop them near the car. Yash sees Punkaj ready to go and he softly puts his girls down and asks for the kiss as usual and they give him kiss and remind him of their new computer.

So the girls go with their uncle and Yash sees his mom doing the Tulsi puja. He looks at that and comes near his mom to talk with her in private

He asks if Ansh did some mischief yesterday. So Gayatri had to say yes he did and that is why I punished him like I always to with all my grand children. Yash says Yes I know that You keep no difference between Payal and Palak and Ansh and you must have done wisely which he already knew that she did not but instead of telling her that she was wrong he takes the other route telling her that she must be right and indirectly telling her that if she was wrong she should not repeat it. He also tells her that Ansh is new in the household and does not know the rules and regulations and it will take time for him to adjust and it will be his responsibilities to see to it that Ansh is trained likewise and that he will not give any chance for his mother to be upset at Ansh.. So telling her that if she is upset at Ansh again she has she has to deal with him for that .Also he tells her that she needs to be patient with him.. Gayatri was bit terrified by this subtle talk from Yash as she knows that this son of her has no nonsense way about him and he will not tolerate any partiality from her. She tries to act as hurt and tries to bring her rights as grand mother.. Yes Yash agrees with them but also gives her indirectly caution that he will take care of Ansh and he will make sure that she is not disturbed in her ways.. So Gayatri almost runs from there as Yash has a habit of his father to directly go for the root cause...</font>[/P][B" So after dealing with his mom in his subtle but effective way his gaze falls on Aarti and Ansh waiting at the gate for the school bus. He watches and sees Aarti talking on the phone. He goes near and asks what was the matter and Aarti tells him that the bus is broken on the way and so she will make alternate arrangement and take Ansh by rickshaw. Yash offers to take him to the school and asks her the address of the school. She give the address but tells him not to worry she will manage but Yash gives her his famous silent sideways look and Aarti just shuts up.. Loved the way looked at Aarti and she just knew not to mess up with him at that time...

So Yash brings his black car around and leans and asks Ansh to sit in the car but Ansh is still holding his mom and looks at his mom... Aarti tells him that she needed to go as she needs to talk to teacher. Yash tells her that he will give lift to her as well so Aarti sits in the front seat taking Ansh in her lap.. She sits without seat belt and that also in front sit with the kid?????

So Yash sees Ansh and his docile status and tires to cheer him up by asking what he would like to listen and gives him his CDs to select but Ansh is just quite. Aarti likes his asking him but then feels sad as Ansh does not response as usual in his jolly good mood. She just holds him tightly and strokes his face and makes him feel that she is there with him. Yash receives a phone call reminding him that he needed to go for an important meeting. Yash promises that he will be there in time.

Yash looks at all these and his heart goes after this little boy but as he knows that whatever he will say or do is not going to bring that energetic boy back in short time so he holds his peace and keeps all that in his mind..

She asks about Paridhi and Aarti and comes to know that they both are on their favorite errands. She tells the good bahu Vidhi that poor thing she still has to work hard as ever even though she got two more people to help her... She starts her instigation right away. She even tells pratik that he needs to keep a control on his wife. She watches how Gayatri tries to justify Paridhi's going to work and then witnesses her forgetfulness with a phone call for paridhi.. She did not like Aarti's going out with her husband as she was deprived from all that previlage...</font>[/P]
[P]So in short the jealous buva is back to make Aarti's life little more difficult but I think now Paridhi cannot do her manipulations with her MIL as Buva is pretty smart and will tell her on the face... She is just jealous of Aarti as she got the second chance with the life and she did not get. So she is going to be after Aarti to make her life miserable and that brainless Gayatri will dance per her tune... buckle up Aarti your stupid MIL got a help to come after you.

Meanwhile Aarti is walking Ansh to the school. He is pretty quite and Aarti tries to cheer him up but he does not give his cheery response. Aarti's heart is just breaking but she keeps the cheerful front and kneels down to hug her son and tell him that his mother is with him but Ansh does not give any response as his heart is broken that his mother though was there but could not release him from that dark room His trust on his mother is shaky right now too... and that was the most disheartening thing for Aarti to watch the dejected and lonely Ansh climbing the stairs of the school without any enthusiasm where as he would be bouncing and competing to go first on the stairs...

With tears in her eyes she watches her son.. and so desperately wants her jovial and cheerful son back.

After finishing the work with the school she comes out and looks at something and is surprised...

The expressions on her face is not of the horrified surprise the way she might get if she sees Prashant but I think little bit of really surprised so it just means that Yash is waiting for her in the car even though he needed to go for the meeting on time. It really must have given her the pleasant surprise if Yash was there waiting for her as she knows that Yash is very punctual and would never ever go late for his meetings...

That's all dears and love to all for a great weekend...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks! Very nicely updated. I love the way you analyse the episodes😊😊.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Eva for the update.
It broke my heart to see Ansh & Aarti in pain.
I wish Yash would show more of the assertiveness he exhibited today.
I just can't see Aarti & her son making it in that house without Yash's support.

By the way, why Ansh continues to go to a different school?
When Yash had Ansh & Aarti in the car, I wished he would just drive to his daughters' school & register the poor boy.

With love xoxo
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Eva. Have you talked to Guru recently??

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Lovely analysis

Well, yes I guess majority were expecting Yash to blow up at Gayatri & many are disappointed after the episode. But I think, from many aspects what CV's have shown is right.

Just like a punishment in the name of discipline should not be that harsh that it scares & depresses the kid, similarly
Elders in the family should no where get a feeling that they have no right to say anything to their grand children & have no authority over them
& the way one talks to elders, speaks volumes about that persons values

I know we are all holding Gayatri wrong because she deliberately punished Ansh out of her ego & does not consider her a part of her family, though she says she does
But Yash does not know what's in her mind yet & even if he does, he wants to change it for better, just like Aarti does.
Even Aarti never says anything negative about Gayatri to Ansh despite the fact that Gayatri is her MIL & not MOTHER & Aarti is new to this house, has hardly spent time with Gayatri to understand her

Also, blowing up is out of character for Yash. If he would have reacted that way, It must have reminded all of MSK 😊 But that's one big difference between these 2 characters

If we look at Gayatri as our own mother, we will realize, that just for the sake of our kid, we would not like to insult our mother, that too, in front of everyone, that too when Daddy SIndhiya is not home (even Daddy Sindhiya avoids to scold Gayatri in front of his kids or bahus, just for the same reason, RESPECT in the eyes of younger genre)

Yes, Gayatri's punishment was too harsh for that kid.
But if Yash would have blown up on Gayatri in front of those 3 kids, just imagine, what impression will it leave on the mind of kids.
They'll think that in future Gayatri cannot say anything to them & if she does, they can blackmail her saying they'll complain to their father.
That will further spoil the kids & they'll disrespect the elders.

Yash neither ignored Ansh nor Gayatri.

Good thing is, he has taken his responsibility, which will not only make Ansh feel better but will help in Yash Ansh bonding, that is much needed & we all have been longing for 👍🏼

He has noticed a lot of things today as far as Ansh is concerned.
Like, Ansh needs a better school. May be as the new session starts, they will change his school & with that, mode of transport too
Girls are not happy to share things with Ansh

So lets see how CV's handle all this in coming episodes

But for me it was a learning.
Even I would have blown up, if I was caught in the same situation
but the way Yash reacted, only COOL HEADED & MATURED people can
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Originally posted by: Hodda



By the way, why Ansh continues to go to a different school?
When Yash had Ansh & Aarti in the car, I wished he would just drive to his daughters' school & register the poor boy.

With love xoxo


If I'm not wrong, the school girls are in, is not co-ed
Moreover, changing school in mid-session is not good for kids
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Posted: 13 years ago
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so much Eva ..ur heart touching and awesome WU..👍🏼 ..i will watch later on my days off..but Episode was very good.Yash silence his cuteness..and his eyes tells everything...Slowly Both are coming closer unknowingly ...and remember Yash dad said to that chudhail that This Ansh will bring them closer..which is very true...I hope PP are not end up like their granny..asap arti should take care of them..
Thanks again...
God bless u...👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It broke my heart to see Ansh & Aarti in pain.
I wish Yash would show more of the assertiveness he exhibited today.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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thanks for superb analysis evadi!! Yash,aarti,ansh awesome..😆
very nice episode..Yash handling aarti,ansh & Gay3 very well.👏
GC rocksss...🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i am not sure about others but I think Yash did the right thing,,,
They want to teach Ansh the discipline of being respectful to elders so he cannot be disrespectful to his own mother though she was not right.
But he did let her know privately in a very polite way that she does not need to worry about Ansh as he will take care of him personally and Ansh is his responsibilities..
He has seen Aarti molding herself in the role of the mother for his daughters in no time and also she does take good care of them lovingly so now it his high time that he step up as his father and bond with the boys..
It is actually his responsibilities. The way Aarti told that Principal that she will take care of girls and they will not lack the love of the mother the same way Yash needs to stand up for the Ansh and take the reposibilities as his father. Though the he is not expressive but he is a boy... a man he should better understand the tendency of the boys...
Actually I am glad that Yash dealth very wisely with this situation. That is why his father trustes him the most...

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