Pashu and his insecurities

So I am back after a break...caught up on last 7 episodes yesterday. I have never really enjoyed plots focusing on Pashu's aggressive side. It seems when such a plot comes, he takes away most of the screen time either yelling at others or crying and feeling sorry for himself. His dialogs tends to get prolonged and annoying. He is a great actor but it's the character that I start to dislike in this temperament. I thought he was done with his insecurities. Now his father loves him and he has such sweet doting wife who is pregnant with his first child. He should be the happiest person in C-house. But alas he is still crabby and fighting his insecurities by picking on a bai and Nitika. He is a typical male chauvinist who can't see women in authority.

Also, I seriously wonder who are the 5 C-members to vote against bai. Why do they have to always make it a win or lose by single vote. It would have been nice to show him get one (only his own) vote against bai.That would have been something new and fun.

On a side note, it is lovely to see all the bahus sticking together during family crisis, showing patience/concern and compromising to their level best. No matter what I still love this show.

Well put. I think Pashu's insecurities lies with in the fact that he does not know where to draw the line and when to let go. He feels just because he has raised someone , he alone has the only right on that person, to do as he wishes. Which shows his shortcomings. He does not realize that Ved has really been hurt this time, that you dont insult a man before his wife and that also, you change your attitude as the person grows older. Pashu, does not realize any of these and that shows his lack of wisdom. I am sad Ved is this hurt, Tej said it right, that a person who is always quite and always smiling , if they get angry, its nothing short of a volcanic eruption.

Pashu should get anger management classes. When he is angry, it is very difficult for him to come out of that zone and think rationally. I seriously hope they don't bring another hospital plot to fix the situation.

Although, I don't like Pashu's behavior - I have to give in to the great actor...

Like all of you said.. Pashu has a lot of insecurities.. but that was his character all the while.. he was always very vunerable to extreme emotions..

i find it odd that none told him that pashu is dong the same what he didi with pashu tej shop!!

1. he acts as if his shop- what stake do tej ved have? they have wives will have kids will they always borrwo or work in pashus shop not thier shop?
2. his house- elder fine but he dsnt treat nani dada as elders it is his decison so all shut up- or he talks in the matter of money isnce pitaji is elder n earns ok he can say after him its pashu as dada n nanai dnt earn they are just too old no say??
3. i dnt understand why the hell ddnt anyone bring up the mattero f ownership wth pashu, yes he raised them but does he care nothing of nayones relspect? he was saying that in shop ur work is just sellnig saris, why i have kept people, tej looked surproised but no words

i dnt understand why dadji and co are acting as if ved is maknig am istake, the way pashu hass ascted , bed still went ot the owrk he got treated as a srvant, when u are marreid nad tat tooin cicumstances where u have never stood by ur wife u do feel the need ot atleast be a man enuff ot get her respect. i dnt like dadjis gyan to ved that both ki glakti hai it iwasnt veds, at all, and i hate the fact that cvs are using the same isses with diff bros , seems like pashu has elizimers ghe dsnt remember his lessons

• hit prachi now ved- same result left house
• shop issues with tej- same with ved
• same issues iwth toasty then nikki - same result hubby k saath fight when rptrcting iwfe!

i wnat all the mmebers to actually poiint out at him that how worng is he and yes just being ld dsnt mean all will repsect u he needs to get this

Good points everyone 👍🏼

I don't know how in real life family members share profits and responsibilities if they are partners in a business. Most logical way is to distribute the profits equally among all brothers. They are all grown up/married and have needs. Let them learn to save and spend within their limits. I don't understand what's up with Pitaji keeping all the money with himself and giving away pocket money to his sons as if they are kids.

I don't think Pashu has ego or arrogance, rather I believe he has inferiority complex so if anyone especially women try to tell him something or try do things differently, it hurts him and he gets very angry. He is good at heart and love them all but when younger brothers or women in the house including bai show some authority, he becomes insecure and starts to defend himself in irrational way.

Hopefully, there will not be another hospital plot to fix this new tension in the house. I want to see a new and satisfying approach to this problem.